Kwabaningi bethu, i-akhawunti yenethiwekhi yezenhlalo isiyingxenye ebalulekile yokuphila. Sisebenzisana nekhasi lethu ukuze sikhulume nabangani, ebuhlotsheni nabathandekayo futhi njengethuluzi elihle kakhulu lokuthuthukisa ibhizinisi nokuzithuthukisa, kodwa ...
Kodwa ingabe wake wacabanga ukuthi okuthunyelwe kwakho nezithombe kungakutshela ngento ehlukile kulokho owahlelile? Eqinisweni, namuhla nanoma isiphi isazi esivela enkampanini ekhethekile ekusebenziseni abantu kuma-akhawunti amabili kuphrofayela yakho izonquma ukuthi ungubani njengomuntu, ubuhlobo bakho nomphakathi noma ngabe unenkinga engokwengqondo!
Ngelinye igama, ufuna ukulikholelwa, kodwa awufuni, kodwa uma ushicilela lezi zici zokuphila ezingu-6 ekhasini lakho, unesizotha esincane kakhulu!
1. Uhlala uqaphela indawo yakho
Maye, akukho lutho olungakujabulela ngalo, ngoba ukushicilelwa unomphela kwezinguquko zabanye kusho ukuthi akusikho ngokuphila kwakho okusebenzayo futhi okwenzekayo, kepha mayelana nendlela yokumemeza emhlabeni ukuze uqaphele, kubhekwe njengempumelelo futhi kuvunyelwe. Esikhundleni sabantu abanjalo, eziningi zezithombe ezihamba ngezinyawo, eziya ezitolo zokudlela ngisho nasuka kuma-cinema.
Ngokuvamile, abantu abanokuzethemba okukhulu ukuphawula ukuthi baye bavakashela endaweni ethile, nakanjani!
2. Uhlala ushicilela izithombe kusukela ku-gym
Ukubeka izithombe ekhasini le simulator noma emva kokuqeqesha, abantu bakholelwa ukuthi ngale ndlela bazothola "umuntu" osebenza emzimbeni wabo nokukhangisa kwabo ngokujwayelekile. Ngokwenza lokho, okuphambene nokho - ochwepheshe bathi kuphela amaphesenti amancane kamuva angaziqhenya ngemiphumela emihle, futhi iningi, ngaleyo ndlela, ligxile ekuceleleni othile ukuba aveze okuthile, okwenza kube nokugxeka okuningi ngisho nokuhleka usulu!
3. Uhlala ushicilela izithombe zalokho odlayo noma ozokudla!
Ukujabulela ukudla okunomsoco nokuhle kakhulu kuhle ngaso sonke isikhathi, kodwa ukuguqula le nqubo ibe "umphakathi" kusho ukuthi kungenzeka ukuthi ufuna ukukhangisa kwabanye.
Ngikholelwa, ngisho nabangane bakho abasondelene abanesithakazelo kulokho okungena esiswini sakho!
4. Wengeza "kubangani" abantu abaningi!
Izazi zezenhlalo kanye nezifo zengqondo zavuma ukuthi abantu abahlale befaka ohlwini lwabangani babo (futhi ngokuvamile nalabo abangabazi!) Bachitheke ekuziphenduleleni ngisho nokungazithandi! Futhi ngokuphambene - abantu abazi ukuthi bayabaluleka, bavumele ukuba "bangabangane" kuphela kwabakhethiweyo, abasondelene nalabo abagcina ngempela ubuhlobo empilweni yangempela!
5. Uziqhayisa ngokuthenga, ikakhulukazi uma kukhonjiswe izinto!
Ukuthengwa kuthandwa yiwo wonke amantombazane ngaphandle kokuhlukile, kodwa uma ukholwa ukuthi ukugubha ukuthengwa kwe-gizmos eyigugu negama elidumile liposi elihlukile enkundleni yezenhlalo, ungumuntu ongenqenqemeni ofuna ukubonwa futhi avunyelwe ukuziphatha kwakhe! Ucabanga ukuthi abantu abanesizotha ngokuhlelekile, bazochitha ngalesi sikhathi?
6. Uhlala ukhuluma ngendlela ozizwa ngayo!
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Qaphela, ngoba ngokuvamile ukucabanga ukuthi ushicilela ulwazi oluhle kuphela mayelana nawe kwinethiwekhi yokuxhumana, ungenza okuphambene nalokhu. Futhi ukwandisa ukuzethemba okungcono kakhulu ngosizo nokusekelwa kochwepheshe.