Yiqiniso, ukulindelwa kwengane kwenza izinguquko ezithile ekuphileni kocansi kwabazali besikhathi esizayo. Ubuhlobo obuseduze kakhulu, ngempela, bungalimaza impilo yomama ozayo nomntwana, kodwa kukhona ubulili obuphephile obukhona ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Isikhathi esihle kakhulu sobudlelwane bombhangqwana oshadile ngenkathi ulinde umntwana yi-trimester yesibili. Ngalesi sikhathi oshade naye usevele esetshenziselwa isimo esisha, kungenzeka ukuthi usuke esho ukuthi uyavuma ukuba i-toxicosis, kodwa ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa kwengane kusenesikhathi esiningi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, i-tummy ekhulayo ayiphazamisi ngokujulile ukwenza uthando, futhi phakathi nesikhombisa sesibili ukuthi izikhundla eziningi zocansi ziyatholakala ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa.
Kuphi okubangela ukuthi ulale ocansini ngokuphepha ngesikhathi ukhulelwe?
- Owesifazane uhlezi emuva kumngane wakhe emphakathini wakhe.
- Isikhundla esaziwa kakhulu, lapho owesifazane ethembele khona into ethile, futhi indoda iyimlandela.
- Okuphephile kunazo zonke ezikhungethe ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa kanye nengane, nangomama ozayo, kufanele kucatshangelwe isikhundla "ohlangothini" - uma umyeni elala nomhlane wakhe kumlingani wakhe.
Iziphi izinto ezingenakukwazi ukuya ocansini ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa?
Ngesikhathi sokulindela umntwana, kungcono ukugwema izikhundla lapho owesifazane elele khona ngemuva kwakhe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kusukela ebusweni obuseduze, kubalulekile ukukhipha noma yikuphi isikhundla uma umuntu ecindezela esiswini nganoma iyiphi indlela, kanye nalawo owesifazane adinga umzamo omkhulu. Ubuhlobo bobulili kufanele bube buthule futhi buzolile, ukuze umama ozayo angaphumule futhi athole injabulo yangempela.