Ochwepheshe abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukushaya indlwabu akuyona into eyingozi, ngaphezu kwalokho - kuyasiza empilweni. Kodwa lesi yisitatimende esiyiphutha. Ake sizame ukuchaza ukuthi yikuphi ukushaya indlwabu kanye nokuthi yini eyonakalisa owesifazane.
Ukushaya indlwabu kuyisisusa sokufakelwa kwezitho zobulili zomuntu, inhloso yayo isifiso sokuthola injabulo yobulili, i-orgasm.
Ukulimala ukushaya indlwabu
Ukuze ucabange ukulimala kokushaya indlwabu, kudingeka ube nomqondo wokuthi ukushaya indlwabu kuhluke kanjani ekuhloleni ngokocansi.
Ngakho, emva kokuya ocansini, owesifazane uzizwa enelisekile, ehlisa futhi ethuthukisa isimo sakhe. Ngesikhathi se-coitus, ukumbumbulula, ukuthinta, nokubonakala komlingani kubalulekile. Lokhu akusikho ngesikhathi sokushaya indlwabu. Ngemuva kokushaya indlwabu kuza ukucindezeleka, ukucindezeleka. Ngezinye izikhathi umuntu uhlangabezana nokuzisola, unamahloni ngobubi bakhe, kodwa akakwazi ukulungisa.
Ubuntu abajwayele ukuzondla izidingo zabo zobulili, ngokuvamile bakhulise ubugovu. Ukuqala impilo yobulili, lawa mantombazane akakwazi ukujabulela injabulo yangempela engokwemvelo engokwemvelo. Abacabangi ukuthi kukhona yini ukulimala ngokushaya indlwabu. Mhlawumbe, lapho beqala ukufuna izizathu zokudumazeka kwabo emadodeni, bazoqonda ukuthi imithombo yezinkinga ikhona kuphi.
Ngakho-ke, masiqhubekele ekucatshangeni okuningiliziwe ukuthi yini eyingozi ekushaya indlwabu ehlangene nomzimba wesifazane.
- Isistimu yezinzwa eziphakathi. Uhlelo lwesimiso lubopha zonke izitho zomuntu ndawonye. Amakhono engqondo omuntu ahlobene nesimiso sezinzwa, futhi izinzwa nezenzo zomuntu kuxhomeke kulokhu. Imidwebo ayithola evela ezweni langaphandle, ubuchopho buloba ngesistimu yezinzwa. Futhi lokhu kubonisa ukuthi kungakanani ukulimala ukushaya indlwabu, okulimaza isimiso sezinzwa se-onanist. Ezimweni eziningi, i-neurasthenia yezocansi iyenzeka. Lokhu kuyindlela yobuthakathaka besaba, obonakaliswa ukwephulwa kobudlelwano bocansi. Lokhu kubangelwa ukwephulwa kwezakhiwo zocansi. Ingozi yokushaya indlwabu ejwayelekile ingabonakala njengenye yezinhlobo ezintathu ze-neurasthenia: i-neurosis yendawo, i-lumbar kanye nokwanda kwezibonakaliso ze-neurasthenia (ingabangela ukuhlukunyezwa ngokobulili). I-Neurasthenia inomthelela omubi ebuchosheni bomuntu, okwenza ukuba ikhanda lishaye njalo.
- Amalungu ezinzwa zangaphandle. Ukulimaza ukushaya indlwabu kwabesifazane kunethonya layo esimweni samehlo, ngomqondo wephunga, enkulumweni yomuntu.
- Ngaphandle, amehlo e-onanist awafani neminye yabanye abantu, kodwa amehlo abo ayesaba ukukhanya, okwenza ukuba isiyezi sivele. Ama-onanists ahlale ezwa ukuthi asemkhanyeni okhanyayo. Abesifazane kanye namantombazane amadala banamathuba amaningi kunamadoda-onanists okumele akhathazeke ngokushesha ngemisebenzi yamehlo. Lokhu kubonakala ngesimo se-catarrh eyomile yegobolondo ehlanganisa amehlo.
Ngokushesha nje lapho ama-onanist enikela "ukuzilibazisa" kwabo, isimo sesamehlo sibuyiselwe. - Uma umuntu enesifo esijwayelekile esiphakathi nendlebe, khona-ke abantu abanenkinga yokushaya indlwabu bahlangabezana nezinkinga.
- Ingqondo nengqondo. Ukushaya indlwabu kaningi kunomthelela omubi kumakhono omuntu womqondo. Imizwelo engokomoya yowesifazane iyathinteka yi-neurasthenia ye-cerebral. Ngesikhathi sokuphakama kokuzethemba, ukujikeleza kwegazi kuyashesha, umzimba uyashisa, futhi ngenxa yegazi eligeleza ekhanda, i-onanist ilahlekelwa yingqondo yakhe kancane. Ngenxa yalokhu, isimiso sezinzwa sishukunyiswa, esilula ubuchopho bomuntu.
Ngakho-ke, njengoba ubona, ukushaya indlwabu akusebenzi lutho emzimbeni wesifazane. Kunezindlela eziningi zokuphumula, kufaka ukwaneliseka ngokocansi nomthandekayo wakho.