Ukuphahlazeka kwomoya kungumfanekiso ongathandeki ohambisana nosizi nokulahlekelwa. Ngakho-ke, kusukela amaphupho lapho kwenzeka khona lo mcimbi, ngokuvamile uvame ukulindela okuthile okubi. Ukuqinisekisa noma ukuphikisa imizwa enjalo, kufanelekile ukuhlaziya iphupho, khumbula imininingwane eminingi ngangokunokwenzeka futhi usebenzise ngokunenzuzo ukuhumusha okuhlongozwayo.
Ukushona kwezindiza kubonakala kanjani?
Ngokuvamile lokhu iphupho linokuxhumana nengozi ephuma ngaphandle noma ibe ngaphakathi kwakho. Mhlawumbe empilweni yangempela uvame ukwesaba futhi uzizwe ungenathemba. Kulokhu, ibhuku lephupho libonisa ukuthi sekuyisikhathi sokukhipha okubi futhi uqale isigaba esisha empilweni. Ukubona ukushayeka indiza ephusheni kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela umuntu kufanele alindele ukungqubuzana okungathí sina nomlingani noma nomuntu oseduze. Enye iphupho mayelana nokushayeka kwezindiza kungachazwa njengesixwayiso ukuthi esikhathini esizayo uzodingeka ubhekane nezinkinga ezingalindelekile. Ukuze ugweme ukulahlekelwa okujulile kuzomele wenze izinqumo ngokoqobo ekuhambeni kwakho.
Ukubona ukushayeka indiza ephusheni noma imiphumela yaso kusho ukuthi empilweni yangempela esikhathini esizayo esiseduze kufanele uthembele kuphela ngamandla akho. Ibhuku lephupho alincoma ukuthembela kubalingani, njengoba zonke izithembiso abazenzayo ekugcineni ziholele ezinkingeni ezinkulu. Amaphupho asuku zonke ngaleyo nhlekelele ibonisa ukuthi zonke izinkinga zesikhashana futhi uzothola ithuba lokulungisa wonke amaphutha. Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha kunenye incazelo ephelele yokuphupha amaphupho mayelana nokuphahlazeka kwezindiza: maduzane kulindeleke ukuthi ushintshe ukuze kube ngcono, kodwa nje kufanele uthathe konke ezandleni zakho.
Uma uvame ukubona amaphupho mayelana nokushayeka kwezindiza - lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi empilweni yangempela ngokuvamile ubonisa ukuhlukumezeka futhi ube imbangela yokuphikisana. Iphupho lapho abantu abafile bebekhona ngemuva kokushayeka kwezindiza kuwuphawu lokuthi uzinikela isikhathi esincane ekuthuthukiseni kwakho okungokomoya .
Kungani bephupha ukungena ekushayeni indiza?
Iphupho elinjalo lithi kufanele ulungiselele izimo ezingalindelekile. Phakathi nalesi sikhathi kunconywa ukuba kuqaphele ngokucophelela impilo yakho.
Iphupho owakwazi ukubhekana nayo ekushayeleni kwezindiza lixwayisa ukuthi izinkinga ezinkulu zezimali zizayo. Ungakhathazeki, uzobhekana nazo ngempumelelo.