Ukucela ukuthi uhlele kanjani ikamelo labantwana lomfana, kufanele uqaphele amaphuzu ambalwa abalulekile.
Indlela yokuhlela igumbi lomfana?
Okokuqala, ukwakhiwa kwegumbi kumele kufane nesikhathi somfana futhi kulula ukushintsha, kuye ngokuthi izidingo zakhe zonyaka. Ngakho-ke, kufanelekile ukunikeza ifenisha ehlukahlukene, ngaso sonke isikhathi uthole ikona lemishini yezemidlalo (esimweni esibucayi, ukuhlomisa okungenani udonga lwaseSweden) futhi unikeze indawo yokwakha ukuthi esikhathini esizayo ingasetshenziswa kalula njengesikole (esikoleni) esisodwa. Ukukhetha umdwebo wombala nokuklanywa kwezindonga egumbini lomfana, akudingekile ukuba ulandele ngokungaqondile izinkolelo ezikhona:
- imibala eluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka neyimpuphu Ngenqwaba yale mibala, igumbi lizobanda futhi lingakhululekile. Kuyinto ewusizo kakhulu ukukhetha imibala ye-pastel engathathi hlangothi, nakuba imibala egcwele ( ophuzi , i-orange, i-emerald) nayo iyamukeleka njengendawo ekhanyayo futhi inikeza ekamelweni okungaphezulu "okubukhoma" kwemizwelo;
- isithombe esithombeni sangemuva singumshini wokubhala. Akuyona iqiniso lokuthi umfana wakho uzoba nesithakazelo kule nqubo. Umdwebo kufanele ubonise izithakazelo zomntwana, hhayi abazali bakhe.
Qinisekisa ukuthi ukhetha izinto zokuqeda, ifenisha, izingubo zokugqoka ekamelweni lomntwana, qaphela ukuvunyelwa kokusebenzisa izinto ezinjalo nezimpahla ekamelweni labantwana, kungenzeka ukuthi ukuhlanza noma ukugeza njalo.
Ngezinye izikhathi umbuzo uphakama ukuthi ukudala ikamelo elihlukile lomfana osanda kuzalwa? Ngokungaqondile, awukwazi ukuwuphendula. Ingane esanda kuzalwa idinga ukunakekelwa komama ngehora. Ngakho-ke, kuyinto ewusizo futhi elula, mhlawumbe, ukuhlobisa ikhoneni labantwana ekamelweni labazali. Nakuba emazweni athile aseNtshonalanga (eFrance, isibonelo) izingane kusukela ebuntwaneni zisegumbini elihlukile. Ukuzikhethela kungokwakho.
Ukuklama igumbi labantwana lomfana osemusha
Umfana osemusha, ongena kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi yisikhathi esiphezulu, uzodinga ukuklama okuningi "komuntu omdala" ekamelweni. Futhi ukuthi ukuklanywa kwekamelo elisencane kumfana akubanga ukungahambisani nabazali, kubandakanya inqubo yokubhalisa kwengane yakho. Umhlobiso wekamelo lezingane lomfana-osemusha ungenziwa ngezitayela ezahlukene - izigaba zakudala ezingenakwenzeka, imiklamo yesimanje ye-high-tech noma i-thematic, kodwa kunoma yikuphi, kufanele ucabange ngokucophelela ukubekwa kwezindawo ezihlukahlukene zokusebenza futhi unakekele ukukhanya kwazo okusezingeni eliphezulu.
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