Namuhla abathandi bomculo waseMelika u-Selena Gomez balindele ukumangala okumnandi: emaphephandabeni bafaka isithombe se-archive ka-Selena omncane nabazali bakhe. Futhi uma u-Gomez enobudlelwane obufudumele nonina, futhi bavame ukuwela ngaphansi kwezinto zekhamera ze-paparazzi, khona-ke izintatheli ziyakwazi ukubona okungafani neze nomculi kababa.
Ngemuva kokuthi isithombe sichazwe nge-intanethi, abalandeli abaningi baveza umbono wokuthi u-Selena wakhetha umfana, umhleli weThe Weeknd, ofana kakhulu noyise wakhe. Futhi kulokhu akungabazeki, ngoba ngaphezu kokufana kwangaphandle kwabathandi, kunezizathu ezifanayo ezifanayo. Abenzi bevela emindenini yabahlali, nakuba befika e-US bevela emazweni ahlukene. Ngakho-ke, abazali bakaGomez bavela e-Italy naseMexico, kanti i-The Weeknd yabuya e-Ethiopia. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izingane ezisencane zahlangana nokuhlukaniswa kwabazali babo.
Ukuhlukaniswa kwabazali u-Selena washaywa kakhulu
U-Gomez wazalwa ngesikhathi umama wakhe uMandy eneminyaka engu-16 ubudala. Lapho eneminyaka engu-5 ubudala, le ntombazane yafunda ukuthi abazali bayo babelungiselele amaphepha ukuze bahlukane. U-Selena, kwaba yinto ehlabayo, ngoba intombazane yayihlezi ngabo. Ngakho uGobert ukhumbula leso sikhathi:
"Ngemva kokuhamba kukababa ngangilokhu ngiyidla futhi ngimbiza, kepha lapho bechazela ukuthi uzohlala ngokuhlukile, ngaqala ukuhlukumeza kwangempela. Ngamemeza eMandy futhi ngisusa izibhamu zami, futhi ngemva kokukhula kancane ngammangalela ngokuthi ubaba wakhe umshiyile ngenxa yakhe. Manje ngiyabona ukuthi yiziphi izinhlobo zamazwi abuhlungu lokhu. Ukunikeza konke engikudingayo, umama waya emsebenzini izinkampani ezintathu ezahlukene. Ngabona ukuthi wayekhathele kakhulu, kodwa wayengakuqondi ngokugcwele lokho ayekwenzela khona. Manje ngiyaqonda ukuthi umama wazidela ngenxa yami nangesikhathi esizayo. "
Engxoxweni yakhe, u-Selena uvame ukukhumbula izikhathi lapho esengumntwana futhi ekhuluma noyise:
"Manje ngibonga kakhulu abazali bami, ngoba abazange bangivumele ukuba ngibabone bobabili ubaba nomama. Ngesizathu esithile, ngiyakhumbula kakhulu ukuhamba kwethu nobaba ku-Hooters Cafe. Ngangibukeka kahle kakhulu, futhi abaningana bezinsizwa bebasilalela. Ubaba wayejabule kakhulu. "
Ngendlela, manje ubaba nomama uGrace bayashadile futhi, kodwa, iqiniso, hhayi komunye nomunye. Basanda kuba namantombazane emanyunyweni, ngakho-ke u-Selena manje unezintombi ezimbili.
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I-Weeknd ayikwazanga ukusinda ekuhlukaneni kwabazali
U-Abel Tesfey, owaziwa ngegama eliyimfihlo elithi The Weeknd, wafunda ngokuhlukaniswa kukayise nomama eminyakeni eyishumi. Emva kwalokhu wathunyelwa ukuba ahlale nogogo wakhe, futhi umama waphoqeleka ukuba asebenze njalo. Ngokungafani no-Selena Abel wabona abazali bakhe beqabukela kakhulu. Yingakho waqala ukucindezeleka, futhi lapho ezama izidakamizwa ezilula, kwaba lula. Ngendlela, ngaleso sikhathi, u-Tesfei wayeneminyaka engu-11 kuphela. Ugogo akazange aqaphele ukushintshashintsha okuqhubekayo kwemizwa yesikhombisi esizayo, ukubhala konke okuseminyakeni yobudala. Eminyakeni embalwa kamuva, u-Abela wazama izidakamizwa ezinzima futhi akakwazanga ukuyeka. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umculi oneminyaka engu-26 ubudala manje uthola izidakamizwa ezivinjelwe, lo mshini akawaziwa, kuphela enkulumweni yakhe yokugcina u-Abela wathi la mazwi:
"Ngenxa yokuhlukana kwabazali bami, ngangigula kakhulu, yingakho ngaqala ukusebenzisa izidakamizwa. Ngithanda ukuthi bajabule. Ngandlela-thile ngangizibheka ngicabanga ukuthi angikwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kwabo. "