Ukuphila komunye wethu kuzuza incazelo kuphela uma othandekayo eseduze. Abantu abathole bajabule ngempela. Kuhle ukubuka ubaba nomama, izinhliziyo zabo, naphezu kweminyaka edlulile, zisalokhu zigcwele imfudumalo nothando, futhi ukuthula nokuvumelana kubusa emndenini. Uma ucabanga ukuthi yisiphi isipho ozosinikeza abazali ngesikhumbuzo somshado, ufuna ukuba abonise uthando nokubonga kubantu abathandekayo emhlabeni.
Yini ongayinika abazali bakho ngomkhosi wokuphila kwakho ndawonye?
- Isithombe somemori.
- Ukuphumula okuhlangene.
- Izinto zendlu.
Uma indlu igcwele izivakashi, phakathi kwabo kukhona oontanga nabangane babazali, intsha ikhunjulwa kaningi. Ukumangala okungalindelekile kubo bonke kungaba islayidi yesilayidi esilungisiwe ngaphambi kwezithombe ezihambisane nomculo omuhle, okuthinta isikhathi sokuzalwa komntwana nokukhulelwa kwentsha, umhlangano wokuqala nokujwayele, umshado kanye nokubuyisela emndenini. Yiqiniso, lokhu kumangala, njengezimbali eziningi, kungaba kuphela okunamathiselwe kwisipho esiyinhloko, okufanele sikhethwe, sigxile kwinani leminyaka elihlala futhi, ngokufanayo, igama lomshado.
Isici sesibili sesipho esinjalo singaba isithombe esakhiwe ngumculi esivela esithombeni somshado noma embhedeni wesandla. Esikhathini sesitayela sesimanje sizobukeka njengefreyimu yezithombe zobuchwepheshe, okuqukethe izithombe eziyishumi nambili.
Kuzo zonke izinto ezinganikezwa abazali ngesikhumbuzo, ukuchitha isikhathi okuhlangene ngendlela yokuya enkundleni yempilo, kuzobukeka kumangalisa kakhulu. Abantu abaningi bafuna ukuya emidlalo yaseshashalazini, baya kuma-movie noma kumakhonsathi, kodwa abanalo ithuba. Isipho esinjalo njengomhlangano nomculi wakho ozithandayo uyobajabulisa kakhulu. Ungakwazi ukubhuka itafula lamabili ku-cafe noma yokudlela.
Ukukhetha ukuthi yini ongayinika abazali ngesikhumbuzo somshado, gxila ezintweni ezizobasiza kuzo. Lokhu kufaka phakathi izinto zokusebenza zamakhishi zanamuhla, njenge-electric drier, i-microwave oven, i-multivark, i-processor yokudla noma i-bread maker, i-model entsha yensimbi noma i-vacuum cleaner, i-TV noma umshini wokuwasha.
Ungakwazi ukuvuselela indlu yangomzali ngefenisha noma ukusiza ukuba benze ukulungiswa, okungenzeka ukuthi baye bahlehlisa isikhathi esithile. Indawo yokushisa , i-chandelier enhle, isibani, itafula lekhofi - ngasinye salezi zinto sizobakhumbuza ukunakekelwa kwakho.
Uma abazali bengabasekeli bokuphila okusebenzayo nokuthanda ukuzijabulisa kwangaphandle, unethuba eliyingqayizivele lokubanika imidlalo nezesekeli, kanye nenye yezinhlobo ze-simulator ukuthi, ngaphandle kokushiya ekhaya, kuzobasiza ukuba balondoloze ukufaneleka kwabo. Ungathola isipho phakathi kwezinto kanye namadivaysi aklanyelwe ngqo ama-picnics nokuhamba ngezinyawo.
Isipho sendabuko yimiqulu, izingubo zokugqoka, izindwangu zetafula ezinhle kanye nezinhla zokulala.
Noma iyiphi inkumbulo, ngaphezu kwakho konke, idili, lapho isimo semvelo sisebenza khona. Esimweni esinjalo, amahlaya atholakele kahle. Ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuthola ama-diploma noma izitifiketi, amadiplomas kanye nemindondo. Kufanele ukuhleleka izingubo noma izipho zomuntu siqu ngokubhalwe ngaphambilini. Ngesifiso seminyaka ende ejabulisayo yokuphila okuhlanganyelwe, abazali abakhona abanomuthi owenziwe ngesandla. Kungaba umgcini wezindlu noma noma iyiphi enye into yokuthola injabulo, impilo nokuchuma endlini.