Ekuhambeni kwentukuthelo yokuphila kwanamuhla, sihlale sikhathazeke ngento ethile: izindaba zasekhaya, ukukhula komsebenzi, njll. Futhi enye yezindawo eziyinhloko kuloluhlu egcwele izinkathazo ezinjengoba ukukhetha isipho seholide kubathandekayo babo. Siyazi ukuthi yini okumelwe simangaze othandekayo, ukujabulisa izingane zabo, indlela yokunakekela abazali babo. Kodwa, njengomthetho, siyazikhohlwa ngokuphelele ngathi. Sivame ukuba ngandlela-thile singayithathi noma singaba nesikhathi sokucabanga ngalokho ongakuzinikela ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa.
Ngakho-ke ake ake sicabangele ukuthi ungamjabulisa kanjani abathandekayo bakho.
Yini ongayinika yona iminyaka engu-20?
Umnyaka weshumi nambili uyisikhathi sokuqala sonyaka we-jubile, usemncane futhi ugcwele imibono, amandla nesifiso sokwenza okusha. Ngakho-ke, kunezinketho eziningi ezihlukene, ukuthi yini ongayenza kulo mcimbi.
Isipho sincike, ngokuqinisekile, kumlingiswa wakho nokuzilibazisa. Uma uthanda imidlalo engathà sina nemidlalo, khona-ke ungakwazi kalula ukuzuma ngeparachute noma ukuhamba ngezinsuku ezimbalwa endaweni ehle ezithakazelisayo yemvelo ngamatende nezingoma ngomlilo. Uthanda ukuhamba? Ngokuphelele, zinike ukuvakashela edolobheni onentshisekelo kuwe futhi uthole imizwa eminingi emihle kanye nokubonakala okusha. Noma mhlawumbe usuvele ucabanga ngokuthenga imoto yakho esikhathini esizayo? Khona-ke kungenzeka ngempela ukuba ubhalise izifundo zokushayela bese uthola ilayisensi yokushayela.
Usufuna ukuthola izithombe ezinhle zekhwalithi zomuntu wakho isikhathi eside? Ngakho, ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa ungaya esikhungweni sesithombe ngokuphepha ephepheni lomthwebuli wezithombe.
Yini ongayinika yona iminyaka engu-30?
Yiqiniso, usuvele usikisela kumndeni nabangane ongathanda ukuthola njengesipho futhi lokhu, njengomthetho, kukhona izinto eziwusizo futhi ezidingekayo ekhaya. Ngakho-ke, sekuyisikhathi sokuphumula futhi uzinikele ngempela okuthile okukujabulisa.
Isibonelo, uma ukhathele imisebenzi yansuku zonke kanye namacala ajwayelekile, ungakwazi ukuhlela usuku ngokujabula okulula kokuphila: ulala embhedeni isikhathi eside noma ulale ngaphambi kokudla kwasemini (kusengaphambili uhlele nomndeni kuze kube namuhla baphathe ngaphandle kwakho). Zinike amahora ambalwa okuthenga, uhlale e-cafe ngendebe yesiphuzo sakho ozithandayo, uye e-salon ubuhle bese uphumula kusuka ekhanda kuya emlenzeni, bese uchitha kusihlwa ngaphansi kwengubo efudumele embhedeni ubuka i-movie oyikhonzile. Kubonakala sengathi,
Yini ongayinika yona iminyaka engu-40?
Ukugubha iminyaka engu-40 ngokuvamile akugubhi, ngakho-ke lolu suku ungamane uzinikele emndenini wakho. Thumela yonke ibhizinisi lakho eliphuthumayo futhi elibalulekile, uma kungenzeka, unqamula i-Inthanethi neselula futhi usebenzise usuku emvelweni. Hamba ndawonye ku-movie noma kumidlalo yaseshashalazini, epaki lokuzijabulisa noma eklasini elithile lomsebenzi. Kusihlwa, uhlele isidlo somndeni osithulile, ujabulele ubuqili nokuxhumana nomndeni nabathandekayo.