Kuthiwani ukuzalwa hhayi emzimbeni wakho? Kufana nokuphila emva kokushintshwa kobulili? Abathengi abadume kakhulu emhlabeni babonisa izindaba zabo.
Muva nje, izwe lahambisa izindaba ukuthi abantu abaningana abavela e-Ecuador babenendodakazi. Abazali bentombazane abakaze benze umsebenzi wokugcina wokushintsha ucansi: babefuna ukuthi ingane ikhulelwe ngokwemvelo. Ngakho, intombazane yazalwa nguyise - uFernando Machado (nee Maria). Umama wentombazane waba nguDiane Rodriguez (owayesengumfana uLuis). UFernando noDiana baba umbhangqwana wokuqala we-transgender eNingizimu Melika, owazama ukuthola ingane.
Indlela yabathandi ekuthokoziseni ayizange ifakwe ne-roses. Ngakho-ke, uMaria, abazali baxoshwa ngaphandle kwendlu lapho bezwa ngesifiso sendodakazi yakhe sokushintsha ubulili, futhi emaphephandabeni asendaweni wayebhalwa njengowesifazane oyisiphukuphuku.
Izindaba mayelana nokuvuselelwa kwalesi sizwe esingavamile zithinta izinkinga zabantu abaphula umthetho abavela emhlabeni wonke. Ngeshwa, abaningi babo bazizwa bodwa futhi bengajabuli. Kodwa abanye bakwazi ukuthola isibindi futhi bazibiza ngokuzwakalayo ngokwabo. Siyakhumbula abantu be-transgender abahlakaniphile kunazo zonke futhi abadumile.
UKaitlin Jenner (oneminyaka engu-66 ubudala)
Kakade e-com-com, naseBruce Jenner, inkanyezi yochungechunge ethi "Umndeni Kardashian", kwakungenakwenzeka ukusola i-transgender: umdlali wezemidlalo-mdlali, umdali wegolide we-Olympics, uyise wezingane eziyisithupha ezivela kumakhosikazi amathathu ... Kodwa kwaba khona ngisho nalabo bantu abanesibindi abangaphupha ushintsho ubulili. Ngokusho kukaBruce, wayelokhu efuna ukuba owesifazane, wayethanda ukushintsha izingubo zabesifazane kanye nopende ngokuyimfihlo. Nokho, wayengeyongqingili. Umshado wakhe wokugcina noChris Kardashian, unina weKim oshisayo, ugcine iminyaka engu-23. Lo mbhangqwana wayenamadodakazi amabili - amamodeli aziwa manje uKendall noKylie Jenner.
Ngemuva kokuhlukaniswa kukaChris Bruce ngisho nokucabanga ngokuzibulala - kwaqina kakhulu ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi phakathi kwesifiso sokuba owesifazane nokwesaba ukudabuka abathandekayo babo. Ekugcineni, eneminyaka engama-65 (!), Wathola umsebenzi wokulungisa ubulili futhi wabonakala ngaphambi komphakathi ngesithombe esisha esihle sowesifazane ogama lakhe linguCainlin. Futhi konke kwakuyoba kuhle, kodwa lapha ngokuphila kwangasese uJenner wayenenkinga. Yena, njengokungathi empilweni yakhe, njengabesifazane, akanandaba nabantu, kodwa akakwazi ukuthola umngane ofanelekayo wokuphila. Kukhona amahemuhemu ukuthi ngenxa yalesi sizathu uCainlin uzisola ngeshintsho sobulili futhi ufuna ukubuyela emzimbeni wesilisa.
UChaz Bono (oneminyaka engu-47 ubudala)
Ngo-Mashi 4, 1969 uCher umculi odumile nomyeni wakhe uSonny Bono bazalwa intombazane. Ngaleso sikhathi, lo mbhangqwana wasebenza ifilimu lapho uCher edlala indima yentombazane eyayingakwazi ukuqonda indlela yakhe yocansi. UCher wanquma ukubiza indodakazi yakhe engumntwana uChastity, ngokuhlonipha leli heroine lakhe futhi, njengoba bekusho, "bafana."
Ngemva kweminyaka engu-13, uChastity wamemezela kubazali bakhe ukuthi ungumlingani wesifazane. Ekuqaleni babesaba, bazama ukuphatha indodakazi yabo yodwa, bamfaka ezikhungweni ezihlukahlukene zokuvuselela, kodwa konke kwakungenalutho. Lapho eneminyaka engu-18 ubudala, u-Chastity wenza i-cumming-out, isb. esetshenziswe esidlangalaleni mayelana nokuma kwakhe okungokwesiko. Umama wezinkanyezi ubonakala elamukela lezi zindaba, kepha yena wamangala lapho indodakazi yakhe yamemezela isinqumo sakhe sokushintsha ubulili ngosizo lokuhlinzwa. Ubumsulwa babenemisebenzi eminingi enzima.
Ngo-2010, uCher walahlekelwa indodakazi yakhe wathola indodana okuthiwa nguChez Bono. Hhayi ngokushesha, kodwa umculi wakwazi ukuqonda nokwamukela i-Chasa:
"Ngiyahlonipha lokho akukhethayo. Uma ngake ngiphakamiswa njengendoda, ngizoqala ukucabanga ngethusa lokuphuma kulo mzimba. Yilokhu uChaz azizwa, futhi manje uthole ukuthula. "
Endleleni yakhe elukhuni, u-Chez Bono, umlobi wezentengiselwano kanye nomshushisi wamalungelo abantu, wabhala incwadi futhi wenza idokhumenti.
Odadewabo uLana (oneminyaka engu-51) noLili Wachowski (oneminyaka engu-48 ubudala)
Okumangalisa nakakhulu indaba yabazalwane bakaWachowski - abadali be-"Matrix" evelele.
Bazalelwa eChicago emndenini webhizinisi lasePoland futhi bakhula abafana abavamile. Kuyiqiniso, lo mdala, uLarry, uvaliwe kakhulu futhi akatholanga ulimi olufanayo nabangane bakhe. Kamuva, wavuma ukuthi wayengenasithakazelo sokudlala nabafana, wakhishwa ngamadonki nezingubo zokugqoka, futhi wazibeka ngasese izingubo zabadadewabo. Lapho esemusha, eqaphela ukuthi wayengafani nabanye, uLarry wayefuna ukuzibulala. Ngemva kokugqoka isigqoko sokulala sikadadewabo, wabhala inothi elide lokuzibulala, kodwa ngethuba lenkambiso yokufeza izinhloso zakhe wahluleka. ULarry wayenobungane kakhulu nomfowabo omncane u-Andy, futhi mhlawumbe ukusekelwa kwakhe kwamsiza ukuba asinde kule nkathi enzima.
Ngemva kwesikole, abafowethu basebenza njengababazi, futhi ngesikhathi sabo sokuphumula baheha amahlaya futhi bahlakulela umbono we "Matrix", umbhalo owawuthathwa kamuva kwi-studio yamafilimu eWarner Brosers.
Ngenxa yamabhayisikobho "Ukuxhumana" kanye ne "The Matrix", uWachowski waba izidumbu, kodwa abazange basakaze izimpilo zabo, benqaba ukunikeza izingxoxo. Kuyaziwa ukuthi bobabili babeshadile, kodwa uLarry wahlukanisa ngo-2002, waqala ukubonakala esidlangalaleni izingubo zabesifazane futhi waqala ukulungiselela ukusebenza ukuze alungise ubulili.
Futhi ngonyaka ka-2012, u-Larry wenza ubuqili, okwethulwa emphakathini ngesithombe esisha - owesifazane onenwele elibomvu ogama lakhe linguLana. Ngenkathi ingqungquthela yokunyathelisa enye yezintatheli yabuza uLana umbuzo ongenamqondo, u-Andy, owayekhona ehholo, wavimbezela lesi sigxeko:
"Ngizoshaya ibhodlela ekhanda lomuntu ocasula udadewethu!"
Ngo-2009, uLana washada ne-Ilsa Strix ebusayo (igama langempela uKarin Winslow) - inkanyezi yamaqembu e-BDSM. Ngesikhathi eseyindoda, uLarry waba ikhasimende lakhe elivamile futhi washaya lowo oshade naye-umfana omkhulu uBuck Angel. Lo wesilisa, ngendlela, waba owesifazane, waphonywa ngama-hormone wesilisa.
Futhi ngoMeyi 2016, Ukushaya ngaphandle kuka-Andy kwaphenduka uLilly. Kuvele ukuthi u-Andy naye wamzonda umzimba wakhe wesilisa konke ukuphila kwakhe, futhi owesifazane uzizwa ekhululekile kakhulu. Into ethakazelisayo kakhulu ukuthi umkaAndy, ohlangene nabo kusukela ngo-1991, wamsekela.
UHarisu (oneminyaka engu-41 ubudala)
UHarisu ungumculi waseNingizimu Korea othandwayo, imodeli nomdlali we-actress. Wazalwa ngo-1975 ngumfana ogama lakhe linguLi Kyung-Yip futhi wayengomunye wabantwana abahlanu emndenini omkhulu. Kakade esemncane, ingane yabonisa ukuziphatha kwentombazane eyaziwayo.
Lapho eneminyaka engu-15, ngemuva kokuzama ukuphumelela ukwakha ubudlelwano nohlobo lwakhe, u-Lee wacabanga ngokushintsha isondo futhi waqala ukuthatha ama-hormone. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, wakhululwa enkonzweni yempi eyimpoqo, ecabangela ukugula ngengqondo. Ekupheleni kweminyaka engu-90, u-Lee waqaphela iphupho lakhe ngokwenza ucansi, amathunjwa webele kanye nezenzalo, kanye ne-rhinoplasty. Abazali bakaLi badabuka kakhulu, kodwa manje bayaziqhenya ngokuphumelela kwendodakazi yabo.
Kwaphela iminyaka eminingana intombazana "esanda kwenziwa" ehlala eJapane, lapho ejoyina khona i-modeling agency, wabe esethatha igama elithi Haris. USlava weza kuye ngemuva kokudubula ekuthengiseni izidakamizwa zeDoDo.
Intombazane ayizange ifihle iqiniso mayelana nokushintsha ucansi, futhi ngaye ngokuvamile ukhuluma ngokuthi: "ungcono kunabesifazane ..."
U-Harisu uthathwa ngokomthetho njengowesifazane. Sekuyiminyaka engaba ngu-10, ushada nomculi we-rap yaseKorea.
U-Andrea Pežić (oneminyaka engu-24 ubudala)
I-Androgyne imodeli u-Andrey Pezhich wazalelwa eBosnia naseHerzegovina. Lapho eneminyaka engu-9, yena nonina nomfowabo omdala bathuthela e-Australia. Uma nje ekhumbula yena, u-Andrei wayefuna ukuba intombazane. Kusukela esemncane, wayenesithakazelo ezembathweni nasezintweni zezinwele, futhi eqenjini lakhe wayengenandaba, kunokuba athukuthele umfowabo. Lapho eneminyaka engu-17 ubudala, u-Andrey wayeyibhizinisi lokulinganisa. Ukubukeka kwakhe okuyingqayizivele kwamvumela ukuba adise kokubili izingubo zesilisa nabesifazane. Ngakho, embukisweni weGautier wangcoliswa ngengubo yomshado.
Ngo-2014, u-Andrew wanquma ukulungisa ubulili futhi waba intombazane okuthiwa u-Andrea. Manje u-Andrea uzizwa emuhle futhi uhlala omunye wamamodeli athandwa kakhulu. Ukuphila kwakhe komuntu, akhenge amemezele, kodwa uyavuma ukuthi amaphupho okuba ngumama, futhi kungekudala wayenesibopho sokubambisana ngomunwe wakhe.
ULea Ti (oneminyaka engu-34 ubudala)
ULeah Ti, ubuhle obunobunzima baseBrazil, ukuziqhenya kwendlu ye-fashion Givenchy, kuvela futhi, wazalwa nomfana owanikezwa igama elithi Leonardo lapho ezalwa. Ubaba wakhe (noma ubaba wakhe) ungumdlali owaziwayo waseBrazil ongumnumzane Toninho Cerezo. Kusukela esemncane, uLeonard waqaphela ukuthi wayengafani nabanye abafana, kodwa wazifihla ngokucophelela leli qiniso. Abazange baphuze ngomsebenzi wokulinganisa, bephupha ekubeni ngudokotela wezilwane. Ukuphila kwakhe okulile nokulinganiswa kwashintsha ngemuva kokuhlangana nomklami wezithombe uRicardo Tishi, umqondisi wamanje weNdlu yaseGivenchy. KwakunguRicardo owamnxusa uLeonardo ukuba avele phambi komphakathi ngesithombe sentombazane. Basebenzisa ngokucophelela isithombe sesikhathi esizayo futhi baya eParis, lapho uLea ngokushesha waba khona inkanyezi yezwe lemfashini. Wayefakela izembozo zamaphephandaba amaningi, wabonisa izingubo zabesifazane kule podium, wabamba iqhaza emahlathini.
Ngo-2012, uLea waba intombazane yangempela, esebenzela ukulungiswa kobulili. Naphezu kokuphumelela okukhulu, uLeah ufuna ngelinye ilanga alahle umsebenzi wakhe wokulinganisa futhi agcwalise iphupho lakhe lokungane ngokuba udokotela wezilwane.
UGina Rosero (oneminyaka engu-32 ubudala)
Kodwa uGina Rosero, imodeli ehlonishwayo yama-Amrican, ukuthungathwa kokukhangisa nezambatho zangaphansi zabesifazane, iminyaka engaba ngu-10 igcina imfihlo yalokho okwakungumfana. Imodeli yesikhathi esizayo, i-Filipina ngokuzalwa, yazalwa eManila. UGina ukhumbula ukuthi uneminyaka engamatshumi amahlanu wabeka ithawula ekhanda lakhe futhi wacabanga ukuthi kwakuyizinwele zakhe eside.
Ebusheni bakhe wabamba iqhaza emincintiswaneni yocansi futhi wathatha indawo yokuqala. Ngisho nalapho ephupha ngokuba ngowesifazane, hhayi nje owesifazane, kodwa ubuhle. Ngaphandle kwe-hormone therapy, u-Gina wenze imisebenzi yokuhlanza isikhumba eziningana. Futhi lapho eneminyaka engu-19, ehamba nonina, owayesekela kulo lonke uhlangothi lwakhe, uGina waya eThailand, lapho ngosizo lwabahlinzayo bokuqala abagcina baba intombazane.
Khona-ke imodeli yahlala e-United States, lapho yenza umsebenzi ophumelelayo. Kuze kube maduzane, cishe akekho noyedwa wabahlobo bakhe baseMelika owayesazi ngomlando wakhe wesilisa, kuze kube yilapho uGina enquma ukutshela obala iqiniso. Wenza lokhu ukuze asekele abantu base-transgender emhlabeni jikelele, behlushwa yedwa futhi behlukumeze abathandekayo babo.
Laverna Cox (oneminyaka engu-32 ubudala)
Umlingisi odumile, inkanyezi yochungechunge ethi "i-Orange - i-hit of the season" yazalwa edolobhaneni elincane lase-Alabama. Njengengane, umlingisi wekusasa wabuye washushiswa futhi wahlushwa emphakathini, ngoba wayengafuni ukugqoka izingubo zamadoda nokufaka isiketi esikoleni. Khona-ke wayenamaphupho amabili athandekayo: ukuba abe ngowesifazane futhi enze amafilimu.
Zombili zagcwaliseka, ngenkathi uLaverna athuthela eNew York, wangena ekolishi elisebenza futhi wenza umsebenzi wokushintsha ubulili. Ihora lakhe elihle kakhulu lihlehlisiwe ngo-2013, ngemuva kokukhululwa kochungechunge oluthi "i-Orange - i-hit of the season," lapho edlala indima ye-transgender uSophia Barset.
U-Eidian Dowling (oneminyaka engu-29 ubudala)
U-Eidian Dowling ungumgqugquzeli womzimba ononya, i-blogger kanye nomgqugquzeli womphakathi. Akunakwenzeka ukukholelwa ukuthi le ndoda enesisindo yayiyintombazane. Ngisho nangaphambi kokuba umsebenzi uguqule ucansi, u-Eidian, ngaleso sikhathi engumfana osemusha, wayenebudlelwane obunothando nabantu bakhe. Omunye wabo wathi: "Kungani ungabi yindoda?" Lawa mazwi ashukumisa kakhulu isiphetho esizayo se-Adian. Akenzanga nje ukulungiswa kocansi, kodwa futhi waqala ukubandakanyeka ngokweqile emidlalweni, ehloma imisipha emihle.
Ngonyaka ka-2015, wabamba iqhaza emncintiswaneni wokuzikhethela komuntu, ozowela esiqongweni somagazini wamadoda weMpilo yabesilisa. Ngenxa yokuvota, wathatha indawo yesibili kodwa waba yindoda yokuqala ye-transgender ezovela engxenyeni yomagazini wamadoda asemqoka: wabotshwa ngabanye abaqedile ukukhishwa ngendaba ekhethekile ye-Men's Health.
Manje, i-Adian iyaqhubeka ukudlala imidlalo, igcina ibhulogi yakhe futhi ilwa namalungelo abantu abadlulayo. Ekuphileni kwakhe, konke kulungile kuye: uyajabula nomkakhe.