Ukudala, isithombe sakhe nesitayela sakhe esiyingqayizivele, zonke izintombi zizama ukucabangela zonke izingxenye zayo. Ngakho-ke singakwazi ukuchitha amahora e-gym sizama ukufeza isibalo esihle, silandele amashaveli wefashini, ukuhambisana nezikhathi, sivakashele njalo umculi wezinwele kanye ne-beautician, ukuze isikhumba sethu nezinwele zibukeke ziphilile futhi zilungele kahle. Yonke le mizamo ifana nezocansi ezithandwayo, futhi zifakwe emqondweni wesifazane ngokwemvelo ngokwazo. Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukubukeka akuhlali kudlala indima eqinile. Ngisho nensizwa encane kunazo zonke futhi enhle kakhulu ingaveza ukuziphatha okuhle kakhulu. Ake sikhulume ngemithetho evamile evunyelwe futhi engekho emthethweni yemikhuba emihle.
Kungani imikhuba emihle?
Akunakwenzeka ukunganaki iqiniso lokuthi siphila emphakathini, futhi noma yini abakushoyo mayelana nenkululeko yokukhuluma, imithetho nemingcele ikhona, futhi isebenza kuwo wonke umuntu ngaphandle kokuhlukile. Ngokufanayo, ukugcinwa kwemikhuba evunyelwe ngokuvamile nemikhuba yokuziphatha kwakha isiko lomuntu. Nazi ezinye izibonelo zemikhuba emihle yabesifazane nsuku zonke:
- Umthetho oyinhloko intombazane enemikhuba emihle ukugubha ukudla okumnandi. Ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, zivame ukubhekana nezimo lapho ukuhlakanipha kwakho kuzokwahlulelwa khona ngokufanele. Isibonelo, kuyoba nombono ongacabangi njengentombazane yamasiko, uma ungakhulumi ngokuzwakalayo futhi ungenaso izingxoxo ezinde efonini ezindaweni zomphakathi, kufaka phakathi ukuhamba; Ungaphazamisi i-interlocutor, ungenzi sengathi ungumholi ngokuvakashelwa, akuxwayise mayelana nokuphuza.
- Ukulinganisela noma ukuphatha "igolide elisho" elisetshenziswa ekukhulumisaneni, ekudleni, ekuphuzeni utshwala, kubhekwa njengento ehlukanisayo yomuntu ofundisiwe.
- Ukunemba, okungafani nokubukeka kuphela, kubonisa imikhuba emihle.
- Ukuntuleka komkhuba wokuhleba, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima kwabesifazane, kodwa kubaluleke kakhulu ngekhwalithi.
- Futhi ngokusobala kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba intombazane ihloniphe ngokuphathelene nomngani wakhe.
Futhi lokhu akulona uhlu oluphelele lwethembo elihle. Intombazane ejwayele lonke uhlu lwemikhuba emihle nokuyisebenzisa ekukhulumisaneni ngeke ibuzwe ukuthi kungani edingekayo.
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