Ezweni lezemfashini, njengezibalo noma ezombusazwe, kunemithetho nemithetho eyenziwa ngesizathu. Udinga ukwazi ukuthi yini oncike kuyo nokuthi yini oyilwelayo.
Imithetho yokwakhiwa kwezembatho
Ukuvumelana kwezembatho kungenye yemithetho ebaluleke kakhulu yokwakhiwa kwesithombe. Ukubukeka okuhle nokukhangayo kuhlobene eduze nokuvumelana kwayo yonke imininingwane, kufaka phakathi izingubo nezesekeli kuphela, kodwa nezinwele, ukwakheka nokuhlobisa. Okubaluleke kakhulu isitayela, ukuthungwa, imibala, imibala kanye nokuhlobisa. Kodwa ukubonakala kwakho nokuziphatha kwakho kuyisixhumanisi esikhulu sokuxhuma, okufanele sivumelane ngokuvumelana nabo bonke. Ukwakhiwa kwezembatho kuyinhlanganisela yazo zonke izakhi zokugqoka nezesekeli zibe yinye. Kukhona isikhungo sokubunjwa, okuyinto ukunakwa okukhethekile okugxilile.
Ungakha isikhungo sokwakhiwa phakathi kwesibalo, ngaleyo ndlela ukhombise isikhumba, izinqulu noma isifuba. Uma ufuna ukugxila phansi, uthola isithombe esisisekelo nesisekelo. Kodwa uhlobo lwesigqoko sekhanda, i-hairstyle yokuqala noma ukwakheka kubheka ubuso, intamo nezinwele.
I-Elegant Audrey Hepburn ibilokhu ifuna ukubeka isikhungo sokubunjwa phezulu, ngaleyo ndlela idonsela amehlo ebusweni obuhle. Kulokhu wasuswa izigqoko eziningi nemicibisholo. Kodwa inkanyezi edumile yefilimu uBrigitte Bardot yathandeka wonke umuntu ngezinwele zezinwele. I-"babette" evelele isacatshangelwa ibhizinesi lakhe lebhizinisi.
Kunemigomo emithathu yokwakheka kwezembatho:
- Qhathanisa - umdlalo onokuhlanganiswa kombala, ukuma noma ukuthungwa. Isibonelo, ukuvinjelwa kwemibala embala kuzosiza ukufihla amaphutha we-figure, kanye nokunikeza ukulungiswa kwesithombe. Okufanayo kusebenza nokuhlanganiswa kwemidwebo ehlukene (uboya ne-velvet, isikhumba lesikhumba kanye ne-denim). Kunoma imuphi umfanekiso kubalulekile ukunamathela emithethweni yokuhlanganiswa kombala ezembatho.
- Ukufanisana nesikhathi sonke isambatho sezembatho sakhiwe ngokukodwa, ukuphrinta, ukuma noma ubukhulu, noma ukuphindaphinda kombala owodwa.
- I-Nuance iyinguquko eyinqaba kusuka ekuphambeni kuya kufanana. Ukufana phakathi kwezakhi kubonakala kucebile futhi kukhulu.
Imithetho yesitayela semfashini
Ukubukeka komuntu njalo kuthinta umzwelo kwabanye. Ingxenye enhle yesintu ayiqapheli kuphela lokhu, kepha iyasebenza njengesikhali esiyinhloko.
Ngaphambi kokusheshisa ukuhlola izitayela ezintsha zefashini, kufanele uzibuze mayelana nesitayela sakho, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unayo. Uma ungazi ukuthi ungaqala kuphi, ngokuqinisekile cabanga ngemithetho eyisisekelo yesitayela:
- Isitayela esikhethiwe kufanele sivumelane ngokuvumelana nezwe elikuzungezile. Okokuqala kuqondene nomsebenzi wakho kanye nomsebenzi wakho. Uma ufuna ukuphumelela, akufanele unakekele imithetho ekhona yekhodi yokugqoka. Kodwa lokhu akusho ukuthi kufanele uhlangane nobuningi obukhulu! Kudingeka nje ufunde ukubukeka kakhudlwana futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi kunabanye abantu abaseduze.
- Ngosizo lwezingubo kufanele ukwazi ukubiza izinhlangano ezidingekayo. Isibonelo, ngosizo lwesitatimende sebhizinisi ungabonisa izinhloso zakho ezijulile mayelana nesimo noma umbuzo uxazululwe, kodwa ngosizo lwesigqoko esinomusa ungathola imibono yabantu abanentshisekelo.
- Isitayela somuntu ngamunye ukutholakala komhlaba wakho wangaphakathi, futhi ungalingisi noma ubani. Kufanele uzizwe ukhululekile futhi ukhululekile. Funda ukwethula isithunzi sakho bese ufihla amaphutha.
- Ungesabi ukuhlolwa! Kunezitayela eziningi kakhulu ezembatho, ngakho-ke ungaba ngumama webhizinisi emsebenzini, futhi kusihlwa ube yingonyama enhle kakhulu. Futhi akekho okuvimbela namuhla ukuzama ngesithombe somcibisholo onobudlova, futhi kusasa uyintombazana encane yothando. Into esemqoka ukuthi yonke into yayifanele futhi ishukumisayo.
Ungayikwazi ngekhanda le mithetho, udinga nje ukuziqonda wena futhi uthole into eyodwa futhi eyingqayizivele! Inhlanhla kuwe!
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