Wonke umuntu usetshenziselwa ukuthi amakati anothando futhi aphefumula futhi anikeze amasimu amaningi amaminithi amaningi amnandi ngemidlalo yawo. Kodwa lezi yizilwane ezidliwayo emva kwakho konke, futhi izinhlobonhlobo zabo zokuzingela zigazini labo. Futhi ngokuvamile kwenzeka ukuthi ikati lihlaba kabi ngesikhathi semidlalo noma lishaya ezinyaweni zenkosi. Uma isilwane sincane, umuntu uthinteka ngemidlalo yakhe futhi efisa ukuluma isandla sakhe. Kodwa inja iyakhula, amazinyo ayo abukhali aqala ukulimaza abanikazi. Futhi abaningi abaninikazi bezilwane bayazibuza ukuthi benzeni uma ikati libala?
Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi isijeziso asikwazi ukusizwa lapha. Futhi ngaphambi kokuba ubhekane nokuziphatha okungathandeki kwesilwane, udinga ukuqonda izimbangela zayo. Kukhona eziningana.
Kungani ikati iduma njalo?
- Isizathu esivame kakhulu salokhu - isilwane akekho owake wafundisa, ukuthi lokhu akunakwenziwa. Kusukela ukubonakala kwekhanda ekhaya lakho, kudingeka uhlanganyele ekukhuliseni kwakhe. Izingane zizoluma izandla zakho, azi ukuthi zingadlala kanjani ngokuhlukile. Uma ungambonisi ukuthi awukwazi ukwenza lokhu, khona-ke lokhu kuziphatha kuzolungiswa.
- Uma ikati yaqala ukuluma ngokungalindelekile, kodwa ingakaze yenze ngaphambili, kungenzeka ukuthi kukhona okulimazayo. Ephendula ukuthintwa kwakho, uqala ukugunda futhi ugubha, ucindezele izindlebe futhi angaluma. Kulesi simo, udinga ukukhombisa isilwane ku-veterinarian.
- Ikati ingaba nomlutha uma liyesaba okuthile. Isibonelo, ngokunyakaza okuvamile, isilwane asizizwa silondekile, ngakho-ke siqala ukukhala ukuzivikela. Nika ukunakekelwa kakhudlwana ekati, ukusizungeza nge-caress nokunakekelwa.
- Uma isilwane sakho sinesizungu futhi sithukuthele, uphuthele noma ungahlanganyeli ngokuzivocavoca njalo nemidlalo, khona-ke uzoqala ukubonisa ukuhlukunyezwa ukuze akhangele ukunakwa kwakho. Qinisekisa ukuthi ikati njalo linamathoyizi okwanele, futhi ukuze angabi nesithukuthezi.
Uma uthola isizathu sokuziphatha komlutha wesilwane sakho, ungaqala ukusikhipha kuso. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi awukwazi ukusebenzisa ukukhwabanisa, ukumemeza nokujeziswa ngokomzimba. Ochwepheshe bakholelwa ukuthi ukukhulisa amakati akulula, kubalulekile ukukhombisa ukubekezela nokubekezela. Isilwane kumele sizwe uthando lwakho nothando, kuphela lapho luzokwenza njengoba ufisa. Kunezindlela eziningana ukuthi unamathela kanjani ikati ukuze ulume.
- Uma isilwane sakho siseyingcosana, uthola yonke into, kufaka phakathi izandla zakho, isizathu singase sibe amazinyo okusika. Thenga amathoyizi ahlukene, amathambo ahlafuna noma amabhola. Ngokuvamile ukudlala ngesilwane sakho futhi ngeke abe nesifiso sokukulima.
- Uma ikati ibambe isandla sakho, ungayidonsi, iyoyikhukhumeza ngokuphindaphindiwe ngokuphindaphindiwe, ngoba yisidla. Ngokuphambene nalokho, cindezela isandla sakhe ngesandla sakhe, ungabhala izinsini zakho ngomunwe wakho, amakati angayithandi.
- Uma ikati ikulima phakathi nomdlalo, ungamtshela ngokuqondile "hhayi" futhi umise umdlalo. Iya kwelinye igumbi futhi okwesikhashana, ungayinaki isilwane. Uma uphinda lokhu izikhathi eziningana, ikati izokuzama ukungabangeli ukungajabuli ngesikhathi semidlalo, ngoba uyathanda ukudlala.
- Enye indlela yokondla ikati okufanele ulume ngayo ukuphonsa ithawula elikhulu esilwaneni ngenkathi ezama ukukuluma. Ngeke athande lokhu nangemva kokuphindaphinda okuphindwe kabili ikati izoqonda ukuthi ukukhala kwakhe kuzoholela kuphi.
- Ungaphala amanzi eminye ebusweni benkathi uma ekuluma.
Ukuze lokhu kusebenze, udinga ukuhlela ukuphalaza kulo lonke indlu. - Uma ikati lihlaba isikhathi sonke, lungiselela umsindo ozwakalayo noma i-tin ingagcwaliswa ngemali. Izilwane ziyesaba umsindo omkhulu. Uma isilwane siphila, yenza umsindo okhaliphile ngembiza. Ngemva kwesikhashana, ikati izoqonda ukuthi imisindo eyamesabayo ihlobene nokuziphatha kwakhe.
Ungalokothi udlale nesilwane sakho ngezandla zakho neminwe futhi ungavumeli abangane bakho bakwenze. Ungakhuthazi ikati ukuba ilume, ngakho akudingeki ukuthi ikhule kulo.