Ezweni lethu kunezinto eziningi ezingaziwa, kufaka phakathi kukhona amandla okusivikela noma, ngokuphambene nalokho, ayingozi. Uma umuntu ephikisana nokungajabuli, izinkinga eziqhubekayo azivumeli ukuba aphile ngokuthula, mhlawumbe, kungumbuzo wokuphazanyiswa kwemilingo. Ukuthola indlela yokuqaphela ukuphanga futhi uthole ukuthi ubani owenzile, kulokhu, kufanele abe yinto ephambili. Emva kwakho konke, uma ungayeki umthelela onjalo wangaphandle ekuphileni komuntu, inhlanhla ngeke ibuye, futhi izinkinga ziyokhula kuphela.
Ungazi kanjani ukuthi kukhona ukulimala kuwe?
Enye yezindlela ezilula zokuletha ukwehluleka komunye umuntu ukufaka, okungukuthi, izinto ezinamakhono noma ezifihliwe endlini. Ukuze unqume ukuthi imiphi imikhosi yemilingo eyenziwe, kuyadingeka ukukhumbula ukuthi ukuqala kwendawo yonya lenhlekelele kuhlotshaniswa nomcimbi othize. Kungaba ukubukeka kwezinto endlini, noma ukuhambela komuntu kusuka ezihlotsheni noma obaziyo.
Kanti futhi indlela yokubona umonakalo uhamba ngefulethi ngekhandlela elihlelwe esontweni. Uma ephuza futhi enza ukuphahlazeka, cishe, cishe kukhona into endlini, ehlelwe ukuthi ihluleke.
Esinye isibonakaliso sethonya lemilingo singase sibe mnyama wezingubo zesiliva. Kuyinto yensimbi enhle ephendula ngokujulile kwamehlo ahlukahlukene kanye nokuphalaza futhi ibasize baqaphele. Ngakho-ke, uma i-ring noma chain of silver ngokuzumayo iqala ukumbozwa ngamachashazi, kufanelekile ukukhathazeka.
Indlela yokuqaphela ukuphangwa nokususa?
Ngemuva kokuba umuntu ehambele indlu ngekhandlela noma ephawula ukungaqondakali okungajwayelekile okuphindaphindiwe, kuphuthumayo ukulinganisa ukususa ukuchithwa. Okokuqala udinga ukuthola nokuqeda izinto ezingajwayelekile. Kungaba izipho, noma nje akucaci ukuthi izinto zivele kanjani endlini. Ukunquma into enjalo ilula - ubambe ikhandlela ngenhla, ubone ukuthi ilangabi lizobhema noma liyokhipha.
Awukwazi ukuphonsa amaphuzu atholakele. Kumelwe bashiswe noma bangcwatshwe emhlabathini. Ngemuva kwalokhu, kubalulekile ukuhlanza indlu, ukufafaza emaceleni ngamanzi angcwele bese ufunda umthandazo owodwa.
Uma emva kwalokho isimo asizange sibuyele esimweni esijwayelekile, okulandelayo kufanele kwenziwe. Kungenzeka futhi kuyadingeka ukuya esontweni , ubeke amakhandlela ukuthula komphefumulo wezihlobo zabo ezifile bese ubacela usizo emthandazweni. Zama futhi ukukhuluma nabantu abanekhono kulezi zindaba. Kodwa lapha kufanele uqaphele, ngoba kunezinhlamba eziningi. Ngakho-ke, ukubheka isazi esinjalo kungokweziphakamiso zomuntu siqu.