Ezikoleni zasenkulisa nasezikoleni ezincane izingane eziningi ziyesaba ukwesaba. Ingane iqala ukuvakashela ekamelweni lomzali njalo ebusuku, ngethemba lokuthi, noma kunjalo, ukulala nomama nobaba. Isimo sibuye sivame lapho ingane encane izama kanzima ukuba ingavumeli abazali bayo baphume ekamelweni lakhe ababezama ukumbeka.
Kungani izingane ziyesaba ukukhanya?
Igumbi elimnyama ngamehlo omntwana kakade aliyona igumbi lapho ukukhanya kusanda kusha. Izinkomba zezinto ziyashintsha, izikhumbuzo ezivamile zinyamalale. Ikamelo liba yinto engavamile futhi engaqondakaliyo, futhi ezinye izinto zithola ngisho nezinkulumo ezimbi. Ngokuvamile, lokhu kubangela abantwana besaba ukwesaba ubumnyama.
Ubumnyama nganezibonakaliso zokungavikeleki ebubini, okungenakuphikiswa.
Izingane eziphakathi kweminyaka engamashumi amathathu nesikhombisa azikwazi ukuhlukanisa inganekwane neqiniso. Yingakho ubumnyama kubo bugcwele okuthile okumbi. Ingane isabeka futhi ubumnyama ngokwayo, futhi lezo zenzakalo ezingenzeka ngenxa yalo.
Ubumnyama buwuphawu lomuntu onesizungu.
Yini engekwenziwe ngokulandelana uma ingane isaba ubumnyama? Ungahlolisisi ukuzama ukuchazela ingane ukuthi ukwesaba kwakhe akusizi ngalutho. Ungadlala kanye nengane, njengokungathi uyesaba. I-contraindicated yokumangaza noma ukuhlekisa ingane.
Nazi ezinye izeluleko eziqondile zabazali abanezingane zabo ezesaba ukulala ebumnyameni:
- Ungalindeli ingane ukuba ithuthukise ukwesaba. Shiya ekamelweni lakhe kuhlanganisa ukukhanya ebusuku, isibani phansi.
- Ungavali ukukhanya emgodini. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zifuna ukuya endlini yokugezela ebusuku, kodwa ziyesaba, ngoba umgwaqo ubumnyama.
- Izingane kufanele zisondele ekamelweni labazali. Ingane yangaphambi kwesikole, esaba ukwesaba, akudingeki ukuba nekamelo lokulala elihlukile. Noma kunjalo, izingane ezinjalo ezimweni eziningi ziza kubazali phakathi nobusuku, futhi ukukhuthazela ukuphunyuka kwabo kungabangela ukwesaba okwengeziwe.
- Uma ezinye izinto zesabisa ingane ngezinkomba zabo ebumnyameni, vele ususe. Izicelo zokungesabi ngokuvamile azisebenzi.
- Emini kuyasiza ukushaya lezo zihloko ezibangela ingane ukuba yesabe ebusuku.
- Hlela imidlalo ezindaweni ezibunjiwe zefulethi (ngaphansi kwetafula, "endlini" yezihlalo eziningana zezingubo ezimbozwe ngengubo phezulu, ekamelweni elinamafasitela avaliwe). Kancane kancane ujwayeze ingane ibe mnyama.
- Ngezimpelasonto namaholide, lapho wonke umndeni ubuthana khona kusihlwa etafuleni, ukukhanyisa amakhandlela bese uvala izibani. Lokhu kuzosiza ingane yakho ukuba isetshenziselwe ubumnyama obumnyama, futhi ibheka kahle.