Iminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha ubudala yindoda iyisenzakalo esibaluleke kakhulu, lapho kudlula khona inhloko yomndeni ukuthi into esemqoka empilweni yakhe ngabantu bakubo. Kule minyaka yobudala, le ndoda iyaqhubeka ifuna ukuchitha nezingane zakhe nabazukulu bakhe. Ngakho-ke, isipho esingcono kakhulu somuntu iminyaka engu-60 kuyoba ukubona umndeni wakhe wonke etafuleni lokugubha.
Yebo, izivakashi zidinga ukunakekelwa isipho seqhawe losuku kusengaphambili. Phela, iminyaka engama-60 yusuku oluhle kakhulu, ngakho-ke izipho kuzo kufanele zibe ezikhethekile.
Imibono yezipho ezingavamile zomuntu iminyaka engama-60
Ukuzalwa kwezinsuku ezingamashumi ayisithupha kuyoba mnandi kakhulu ukuthola isipho esenziwe ngesandla, isibonelo, i-albhamu yesithombe enezithombe ezikhunjulwa zomuntu wokuzalwa noma i-collage yesithombe enezithombe zawo wonke amalungu omndeni wakhe.
Ngaphambi kokuba uye esitolo ukuze uthole isipho sokugubha umyeni ogujwa iminyaka engu-60, thola ukuthi unesithakazelo nobani okuzilibazisa. Ngokuba umdobi we-amateur isipho esihlukile uyoba isipho esihle. Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi imishini yokudoba ibhalwe kakhulu. Isipho esiyingqayizivele somuntu, umphathi wakho noma osebenza nabo, kuyoba i-cognac iqoqo noma iwayini, i-whiskey edala noma i-vodka yase-Swiss, noma mhlawumbe ibhodlela le-rum Jamaican. Ababhemayo bangathunyelwa ngeqoqo le-cigarillos noma i-cigar yocuba.
Namuhla, wonke umuntu ujwayele ukubhala ipeni lemikhosi evamile, futhi uzoletha ipeni elibizayo ngepeni legolide noma ukuma okunamathele kahle okushicilela ukubhala. Esikhundleni sama-crystaldi yendabuko, unganikela iwashi lesitayela se-antique ku-chain noma iwashi yasekuqaleni ye-statuette. Noma khetha njengesipho ibhokisi eliyigugu lezinongo zokugcina iwashi.
Uma iqhawe lakho lingumlando womlando, mnike umkhumbuzi wokuqala we-saber, ummese noma umlenze, incwadi-encyclopedia yezimpi noma i-biography yabaphathi abadumile abahlala ngezikhathi ezahlukene.
Ngokuba ibhola le-hockey noma i-hockey fan isipho esimangalisayo kuyoba ithikithi lomdlalo oseduzane. I-fan of chess izojabula ukudlala izibalo zethusi, futhi khumbula lowo owabanika. Umqoqo wezitembu, isibonelo, uzojabula ikhophi entsha kuqoqo lakhe. Futhi ngenxa ye-numismatist, uhlamvu lwemali olunesithombe sakhe olwethulwa ekupheleni kweminyaka engu-60 luyoba isimanga sangempela.
Ngesikhathi abaneminyaka engamashumi ayisithupha, amadoda amaningi athola umbono okhubazekile, ngakho-ke kuyoba kuhle ngobaba noma umkhwekazi ukuthola icala elineminyaka engu-60 ubudala ngenxa yezibuko azidingayo. Isipho esingakhohlwa ukuthi upapa oneminyaka engama-60 kuyoba umdanso oqoshiwe, isibonelo, "Kubaba wakho othandekayo ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa." Ibhande elihle lesikhumba ubaba othanda ukugqoka amabhulukwe, abe khona ngegama lokuhleka ukuthi ibhande langaphambilini aliliphelile kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Isipho esiwusizo kumuntu oneminyaka engu-60 ubudala kuyoba yindlalifa , i-ionizer yomoya noma i-massager yomzimba. Umzingeli anganikezwa ukuzingela okhethekile, futhi umgadi wegadi uyisethi yezinsiza zesimanje ze-dacha. Isipho esihle kakhulu sizoba yindlu egcwele izihlalo noma itende-gazebo lapho iqembu lokuzalwa lizophumula noma lithole izivakashi.
Isipho esihle yisithombe esihle kuhlaka olubizayo noma ukubhalisela uchungechunge lwezincwadi ngumlobi ozithandayo.
Asikho isikhumbuzo esingenakuyenza ngaphandle kwezimbali. Nikeza usuku lokuzalwa i-bouquet enhle enemibala "yamadoda": i-callas, i-gladiolus, i-tulips, i-chrysanthemums. Isipho esikhulu sizoba isixha esikhulu sama roses amnyama-burgundy.
Kuyinto evamile ukusho izinkulumo zokuthokoza kuzo zonke iJubbe. Lungisa futhi indoda yakho eseduze, kungaba ngubaba, umkhwekazi noma umyeni, ngisho nokuthokoza okuncane, kodwa ukuthi kuvela enhliziyweni. Amazwi anjalo angakhohlwayo ayokhunjulwa isikhathi eside.