Ngokuvamile abameleli besigamu esiphezulu sabantu baphupha abafazi babo, futhi kungakhathaliseki ukuthi indoda ishadile noma akanayo owesifazane okwamanje. Ake sibheke ukuthi amaphupho omfazi wezincwadi ezahlukene zephupho nokuthi yini okufanele alindelwe uma umuntu embona ngaphansi kwezimo ezahlukene.
Ngokuvamile, ekuchazeni okuthandwa kakhulu kombuzo walokho umfazi aphupha ngakho, kuboniswa ukuthi iphupho elinjalo liyisixwayiso sokuthi umlingani angasithola lesi sifo, kodwa uyolinqoba. Uma ummeleli ongashadile wesigamu esiphezulu sobuntu ebona umfazi ephusheni, lokhu kusho ukuthi maduze uzohlangana nalowo okhethiwe, ozofezwa isikhathi eside.
Ukuhumusha iphupho likaMiller kuthatha iphupho elinjalo njengesidingo sokuqedela izindaba zakudala. Ngokusho kwesinye isichazamazwi, lokhu kubonisa ukuvela kwezingxabano endlini. Uma oshade naye ephupheni ekhuluma nawe ngendlela enobungane, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi maduzane uzothola inzuzo emva kokuthengiselana okuphephile okuphelile. Ukuchazwa kwe-esoteric kusho ukuthi iphupho lapho ubona khona umkakho kuyisimo sezenzakalo ezijabulisayo, inhlanhla kanye nokusizwa umfazi esesimweni esinzima, nokuxabana nomkakho ukuthuthukisa ubuhlobo. Ukuphupha endlini yabafazi ababili - ukuxabana nokungasebenzi emndenini.
Kungani uphupha umfazi?
Uma umfazi ophuzile ephupha, kusho ukuthi ngeke ukhululeke kulokho okwenziwe ngumlingani wakho. Enye incwadi yokuphupha yenza lokhu njengento okuzoyizwa maduzane mayelana nemfihlakalo owayezifihle isikhathi eside. Uma umfazi ohambahambayo ephupha - lokhu kuyisithunywa sezinkinga, kodwa qiniseka ukuthi unake ukuthi ubuhlobo obunjani obuthongweni bakho. Ngokuvamile lokhu kusikisela ukuthi isimo sezulu esibi singangena emndenini. Uma umuntu ephupha umfazi ongcolile, ubani olele eceleni futhi ebukeka egula, ephelile, lokhu kubonisa ukuthi esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ungathola isifo esibi kakhulu. Ngokuvamile, lapho umyeni wakhe ephupha umfazi ongcolile, izazi zengqondo zithatha ukunganeliseki ngokocansi futhi zincoma ukunakekelwa isimo sabo sangokwenyama nokuziphatha okwamanje.