Ukuya esikhathini njalo ngenyanga kuyinkqubo yokuphila futhi kuyimvelo yabesifazane, kodwa kusukela ezikhathini zasendulo, sekuyizinkolelo-ze futhi zonke izinhlobo zobandlululo. Ngisho nanamuhla, kulezi zinsuku, abesifazane abakwazi ukungena ethempelini bese beya emifanekisweni, futhi kungani bengenakugcinwa njalo ngenyanga - kulesi sihloko.
Kungani kungenakulondolozwa phakathi nesikhathi?
Okokuqala, lokhu kungenxa yenkolelo yokuthi ngalesi sikhathi owesifazane "ungcolile". Isibonelo, amaSulumane awakhulumi nomkakhe phakathi nalezi zinsuku nangemva kokubeletha, lapho umzimba uzihlambalaza, kanti nakuba amaKristu engenayo imfuneko enjalo, ukwenza uthando phakathi nokuya esikhathini akukhuthazwa ekuboneni kokuhlanzeka. Ezikhathini zasendulo kwakukholelwa ukuthi owesifazane oya esikhathini angenza isibuko sakhe siphume ngokuthinta kwakhe, sithathe amandla kusuka ezitshalweni nasemhlabeni ngokulima nokuhlwanyela, kuphulukise ukugula kwabathandekayo bakhe uma egeza izingubo zabo, njll. Ngisho nokutshela ukuthi oshonile wayengavunyelwe, ngakho akazange athathe ingxenye yokungcola yena ngokwakhe futhi umphefumulo wakhe awuzange uhlale ungahlanjululwa.
Labo abanesithakazelo, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuyiqiniso ukuthi ngezinyanga zonke ayikwazi ukulondolozwa, kufanelekile ukunaka incazelo ecacile. Kunombono wokuthi phakathi nokuya esikhathini ngokusebenzisa ama-pores wesifazane umkhiqizo okhethekile okhishwayo osebenza njenge-toxin eziphilayo. Yingakho inhlama iphenduka umuncu, nokubola kweklabishi ngenkathi kutholakala. Kuyafana nokulondolozwa, okungukuthi, imifino eqoshiwe nezithelo azimi futhi "ziqhume", futhi ezinye ziqaphele ukuthi izimbali ezintsha ezinqunywe ngokushesha ziphela ngokushesha. Yini engingayisho ... Yebo, akuyona yonke le miphumela emibi ephawulwayo futhi kuyini indaba ngaleyo nto futhi ayikwazi ukuqondwa, kodwa labo abakhathazeka ngokuphepha kwempahla yabo ebusika, ungancoma ukuthi usebenze emigodini yegabhaja bese ubilisa izimbiza bese ubilisa isikhathi eside.