Phakathi kwazo zonke izizwe zomhlaba wethu, enye yezinto eziyinhloko, futhi ngokuvamile isenzakalo esibaluleke kunazo zonke ekuphileni, ngumshado . Naphezu kwamasiko ahlukene kanye nokwahlukana kwemikhosi yenkolo, njalo futhi yonke indawo amaqhawe amakhulu alo mkhosi kanye neholidi yiyo umakoti nomkhwenyana.
Yingakho, umbuzo walokho umakoti ophuphayo uyakunakekelwa kakhulu, ikakhulukazi labo abaye bephupha ngengubo yomshado. Ngempela, lokhu kufanele kusho okuthile okubaluleke nakakhulu.
Kungani uphupha ukubona umlobokazi?
Ake sizame ukuthola ukuthi yini lapha. Kubalulekile ukulalela isigaba sephupho kanye nemininingwane engakhohlwayo. Ngokuvamile, kunombono wokuthi ukuphupha umakoti - ukuba acebile noma uphumelele empilweni yakhe. Kodwa, lokhu akulona kunjalo njalo, njengoba isho njalo, uSathane - usemininingwane.
Isibonelo, ukuthi umakoti uyamamatheka kanjani. Uma ngokujabulisayo nangothando - kusho umhlangano osalindelwe isikhathi eside, uma ukumamatheka kudabukisayo, khona-ke umhlangano ngeke ube maduze, uma kwenzeka ukumomotheka kabi - wesaba uhlobo oluthile lokuqamba okungcolile.
Kubalulekile ukuba unake lokho okushiwo ingubo yomshadisi. Uma ephusheni umakoti ujabulela ngesigqoko futhi ubonisa ngenjabulo - lokhu ukuthola ifa elikhulu, futhi uma engathokozi futhi efuna ukuyisusa, bese efika ezindabeni ezimbi nezinkinga, kodwa uma umakoti egqoke izingubo ezimhlophe neveyili ephupha, lo mlobokazi nawe uyaphupha - khona-ke lokhu, kulesi sifo. Yebo, futhi ngokujwayelekile, ukuzibona njengomlobokazi ephusheni akulungile. Uma ubona ephusheni ukuthi umakoti ukhetha kanjani izingubo ezinemibala ehlukene salon futhi akakwazi ukwenza ukugcina - lokhu ukungabaza nokungaqiniseki ekuphileni kwakhe komuntu siqu.
Kungani umlobokazi ephupha ukukhala?
Uma kwadingeka ucabange ngalokho umakoti okhalayo akhuluma ngakho, lokhu kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi awujabuli ngezenzo zabangane bakho nezihlobo, kepha uma umakoti ekhala ngenjabulo, okungukuthi, ngokumomotheka, kodwa izinyembezi zigeleza - lokhu kuya ekududeni nasekufudumeni kobudlelwane emndenini .
Kungani kufanele uphuphe isixha somlobokazi?
Into ebaluleke kakhulu yengubo yomakoti iyisixha sakhe. Uma ephusheni ubona ngokucacile yonke imininingwane ye-bouquet futhi ikhanya kakhulu - embukisweni omusha ocacile, futhi uma umakoti ekunika ukubukeka - ekukhohliseni okulindelwe. Uma ubamba isihlahla esijikijelwe umlobokazi - inhlanhla engavamile, futhi uma ibanjwa, bese ihlehliswa, noma ingabe ingabi isixha, kodwa into yangaphandle - kungukukhala izinyembezi nokudumazeka. Uma kwenzeka ukuthi izimbali ziphuza umhlophe, kungukuhlukanisa, futhi uma oluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka ukugcwaliseka okusheshayo kwezifiso. I-bouquet ekhanyayo - ekuboneni okusha nokuhamba okumnandi. Ngokuvamile, lapho izimbali ziphupha - njalo isithunywa soshintsho.