Ngenxa yokugubha okhokho bethu kwavela isibalo esikhulu sezimpawu. Bavumela ukwazi ezinye izenzakalo zekusasa. Ezweni lanamuhla, izinkolelo-ze zilahlekelwe ukuthandwa kwazo futhi abaningi abaziqapheli. Naphezu kwalokhu, abanye abantu bahlonipha ukuhlakanipha nolwazi lokhokho babo futhi bazama ukuhambisana nazo zonke izixwayiso nezincomo. Izimpawu zabantu zichaza ukuthi kungani isifuba, impumulo, izandla nezinye izingxenye zomzimba zizama usizo ukuze zifunde ngezenzakalo zesikhathi esizayo esiseduze. Sebenzisa izinkolelo-ze kuphela emva kokukhipha ezinye izimbangela zokubamba. Kwezinye izimo, ukuzamazama kwenzeka uma isifo noma ukungezwani komzimba kuqhubeka. Kumele futhi kuthiwa cishe zonke izincazelo zenzelwe ngqo abesifazane.
Kuyini ukuvuza kwesifuba esifanele?
Ukuchazwa kwezinkolelo-ze kuhlobene nokuhamba kwesikhathi. Isibonelo, uma kuqhubeka izinsuku eziningana, kuyisibonakaliso sokuthi othandekayo ushintshile nomunye wesifazane. Lapho isifuba sishaya ngezikhathi ezithile, kusho ukuthi omunye owaziwayo okwamanje ukulangazelela kakhulu. Futhi ukubheka abalandeli bemi phakathi kwama-blondes. Kwezinye izimo, lesi simo singakwazi ukubikezela ubuhlobo bokuqala ngokocansi. Kukhona enye incazelo yezimpawu, ukuthi kungani ithambela isifuba esifanele, esinomlingani omubi. Ukubamba ngokungazelelwe kubonakala sengathi ukuphila kuhlulekile, futhi yisikhathi sokuvuma kuwe. Ngenxa yalokhu, kuzokwenzeka ukuthi uqale konke kusuka kushidi elisha bese uzama ukufeza umgomo. Ukubheka endaweni yesifuba esifanele kunesiphakamiso sokuthi kufanelekile ukuhlola kabusha izinto zokuphila kuqala.
Isibonakaliso esitshela ukuthi isifuba esifanele silinganisa yini sisetshenziswe okhokho bethu ukubikezela isimo sezulu. Ukubheka kule ndawo ngokuvamile kwakubikezela ukuthi kwakupholile noma imvula. Uma isifuba sigxila ephusheni - kuyincoma ukuthi kufanele ubuke othandekayo wakho, ngoba angakunikela.
Cabanga ngombuzo wokuthi kungani isifuba esifanele sihlungiwe emadodeni. Kulabo abamele ubulili obunamandla, ukuchithwa kule ndawo kubonisa ukuthi "iqembu elimnyama" seliphelile futhi konke kuzoba kuhle. Isibonakaliso sibonisa ukuthi inhlanhla iyoba yisikhathi eside ukuhamba kuzo zonke izigaba zokuphila.
Ezinye izinkolelo-ze ezihlobene ne-bust
Kuze kube yilolu suku, izimpawu zabantu zifikile, zichaza hhayi ukuthi kungani isifuba esifanele sihlungiwe, kodwa futhi nezinye izimo. Isibonelo, abesifazane abanesisindo esifanayo samabele bangaba nokuphila okuphephile nokulinganisiwe. Uma isifuba esifanele sikhulu kunomunye wesobunxele, khona-ke engxenyeni yokuqala yokuphila owesifazane uzobhekana nokuhlolwa okuhlukahlukene nezinselele, kodwa ekugcineni konke kuzoshintsha futhi kuzolungiswa. Ngokwesimo sobulili obuhle uzokwazi ukutshela imvukuzane esifubeni sakhe. "Uphawu" lwemvelo engxenyeni efanele luchaza ushintsho, owesifazane onjalo uvame ukushintsha umbono wakhe nokuqondisa empilweni. Esikhathini esidala, uma intombazane ithuthukisa isifuba sakhe ekuqaleni, kwakucatshangwa,
Okhokho bethu benza imikhosi ethile, eyenziwa emphakathini wanamuhla. Isibonelo, ukwandisa ukuhamba kwendodakazi leyo idle imifino yokuma nxazonke, eyayibeka phambili, ibambe isifuba. Baphuza amanzi ngokwemithetho: nge-sips enkulu. Noma kunjalo amantombazane asetshenziselwa isifuba sezinhlobonhlobo ezihlukene zobulili noma amantombazane. Kubalulekile ukuthi lezi zilwane zinezinsuku eziningi njengeminyaka, zingaki iminyaka egcwele ummeleli wesigamu esihle somuntu. Ezikhathini zasendulo kwakukholelwa ukuthi ukuncelisa izilwane kufanele kuholele ekwandiseni kwebele. Uma lona wesifazane efuna, ngokuphambene nalokho, ukuthi isifuba sinciphise, wasilungisa ngamanzi, okwakukade kuhlanjululwe ngumuntu oshonile.