Ukuqonda yikhwalithi ye-psyche, okuyikhono lomuntu lokuzivumelanisa nezinhlobo ezahlukene zezimo, funda ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwakhe, uqonde futhi usebenzise imiqondo engacacile ngokusebenza. Ezimweni ezithile zokuphila, cishe wonke umuntu ucabanga ngendlela yokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha. Kunezinketho eziningi, futhi kungcono ukuzisebenzisa zonke eziyinkimbinkimbi.
Kungenzeka yini ukuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha?
Wonke umuntu angathuthukisa kalula yonke idatha yakhe yemvelo, futhi ukuthuthukiswa kobuhlakani akuyona neze umsebenzi onzima. Ngaphambi kokuba uhlakulele ukuhlakanipha komphakathi noma ngokomzwelo , udinga nje ukwenza uhlelo olulinganiselwe futhi, okubaluleke kakhulu, ukuthi ungaphambuki emgomweni wakho. Noma yikuphi ukuthuthukiswa kudinga isikhathi esithile, futhi akekho ongakwazi ukuthuthukisa ubuchopho babo ezinsukwini ezimbalwa. Ukuze ube yingqondo ehambelanayo ngempela, kungathatha iminyaka.
Yingakho akufanele ubuze ukuthi kungakanani ukuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha. Kungcono ukwenza isinqumo nsuku zonke noma okungenani masonto onke ukuze unike ukudla engqondweni yakho, okuyinto kancane kodwa ngokuqinisekile ikuholela emgomweni wakho. Umuntu ngamunye unesifiso sakhe, kepha ngokuvamile, ngomzamo othile, wonke umuntu angahlakulela ubuchopho bakhe ngokuvumelana nangokuvumelana.
Indlela yokuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha?
Cabanga ngezindlela ezisemqoka kakhulu nezingabizi ukuthi umuntu angayisebenzisa ukuthuthukisa ukuhlakanipha kwabo.
- Bhala imibono. Uma umqondo ukuvakashele wena, futhi wawubhala ngokushesha, awukwazi ukukhohlwa ngakho. Uzofunda ukuthi ungalungisa kanjani imigomo yakho, wenze uhlu lwemisebenzi ukuze uwafinyelele futhi ufeze lokho okufunayo . Leli yikhwalithi ebaluleke kakhulu yomuntu.
- Sebenzisa imidlalo ethuthukisa ukuhlakanipha. Kunezinhlobo eziningi zemidlalo ezidinga ukubala okujulile nokuhlela. Isibonelo, chess. Noma imuphi umdlalo odinga ukuthi ubale izinyathelo zakho futhi ubheke isimo sakho ngokuqondile, uthuthuke ngokuphelele ubuchopho bakho. Thola isikhathi sokubhekana namapuzzles noma ukuthola impendulo yomsebenzi okhohlisayo - umkhuba wokusebenzisa isikhathi sakho samahhala kuzokukwenza ube umuntu othuthuke kakhulu.
- Zenzele izivivinyo ezincane. Ukuphila komuntu okwejwayelekile kufakwa ngokuzenzakalelayo futhi akudingi imizamo yobuchopho. Zama izinto ezintsha, njalo wenze izinto ongazange uzenze ngaphambili. Zihlele uhlolo, wenze izenzo ezijwayelekile amehlo akho avaliwe. Ukusebenza kobuchopho kusebenze!
- Funda izincwadi ezakha ukuhlakanipha. Okokuqala, izigaba zaseRashiya nabangaphandle (isibonelo, uTolstoy, Dostoevsky, Bunin, Byron, Marquez, njll). Kungcono ukuthatha uhlu lwezincwadi kunoma yiliphi isayithi lenkampani ye-philological futhi ufunde yonke into ohlwini. Ezimweni ezinjalo ufunda izincwadi ezinenani elikhethekile lamasiko, futhi wena ngokwakho ngeke uqaphele ukuthi uzoqala kanjani ukuqonda impilo ngokujulile.
- Bhalisela inkambo yokudansa. Umdanso ubheka amahle, kodwa kudinga ukusebenza kanzima kobuchopho: khumbula ukulandelana kwezinyathelo, landela ukuma nokusebenza komlingani, ungene kumculo. Lena isenzo esiyinkimbinkimbi esimangalisayo esizogcina ingqondo yakho ngezwi.
- Lalela umculo othuthukisa ukuhlakanipha. Izingoma ezinjalo zihlanganisa zonke izinto eziyingqayizivele nezingoma ezinencazelo, okuyiqiniso ukuthi akufanele zibhekwe kuhlobo lwe "pop." Izingoma eziningi zesimo esithile zifanelekile ngempela ukuthuthukiswa.
- Yenza ubuciko. Ukudweba, izinkondlo zokubhala noma izihloko zokubhala - konke lokhu kwenza umuntu abe yingqondo. Ukuphishekela umsebenzi wokubhala, uphoqelela ubuchopho bakho ukuba buhlaziye, buxazulule izinkinga, ukhethe okukhethwa kukho futhi ukwazi ngekhanda ulwazi oluningi. Noma yimuphi umbhali ophumelelayo nomculi njalo uhlakaniphile.
Ukusebenzisa amasu anjalo alula ekuthuthukiseni ubuhlakani ngesikhathi sakho samahhala, ngeke uthole kuphela ukuthi sekuthakazelisa kakhulu ukuhlala, kodwa futhi kuyinto engavamile kakhulu ukucabanga.