Kuthiwa ukuthi umgwaqo oboniswe ephusheni ubonisa impilo yethu, ngakho-ke, ukucacisa ngokunembile iphupho elinjalo, yonke imininingwane kufanele icatshangelwe. Umgwaqo ungaba mkhulu noma ube mncane, omude futhi omfushane, ngemigodi namatshe noma, ngokuphambene, uhlaziye futhi uhlanzekile, njll, konke lokhu kunquma ukuchazwa kokulala. Manje ake sibheke ngokucophelela lokho okushiwo yilophupho, nokuthi yikuphi iphupho elingakusho.
Kungani uphupha ngomgwaqo?
Umgwaqo obonwe ephusheni ungatshela okuningi ngomuntu, ungatshela okuningi, uxwayise okuningi ngezinto, into eyinhloko ukuchaza ngokuqondile incazelo yokulala. Isibonelo, uma sikhuluma ngokuthi umgwaqo omude uphupha, ngokuvamile usho ukuphila okudlule nokuzayo. Ingxenye yomgwaqo oya kude ibhekisela empilweni yesikhathi esizayo, lapha kufanele uqaphele ukuthi yimuphi umgwaqo, uma uqondile futhi uqondile, khona-ke uzoba nokuthula okuthula, uma kunezimbobo eziningi nokungahambi kahle, khona-ke kuzoba nezinkinga endleleni yakho. Uma umgwaqo omude uholela ekukhuphukeni, cishe cishe kufanele "ukhuphuke" emkhakheni wezemisebenzi, kungenzeka ukuthi uthuthukise isimo sakho sezezimali, noma isimo sakho esingokomoya siyovuka. Uma umgwaqo omude usuka entabeni, unomthelela ophansi noma obushelelekile, khona-ke iphupho elinjalo lifakazela ukukhathazeka kwesimo sakho, mhlawumbe izinkinga emsebenzini , ukuwohloka kwesimo sezimali, "ukwehla" kanye namandla omzimba namoya kulindeleke. Uma ubona umgwaqo omude, ohamba phambili ufika kude, kufanele ulungise izinkinga nezinkinga ezingalindelekile futhi ezingalindelekile, futhi izinkinga zingakusiza isikhathi eside.
Kungani uphupha ngomgwaqo ongcolile?
Uma ubona umzila ongcolile noma omnyama ephusheni, kufanele ulungele ukubhekana nezinkinga ezinkulu, ukudumazeka, ukulahleka. Ukungcola emgwaqweni uthi ngephutha lakho siqu ungalahlekelwa ubungane babantu abathandekayo, noma "uzodideka" ngokungabaza kwakho nokwesaba nokwenza amaphutha okuholela emiphumeleni eyingozi. Uma ubona igazi emgwaqweni, kufanele ucabange ngesimo sakho sengqondo, kufanele uthathe ikhefu ebhizinisini uphumule kancane. Uma uhamba ngendlela ephupha emgwaqweni othulini, khona-ke kukhona abantu abakuzungezile abakuthandayo ububi, umona futhi bazama ukulimaza. Umgwaqo onothuli uthi futhi uzozama ukuhileleka ebhizinisini "elingcolile".
Iphupho lapho umgwaqo ulungiswa khona kubonisa ukuthi ufuna ukuvuselela izinhlelo zakho futhi ushintshe okuthile, ngaphandle kwalokho uzodumazeka ngalokho okufezile.
Umgwaqo omude uphupha ngani?
Uma uphupha ngomgwaqo omude, izifiso zakho ngeke zigcwaliseke maduzane, ngalokho okuhlelayo kuzodingeka kuhlehliswe. Uma umgwaqo ungalingani, nemibhobho nama-bumps, bese ufinyelela umgomo ngeke kube lula ngisho nangemva kwesikhathi eside, kuzodingeka usebenze kanzima ukuthola lokho okufunayo. Kodwa-ke, uma umgwaqo ubanzi futhi ulinganise, makungabi masinyane, kodwa amacebo akho azogcina ekugcineni. Uma emgwaqweni amanzi amaningi, ama-puddles, khona-ke esikhathini esizayo esiseduze ulinde izinkinga zansuku zonke.
Kungani uphupha mayelana nesitimela?
Iphupho lapho umgwaqo esitimeleni uphupha khona kunezilinganiso ezihle nezingalungile. Isibonelo, uma usesitimeleni enezimoto eziningi, noma
Ukuze intombazane engashadile, umgwaqo esitimeleni kusho i-ambulensi, lapho eyohlangana khona naye.
Uma sikhuluma ngalokho umgwaqo oya ekhaya, futhi akukhathaleki esitimeleni, ngemoto, noma ngezinyawo, kufanele kuthiwa kuyisibonakaliso sokuzisola ngezenzo eziye zabangela ukuba uhlanganyele nomthandi wakho, kodwa kusekhona ithuba lokulilungisa.