Abantu abaningi bayazi ukuthi izinsuku eziyisishiyagalolunye emva kokufa zibalulekile, kodwa akubona wonke umuntu owazi ukuthi basho ukuthini. Mhlawumbe, abantu abaningi bazibuza ukuthi kungani ukulandelwa kwenkonzo esontweni futhi bahlele ukuvuka.
Ngakho-ke, udinga ukukhumbula ukuthi yiziphi izinsuku ezingu-9 emva kokufa kuthiwa "angavunyelwe", ngoba izivakashi azimenywanga kuso. Izihlobo kuphela nabangane abaseduze bomuntu ongase avuke ukukhumbula inkumbulo yakhe ekhanyayo.
Kwenzekani izinsuku ezingu-9 emva kokufa?
Njengoba uhlangene esidlweni sesikhumbuzo, udinga ukufunda umthandazo othi "uBaba wethu", emva kwalokho kumele okungenani udle i-spoon yokudla (okungcono ukuhlukaniselwa esontweni).
Naphezu kokuthi emva kokufa sekudlule izinsuku ezingu-9 etafuleni akufanele kube khona utshwala , futhi ngemuva kwakhe - kumnandi, ukuhleka, izingoma ezijabulisayo nokuhlambalaza. Futhi akuvunyelwe ukukhumbula izimfanelo "ezibi" zomuntu oshonile.
Okungalungile cabanga labo abaqiniseka ukuthi ukudla etafuleni kudlala indima enkulu ngosuku lokukhumbula. Lokhu akulungile. Kungcono ukuhlela isidlo esifanele ngaphandle kwezitsha ezicwengisiwe. Ngempela, akunandaba ukuthi yikuphi ukudla okukusetafuleni namuhla, futhi okubaluleke nakakhulu, ukuthi abantu abahloniphayo futhi abalangazelela abahambayo beze, futhi balungele nganoma yisiphi isikhathi sokusiza izihlobo zakhe.
Kusho ukuthini izinsuku ezingu-9 emva kokufa?
Kwenzekani emphefumulweni ngosuku lwesishiyagalolunye emva kokufa, izinkathazo eziningi. Njengoba bethi emibhalweni yama-Orthodox, umphefumulo emva kokufa ushiya umzimba womuntu futhi ungashiyi izwe labaphilayo hhayi izinsuku ezingu-9, kodwa kuze kube sekupheleni kwezinsuku ezingu-40. Kodwa izinsuku ezingu-40 umphefumulo ukhona, lapho ngaphambi kokuba ahlale emzimbeni. Abanye bathi emva kokungcwaba, izihlobo zizwa ukuthi kukhona umuntu okhona endlini.
Ngosuku lokuqala emva kokufa komuntu, umphefumulo wakhe uyashaqeka, ngoba awukwazi ukuqonda ukuthi angaphila ngaphandle komzimba. Kusukela kulezi zici eNdiya ukuthi kuyisiko ukubhubhisa umzimba. Uma umzimba womzimba usufile isikhathi eside, khona-ke umphefumulo uzohlale usondelene nawo. Uma umzimba unikezwa emhlabeni, khona-ke umphefumulo uzobona ukuwohloka kwawo.
Ngosuku lwesithathu umphefumulo uqala ukululama kancane kancane, ujwayele ukungabi namzimba, uhambe eduze nomakhelwane, bese ubuyela endlini. Izihlobo akufanele zihlupheke ngokwemvelo ngenxa yomuntu oshonile kanye nensimbi ngokuzwakalayo, njengoba umphefumulo uzwa konke, futhi uhlangabezana nakho konke ukuhlushwa kwezihlobo ngokwabo. Ngalesi sikhathi kubalulekile ukuthandaza ngaso sonke isikhathi ngomphefumulo womuntu oshonile, uzama ukumthumela kuleli zwe. Kulo mzuzwana, ubhekene nobuhlungu obungokwengqondo, ubhekana futhi akaqondi ukuthi ungaqhubeka kanjani. Ngakho-ke, ngokuthandaza kwezihlobo zami, ngiyamsiza ukuba aqine.
Ngakho kwenzekani emphefumulweni ngosuku lweshumi nesishiyagalolunye emva kokufa nokuthi yimaphi amasiko ahlobene nalolu suku? Umngcwabo womuntu oshonile ubanjwe udumo lwezingelosi eziyisishiyagalolunye ezikhonza oPhezukonke futhi umcele ukuba abe nesihe kumuntu oshonile. Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezintathu umphefumulo uhambisana nengelosi engena emasangweni eparadesi futhi ibonisa ubuhle obungenakuqhathaniswa bendawo yokuhlala. Kulo mhlaba umphefumulo ungozinsuku eziyisithupha, ukukhohlwa ukuhlupheka okwavezwa phakathi nesikhathi
Kodwa isiphetho somphefumulo sinqunywa ngosuku lwamashumi amane kuphela, lapho ukukhulekela koPhezukonke kuzokhuphuka okwesithathu. Khona-ke uNkulunkulu uyokwenqabela isiphetho sakhe, enesisindo semisebenzi yakhe emihle nebizayo esikalini.
Izihlobo kufanele zikhulekele ngalesi sikhathi, ngaleyo ndlela zihlanza izono zomuntu oshonile - lokhu kuzobaluleke kakhulu kuye.