Lapho kungenzeka khona ukunikela ngezinto ezindala - umbuzo onjalo ngokushesha noma kamuva uvela nhlobo. Ngokuvamile umuntu uthenga izinto zokusetshenziswa esikhathini esizayo, akagqoki futhi akawasebenzisi, kodwa alahleke - isandla asivuki. Futhi lokhu kusho ukuthi udinga indlela enengqondo yokususa izinto. Kuyaziwa ukuthi izazi ze-psychologists zikholelwa kanjalo: akukho ukusetshenziswa kwezinto ezingaphezu kwenkathi - ukuyiqeda ngokuphepha.
Zikuphi izinto zakudala ezithathwe?
Kulungile, ukuqala, kuyoba kuhle ukugcina uhlobo lokusungula ekhaya bese unquma uhlu lwezinto ezilahlekelwe ukufaneleka kwazo. Ungakwazi ukuwafaka ngokushesha emaphaketheni, uwasakaze ngokwemigomo ethile. Isibonelo, izinto zezingane zihlukile, abadala - kwenye iphakethe, imishini nemishini ebhokisini. Indlela yokukhipha ingubo engcolile, wonke umuntu uyazikhethela yena, kodwa kuneziphequluli ezivamile.
Ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ungathola ukuthi izinto zakudala zithathwe edolobheni lakho ku-inthanethi. Kungaba izindlu zokuhlala ezihlukahlukene kubantu abangenamakhaya, izinhlangano zomphakathi ezisiza ezitolo ezingenayo imali, ezomsebenzi. Eqinisweni, kunezinketho eziningi, kepha okulula kakhulu yizo lapho ungaletha konke ngesikhathi esisodwa, ngaphandle kokuthatha ingxenye ekuhlunguleni okuqhubekayo. Kukhona enye indlela ephuma ngayo: vele uthathe izinto ezithandeni zamanqamu aseduzane.
Unganikeza izinto ezindala ngobuningi kumaphoyinti omsizi we-Red Cross: lapha izimo ziqotho kakhulu, udinga nje ukukhetha izinto ezigcwele futhi ezikhangayo. Ukwamukelwa kwezinto ezindala kwenziwa emasontweni, okujwayele ukuguqulwa ngamakholwa. Ngokuvamile, amasonto ngokwawo anakekele lokhu noma leyo ndawo yokuhlala, lapho abantu abahlukene bezakhela khona, ngoba abantu abadala kanye nezinto zezingane bazoba usizo lapha.
Ungayithukulula kanjani indlu: yenza isinyathelo ngokuqinile
Uma umqondo walokho okufanele ukwenze ngezinto zakudala usuvele uvakashele kaningi, bese udinga ukuqala ukusebenza okusebenzayo. Uma ucabanga ngeqhinga namasu, ungazama ukuthengisa izinto zakudala: amadokodo amaningi athengiswa kwinethiwekhi oyisidayisa, nabantu abangenawo ithuba lokuthenga izinto ezintsha - bathenge. Ngenxa yokuthi namuhla ukufinyelela kwinethiwekhi cishe cishe wonke amakhaya, lo msebenzi uyenzeka ngempela. Kukhona ama-nuances lapha: kuhle ukwenza isithombe sezinto ezithengiswa kusengaphambili ukuze uzibeke kusikhangiso. Ukungahleleki kwalokhu kudayiswa kungacatshangwa izingcingo ezivamile, abathengi abangenele ababuza imibuzo yezigidi futhi bathathe isikhathi, kodwa namanje bangathengi into. Ngokufanayo, izici ezimbi zihlanganisa isidingo semihlangano nabathengi abangase bakwazi. Lapha, futhi, kuhle ukuthola umthengi ovumelane ngokushesha kulo lonke iqashiso.
Umbuzo wokuthi ungayithengisa yini izinto zakudala, namuhla ungaxazululwa ngezindlela ezahlukene. Isibonelo, le nqubo: ukuhlanganiswa endala okuye kwasebenza kakade endlini yakho kungase kuvumeleke ngempela emndenini lapho umuntu oyedwa esebenza khona, okusho ukuthi akukho cishe imali engenayo. Futhi-ke, ubuchwepheshe buklanyelwe isikhathi esanele sokusebenza, futhi abakhiqizi bahlale behlinzeka konke
Ngenxa yezimfundiso eziningi nezeluleko zengqondo, indoda yanamuhla yaqaphela ukuthi ukuhlala eduze nezinto ezingadingekile noma ezingaphelele akuyona into engcono kakhulu. Yingakho kuyinto efiselekayo yokwenza uhlobo lokusungula njalo ngenkathi. Izinto ezingekho imfashini zingaphila impilo yabo yesibili nabanye abantu. Iphuzu elilodwa okufanele lizinakekelwe: ungazisoli ngokuthi wenza, ngokuphambene nalokho, ngenjabulo ngenani ukuthi yini engenza impilo yompofu ikhululeke kakhulu. Zihloniphe wena kanye nabantu abazothola izinto esikhathini esizayo - kusho ukunikeza kuphela lezo izingubo, izicathulo noma imishini esebenzayo.