Umdlali wezintatheli oneminyaka engu-44 ubudala uBen Affleck ebhalweni lakhe lokuxhumana nabantu, wabhala umlayezo ongalindelekile othi wayebhekene nokudakwa ngokweqile isikhathi eside, futhi ngenxa yenkxaso yowesifazane wakhe, uJennifer Garner, wakwazi ukubhekana nale nkinga.
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Ngo-2001, uBen waqaphela ukuthi wayengasakwazi ukuhlala ngaphandle kokuphuza utshwala. Ngaleso sikhathi wayekhumbula ukuthi kwakusho ukuthini ukuba ubaba ophuze utshwala, ngoba uyise wahlupheka kulokhu buthakathaka. Lapho eseyingane, u-Affleck wabona abazali abaningi bexabana ngoba uyise wayephuza. Lo mkhuba waholela ekutheni ubaba washiya umndeni, futhi umama wakhuphula uBen nomfowabo kuphela. Khona-ke umlingisi weHollywood wasekusasa wathembisa ukuthi ngeke aphuze. Noma kunjalo, ukuthandwa, imali nokuphila eHollywood kubeka impendulo ethile ekuziphatheni, futhi uBen uphuze utshwala. Kuhle ukuthi umdlali we-actor waqaphela ngokushesha ukuthi udinga usizo kule ndawo futhi waphendukela emtholampilo wokuvuselela izithembiso eMalibu.
Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, sekudlulile iminyaka engu-16, futhi uBen ujabule watshela abangane bakhe nozakwabo ukuthi uphulukiswa. Amagama anjalo angatholakala enkulumweni yakhe:
"Ngiyajabula ukwazisa wonke umuntu ukuthi ngakwazi ukunqoba zonke izinkinga futhi ngilahla utshwala. Manje ngingasho ngokuqiniseka ukuthi kubalulekile ukucela usizo kulolu daba, njengawo wonke amanye ama-dependency. Akukho okuyihlazo noma okubi. Umuntu nje akakwazi ukubhekana nale nkinga. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kumele uqale uqonde ukuthi ukwelashwa kuzoba isikhathi eside kakhulu. Ngithatha iminyaka engu-16 futhi ngibonga kuphela ukusekelwa kwalabo abasondelene kakhulu engingayifeza. Ngifuna ukufakazela ngesibonelo sami ukuthi empilweni kunokwenzeka ukunqoba noma yikuphi ukuthembela. Ungesabi ukuthatha isinyathelo sokuqala. Udinga ukuqonda ukuthi emva kokuthola ukwelashwa, ungaphila ukuphila okuhluke ngokuphelele, lowo oyokukhumbula ngomusa nangenjabulo. Kubaluleke kakhulu kimi ukuthi izingane zami noJennifer bajabule. Siyabonga ngokusekela kwabo, ikakhulukazi uJen. Yonke le minyaka wakhuphula enye yezingane zethu. Awukwazi ukucabanga ukuthi lokhu kunzima kangakanani. Ngilungele konke ukuphila kwami ukucela kuye intethelelo eminyakeni eyishumi edlule. "
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Ngo-2005, lo mbhalo washicilela izindaba ukuthi uGarner no-Affleck babeshadile. Enyunyana babenabantwana abathathu: amantombazane uVilet, oneminyaka engu-11, noSerfima Rose oneminyaka engu-8 ubudala, kanye nendodana kaSamil, manje oneminyaka emihlanu ubudala. Ngo-2015, ngenxa yenkinga yotshwala noBen, lo mbhangqwana wanquma ukuhlala ngokuhlukile. Cishe ngokushesha kuma-media kukhona umlayezo wokuthi baqale inqubo yesehlukaniso, kodwa abadlali ngokwabo abazange baqinisekise lezi zindaba. Ezinyangeni ezimbalwa ezedlule kwaziwa ukuthi uJennifer noBen baphinde baphile ndawonye.