Ekukhethweni kwezicathulo ezinganeni, bonke abazali kufanelekile ngomthwalo omkhulu. Ezingeni lezicathulo lixhomeke kakhulu - nesimo sengane, kanye ne-gait efanele, nokuthuthukiswa kwezinyawo. Ngakho-ke, ngaphambi kokuya esitolo sesigqoko sezingane ukuze sithengise, bonke ochwepheshe batusa ukunquma imodeli futhi bakhethe izicathulo eziphakeme kakhulu ezenziwe ezakhiweni zemvelo. Inendima enkulu ekukhethweni okufanele kwezicathulo zezingane idlala ngobukhulu bomlenze wengane.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi izingane zikhula ngokushesha futhi izinto eziningi ezivela ekhabetheni labo zinezikhathi zokuhlukunyezwa izikhathi ezimbalwa kuphela. Okufanayo kusetshenziswa izicathulo - umlenze wengane ukhula ngokukhudlwana phakathi neminyaka yokuqala yokuphila, ngakho-ke abazali bavame ukushintsha izicathulo, izimbadada nezikhumba. Futhi njengoba izicathulo zezingane eziphakeme kakhulu zingekho eshibhile, kubalulekile ukuthenga umbhangqwana okhululekile kakhulu, ohambisana nobukhulu bonyawo lomntwana.
Ukwazi kanjani ubukhulu bonyawo lomntwana?
Kubazali abaningi le nkinga akulula. Ngokuvamile, omama nabazali abangenalwazi banquma ubungako bomlenze wengane ngokungalungile. Amaphutha ajwayelekile kakhulu abazali abawenzayo lapho bezama ukuthola ubukhulu bonyawo lomntwana:
- Uma uthenga izicathulo ucele iseluleko esivela kumntwana: "Izithende isithende noma isisindo?". Izingane, njengombuso, azikwazi ukubhekana nezici ezinjalo. Ngakho-ke, kungenzeka ukuthi ingane izophendula "Cha", kodwa empeleni kuyoba ngokuphambene nalokho. Izingane, okokuqala qaphela umbala wezicathulo nomumo wayo. Lokhu kunquma ukukhetha kwabo.
- Lapho uthenga izicathulo, zama ukuthola ukuthi ubukhulu bonyawo lomntwana, usetshenziselwa unyawo lwendlela oyithandayo. Lapha kuzomele kukhunjulwe ukuthi ubukhulu be-insole yodwa kanye nengaphakathi lingashintsha kakhulu. Kulesi simo, amathuba okuthenga izicathulo eziqinile zomntwana zikhulu.
- Lapho ukhetha izicathulo zama ukufaka umunwe phakathi kwesithende somntwana nangemuva. Ingane ingaba neminwe yakhe, futhi izicathulo zizobonakala zifanelekile kubazali. Futhi kuphela ngesikhathi sokuhamba kuqala kuyokwazi ukunquma isilayidi ngobukhulu.
Kulabo abazali abangakwazi ngokuphelele izicathulo zezingane, kunetafula elikhethekile lobukhulu bemilenze yengane ngobudala. Ngenxa yalolu daba ungakwazi ukunquma ubukhulu obuseduze, ngokususelwa eminyakeni yobudala. Itafula lobukhulu bomlenze wengane ngobudala lunikezwe ngezansi. Abazali kufanele baqaphele ukuthi zonke izindinganiso zilinganiselwe, ngokuvamile zikhona ukwehluka okuphawulekayo okuvela kumanani angezansi.
| Ubudala | Ubude bonyawo | Usayizi we-US | Usayizi waseYurophu | |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Amasentimitha | Bheka | |||
| Izinyanga ezingu-0-3. | 3.7 | 9.5 | 0-2 | 16-17 |
| Izinyanga ezingu-0-6. | 4.1 | 10.5 | 2.5-3.5 | 17-18 |
| Izinyanga ezingu-6-12. | 4.6 | 11.7 | 4-4.5 | 19 |
| Izinyanga ezingu-12-18. | 4.9 | 12.5 | 5-5.5 | 20 |
| Izinyanga ezingu-18-24. | 5.2 | 13.4 | 6-6.5 | 21-22 |
| Iminyaka emibili | 5.6 | 14.3 | I-7 | 23 |
| 2.5 iminyaka | 5.8 | 14.7 | 7.5-8 | 24 |
| Iminyaka engu-2,5-3 | 6th | 15.2 | 8-8.5 | 25 |
| Iminyaka 3-3,5 | 6.3 | 16 | 9-9.5 | 26 |
| Iminyaka emine | 6.7 | 17.3 | 10-10.5 | 27 |
| Iminyaka engu-4-4.5 | 6.9 | 17.6 | 11-11.5 | 28 |
| Iminyaka emihlanu | 7.2 | 18.4 | I-12 | 29 |
Ngaphandle kwetafula, kunenye indlela, ukuthi unquma kanjani ubukhulu bemilenze yengane. Ukwenza lokhu, abazali badinga ukujikeleza unyawo lomntwana ngepensela bese kulinganisa ibanga kusuka esithende kuze kube yintonga yesithupha. Lesi sibalo ubukhulu bomlenze wengane. Lolu hlelo lokulinganisa ubukhulu benyawo luvame ensimini yezwe langaphambili le-CIS. Emazweni aseNtshonalanga Yurophu naseMelika, uhlelo okuthiwa i-stihmassovaya uhlelo lokulinganisa usayizi lomntwana lusetshenzisiwe. Esikhathini ngasinye izicathulo ubude bezingubo zangaphakathi zikhonjiswe ekufakweni (1 stih = 2/3 cm).
Lapho uthenga noma iziphi izicathulo - ehlobo noma ebusika, abazali kufanele bakhumbule ukuthi ingane izokhula kusukela kulo mbhangqwana ngokushesha. Ngakho-ke, akusizi ngalutho ukuthenga izimbadada noma amabhuzu okwesikhashana. Kufanele uhlale ushiya indawo encane - yokukhula. Njengomthetho, izicathulo zezingane zigqokelwe isikhathi esingaphezu kwesisodwa. Ngakho-ke, ngezinsizakalo zezimali ezinganiselwe, akufanele uthenge izicathulo ezidakamizwa ezibizayo - ngeke zihlale isikhathi eside kumntanakho.