Lapho umntwana egula, abazali bakhe, kanye nogogo kanye nezinye izihlobo baqala ukunquma ukuthi ngubani ozoba naye ekhaya. Ngokuvamile lesi sinqumo senziwa sicabange ukuthi ubani ovikelekile kangcono ngokwezimali, okungukuthi, ngubani emsebenzini onemibandela engcono yokukhokhela uhlu olugulayo. Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi ingane egulayo ikhokhelwe kanjani ukunakekelwa kwengane, kufaka phakathi abakhubazekile, e-Ukraine naseRussia, futhi lapho isimo umqashi anelungelo lokungazinaki izidingo zakho zokukhokha imali.
Ukukhokhelwa kwekhefu lokugula lokunakekelwa kwengane
Ngokuvamile, kubalulekile ukuthi abazali bazi ukuthi umhlinzeki wekhefu ogulayo ukhokhelwa izihlobo zakhe ezingewona amalungu omndeni oseduze. Ngokomthetho wamanje weRussia ne-Ukraine, uma ingane igula, ilungu elikhubazekile lomndeni wakhe lingathola uhlu lokukhubazeka ngesikhathi sokugula kwakhe, kanye nomlindi noma umlondolozi emindenini emakhaya. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngokusho komthetho ukuqinisekisa ukuthi umuntu omdala onakekelayo unesihlobo segazi, akudingeki neze.
Abazali abanabantwana abaningi ngesikhathi sesifo sezingane ezimbili noma ngaphezulu, amaphepha amaningi okukhubazeka, ingane ngayinye, noma ingane eyodwa, ingakhishwa ngesikhathi esisodwa. Lokhu kunqunywa ngumama nobaba, kucatshangelwa ukuthi ubani olahlekelwa umsebenzi ngesikhathi izingane zigula. Uma umama ehlala nabo bonke abantwana, unikezwa esibhedlela esisodwa, esibonisa idatha yazo zonke izingane zakhe ezigulayo. Uma, isibonelo, ingane eyodwa isesikhungweni sezokwelapha nonina futhi enye iphathwa ekhaya, futhi ubaba uyamlandela, umzali ngamunye unikezwa uhlu lwakhe lokugula negama lenye yezingane.
Kwezinye izimo, umqashi unelungelo lokulahla izimangalo zakho zokukhokhelwa okugulayo, njenge:
- ngesikhathi sokuphathwa kwengane yakho noma indodakazi yakho eseneminyaka engu-15 ubudala, esibhedlela noma esibhedlela kunoma iyiphi isikhungo sezokwelapha;
- ngesikhathi sekhefu, futhi hhayi ngokukhokhwa.
Kuzo zonke ezinye izimo, uhlu lokukhubazeka komsebenzi kufanele lukhokhwe kumama wengane noma kunoma yimuphi omunye isihlobo obophezelekile ukuba aphuthelwe umsebenzi ngesikhathi sesifo. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, ngaphansi kwemithetho yaseRussia nase-Ukraine, kunemingcele ethile.
Ngakho-ke, e-Ukraine, ishidi lokukhubazeka komuntu onakekela ingane encane likhokhwa kuphela eminyakeni engama-14 kuphela izinsuku ezingu-14 zokuhlala kwengane esikhathini sokugula. Uma ingane yakho isesibhedlela ngesikhathi sokugula, yonke le nkathi iyakhokhwa.
E-Russia, ungakwazi 'ukuhlala' esibhedlela ukuze unakekele indodakazi yakho, indodana noma esinye isihlobo esincane kuze kube yilapho uneminyaka engu-18 ubudala. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngezinye izikhathi kubhalwa kuphela, ngokwemithetho:
- lapho unakekela imvuthu kuze kube yiminyaka engu-7 - isikhathi sonke, kodwa hhayi ezingaphezu kwezinsuku ezingu-60 ngonyaka;
- kusukela eminyakeni engu-7 ukuya kwengu-15 - izinsuku ezingu-15 esikhathini seyodwa isiqephu sesi sifo futhi ezingekho ngaphezu kwezinyanga ezilodwa nesigamu ngonyaka;
- uhlu lokukhubazeka kwengane ekhubazekile engaphansi kweminyaka eyi-15 ubudala kufanele ikhokhwe ngokugcwele. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, isikhathi esiphelele sezinsuku ezikhokhwayo ngenxa yokugula kwengane encane ayikwazi ukudlula i-120 ngonyaka;
- ekwelapheni ekhaya kwentombazane noma umfana oneminyaka engu-15 ngaphansi kokuqondiswa udokotela, ishidi lokukhubazeka likhokhwa kuphela ngezinsuku ezintathu zokuqala.
Kuzo zombili amazwe, inani lemali yokugula ngokuqondile lixhomeke esikhathini sokusebenza komshuwalense wenani lomsebenzi. Uma kwenzeka uma kudlule iminyaka engu-8, isabelo sesikhathi sohlu olugulayo kufanele silingane no-100% weholo elijwayelekile. Ngakho-ke, kubantu abanomlando womshuwalense weminyaka emihlanu kuya kweyisishiyagalombili, lesi sibalo singu-80%, futhi kulabo abangazange basebenze neminyaka emihlanu, 60%.
Kunoma yikuphi, uhlelo olunjalo lokubala lusetshenziselwa ukubala isabelo sezinsuku ezingu-10 zeshidi lokukhubazeka. Zonke izinsuku ezalandela zikhokhwa ngokusekelwe ku-50% wemali etholakalayo.