Imibono yokuphakanyiswa kwabafundi abafundela enkulisa e-prom:
Ingane ngayinye kufanele ibelwe ukukhethwa ngabanye. Ukwenza lokhu, udinga ukugqamisa uphawu oluthile lomlingisi, isibonelo:
- othakazelisayo kakhulu;
- okusheshayo;
- inengqondo kakhulu;
- umfana omncane;
- ohlakaniphile kakhulu;
- inamandla kakhulu.
Ungabela ukuphakanyiswa ngokushesha kubantwana ababili, isibonelo, izintombi ezingenakuhlukaniswa, Abangane abathembekile.
Zonke izincazelo kufanele zibe zinsuku, ukuze zonke izingane zaneliseke.
Ungase futhi wengeze amahlaya kancane kuleli holide. Khona-ke kudingekile ukucubungula ukuphakanyiswa kwehlaya ekutholeni iziqu enkulisa.
Lapho ulungiselela, udinga ukukhombisa ubukhulu bokuzwela nomthwalo wemfanelo. Emva kwakho konke, izingane zithinta kakhulu umcimbi futhi zihalalisela. Omunye angathukuthela ngehlaya elingenacala, futhi isimo sengqondo esiyinkimbinkimbi sizophangwa. Ngakho-ke, ukuphakanyiswa kufanele kucatshangelwe ngokucophelela.
Lapha nathi kudingeka sithembele ekuziphatheni noma kumlingiswa wezingane, kodwa ukuzethula ngendlela yokuhleka, isibonelo:
- obala, othanda ukudla, ungabela ukuphakanyiswa komkhwenyana weqiniso;
- Kulowo ongathandi ukwabelana - I-economical;
- umfana ongeke ahlale phansi endaweni eyodwa, uMnuz Neposeda uzokwenza;
- Kulowo olungisa sonke isikhathi futhi uthanda ukuziqhenya ngolwazi lwakhe - uMnu noma Miss Know-it-All.
Ukuphakanyiswa kwabafundisi nabasebenzi be-enkulisa ekuphothula iziqu kungathinta lo msebenzi:
- umfundisi - Queen of Parenting;
- for the ochwepheshe wezinkulumo - Queen of letters;
- for muzrabotnika - Kuyinto ejabulisayo ukuhamba nale ngoma;
- I-Methodist - Ukucabangela okuthuthukile;
- nanny - Ukusekela nokusekela.
Futhi unganika itheyipu ngemibhalo eqoshiwe: Best Nanny, Best Teacher, njll.