Umlingo omhlophe awukwazi ukusetshenziselwa othile ukulimaza, ngenxa yamathonya amabi kukhona umlingo omnyama. Futhi manje ake sibone ukuthi iziphi izinhlamvu zothando emlenzeni omhlophe ngempela. Lezi akuzona izinhlamvu zokuthandaza, kodwa zithandwa kuphela. Izinhloso ezinjalo azikwazi ukuboshwa kumuntu ongakuthandi. Ngosizo lwabo, ungakwazi ukwengeza ukuvuselela, imizwa yothando ngezikhathi lapho ubudlelwano befuna ukuphulukiswa, ezikhathini ezinzima zomshado, emva kweminyaka emishado.
Yonke inhloso yomlingo omhlophe wothando inencazelo yayo engcwele, engenakuphulwa. Ngendlela enhle yimuphi umkhuba wemilingo emhlophe yothando, umuntu kufanele aqale ngomthandazo othi "uBaba wethu".
Hlanganisa imicabango yakho, gxila emthonjeni wothando futhi utshele amabutho aphakeme ukuthi yini oyifunayo ngempela. Cabanga ukuthi usuvele unayo. Vala amehlo akho futhi ubuke injabulo yakho evamile, uthando lwakho, ukuqonda okufanayo, ubuzwe bobuhlobo. Manje ungaqala umkhuba.
Pela othandweni ngamakhandlela
Le sipelingi lomlingo omhlophe lisetshenziselwa ukuqinisa uthando lomfana, kanye nokuqinisekisa ubuqotho bakhe kuwe. Ngokwesiko , uzodinga amakhandlela amathathu nesikhumba esisha esimhlophe.
Beka amakhandlela etafuleni, uwakhanyise. Funda umbhalo wesiqephu kathathu, futhi emva kwesikhathi ngasinye ubeke ikhandlela elilodwa. Uma uziqeda konke, ubophe amakhandlela kanye nethambo, uphinde ubenze futhi uvumele ukuba bashise.
"O, Nkosi Engunaphakade, ngithandaza ngothando kuwe. Dala udonga ophezulu, yakha umgodi ojulile, ucingo olungenakulinganiswa, ukulangazelela okungenakuphikiswa. Ukujula - ama-fathoms amathathu omhlaba, ukuphakama - ukuphakama okungenakulinganiswa, nokulangazelela ukujula okungenakulinganiswa. Vala, Nkosi, futhi uvimbe, ukuze inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) ingishiyi, omunye umngane angitholanga. Vala bese uzithatha wena, usizo, Nkosi, inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama). Kuze kube yilapho lekhiya ivuliwe, kuze kube manje inceku kaNkulunkulu (igama) ngeke ihlale ingithanda. Ukhiye, ukukhiya, ulimi. Amen. "