Ukubhapathizwa kwengane kuyisiko esingcwele, okuyizinto eziningana ezihambisana nemikhosi namasiko. Lesi yisikhathi esibalulekile empilweni yomuntu wonke futhi kufanele silungiselele kahle.
Amasiko wama-Orthodox wokubhapathizwa
Okokuqala udinga ukukhetha abakwa-godparents. Akudingeki ukuba babe ababili, kodwa uma umama uwedwa, khona-ke kufanele abe nobunye obufana noNkulunkulu, okungukuthi, intombazane idinga unkulunkulukazi ngale ntombazane, ngenxa yomfana, ngokulandelana, ubaba. Ngokuvamile kubazali bakaNkulunkulu bakhetha abangane abaseduze bomndeni, kodwa ungakhohlwa ukuthi ukhetha ingane akusiyo nje umsizi, kodwa futhi umeluleki ongokomoya wokuphila. Ngakho-ke, khetha abantu abanokwethenjelwa abangabanikazi babo ekukhulisweni kwengane kuzoba kuhle.
Ubaba noma omama angeke abe ngumkhulukazi, ngoba ukuxhumana komzimba phakathi kwabazali nomzala kuyabhekwa njengesono, okuzokwehlela kamuva ingane. Futhi, umuntu akakwazi ukukhetha umbhangqwana oshadile noma abantu phakathi kwabo ubuhlobo bobuhlobo obuboniswayo. Awunawo umphumela omuhle ekupheleni kwengane.
Izihlobo zingaba yizintombikazi, kodwa zizoqhubeka zizosiza kuzo zonke izimpilo zabo, ngakho-ke kungcono ukuthola abantu bangabanikazi bomndeni wakho. Ngakho unikeza ukuvikeleka okukhulu futhi kusize ingane yakho.
Ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa, abazali (bobabili bomdabu kanye nodadewabo) badlulisela isakramente sokudla.
U-godfather unikeza isiphambano, futhi umama - ucezu lwendwangu yengane, lapho eboshwe emva kokubhapathizwa kanye nethawula.
Ubhapathizo Lwezingane
- Umkhosi wokubhapathizwa awukwazi ukukhanselwa uma sekuhleliwe kakade. Lokhu kuthathwa njengesibonakaliso esibi.
- Ukubhapathiza ingane kuyadingeka ezembatho ezintsha zombala omhlophe. Ngemuva kokubhapathizwa, ayikhiphi. Uma ingane igula, bayifaka izingubo zokubhapathiza ukuze alulame ngokushesha.
- Ingane ayikwazi ukuthenga isiphambano segolide.
- Ku-godparents one akufanele akhethe owesifazane okhulelwe, ngaphandle kwalokho ingane yakhe ingazalwa igule.
- Uma umntwana ekhala ngesikhathi sokubhapathizwa, imimoya emibi ivela kuye. Akukubi, naphezu kokuthi abantu abaningi bayesaba. Ngemuva komkhosi, umntwana uzobe ekholile.
- Ubuso bomntwana abukhiphi. Amanzi okubhapathizwa kumele ashise kuwo.
- Othandana nabo kufanele bazame zonke izitsha etafuleni phakathi nokugubha ubhapathizo. Lokhu kungokwenyuka nokuphila okucebile ka-godson. Uma kukhona izitsha eziningi, khona-ke kudingeka badinge ngamunye okungenani wezipuni eyodwa.
- Owesifazane kufanele abhapathize kuqala umfana, futhi indoda - intombazane, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke iphathwe empilweni yabo.
- Uma ngaphambi komkhosi wokubhapathizwa kwengane yakho esontweni efanayo umshado wenziwa, khona-ke lokhu kuhle.
- Ungaphikisani noyihlo ngegama lomntwana. Ngaphandle kokukhononda, zixazulule noma yini ekhetha ukubhapathizwa.
- Igama elinikezwe ebhapathizweni,
Awukwazi ukutshela noma ubani ukuthi agweme ukuphanga. - Ngeke uhlale phansi esontweni.
- Akufanele kube khona lutho olubomvu izingubo zokubhapathizwa kwengane.
- Ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa kwengane, awukwazi ukuyibonisa kunoma ubani.
- Kukholelwa ukuthi akukho cala ngeke sikwenqaba, uma ubiza onkulunkulukazi.
Amanye amasiko amaningi ahlobene nomkhosi wobhapathizo wengane. Abanye babo bathembele ngisho nasendaweni ohlala kuyo. Ngakho umhlangano wokubhapathizwa awuhlali njalo. Ezinye zazingabalulekile futhi azihlonishwa. Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuthi umkhosi wokubhapathizwa usuphelile kanjani, uzohlala usuku lwezinsuku ezibaluleke kakhulu futhi eziqhakazile zomntwana nabazali bakhe.