Ngabe udinga nini ukuya esibhedlela ngesikhathi sokuhamba?
Njengoba wazi, ekuqaleni kwenqubo yokuzalwa impi ibuthakathaka, ihlala imizuzwana eminingana, futhi isikhathi esingaphakathi kwabo ngu-10-12 imizuzu. Kwezinye izimo, ukulwa ngokushesha kuqala njalo ngemizuzu engu-5-6, kodwa hhayi kakhulu. Ukulwa kancane kancane kuqhubeka, kunamandla, kuyinde futhi kubuhlungu. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, owesifazane okhulelwe uqala ukuzizwa njengomzwa wokucindezeleka emgodini wesisu, kodwa ngokuvamile akathandeki kakhulu: lesi sibeletho sibonakala sinzima, ingcindezi ingabonakala kuwo wonke esiswini.
Okufundiswa kakhulu akuyona ukuqina kwemisebenzi ngaphambi kokubeletha, kodwa imvamisa yabo, echaza ukuthi uzoya esibhedlela nini. Ngakho-ke, phakathi nokuhlukunyezwa komsebenzi kancane kancane izinyathelo eziphakathi kwazo ziyancishiswa kuze kube yilapho ziphindaphindiwe njalo ngemizuzu 3-4. Kuyaphawuleka ukuthi phakathi nesikhathi esiphakathi kwezimpande, lapho isisu sikhululekile, akukho buhlungu obonakalayo. Ngokuvamisekile, ekuphambeni okuphambene nezinyanga eziyishumi nama- 10-12, ekuzaleni amahora angu-6-8.
Uma izinhlangothi ziba njalo, futhi isikhathi esingaphansi kwemizuzu engu-10, iya esibhedlela ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
Yiziphi izinto ezibucayi okufanele uzicabangele ngaphambi kokuya esibhedlela?
Ngokuvamile, ikakhulukazi abesifazane abakhulukazi, bamukela ukuqeqeshwa ukuqeqeshwa for generic. Bangakwazi ukuqala kakade kusukela evikini lama-20 lokukhulelwa futhi bazizwa owesifazane, njengokungahambi kahle emathunjini aphansi, okungaqinisa futhi kuphenduke ubuhlungu bokudweba. Kulesi simo, owesifazane okhulelwe, omele ingane yokuqala, uqala ukucabanga ukuthi uqale ukuhlukana futhi kudingeka abuye esibhedlela, ngisho nalapho ekhulelwe amasonto angu-28-30 kuphela.
Ukuze unqume ngokunembile isikhathi sokuya esibhedlela, owesifazane okhulelwe kufanele ahlukanise phakathi kokulwa kwamanga okuqinile okuvela kumuntu ojwayelekile. Akunzima ukwenza lokhu, ukwazi izibonakaliso ezilandelayo zobuhlungu bokuzalwa:
ephindaphinda njalo ngezikhathi ezilinganayo; - i-interval phakathi kwalezi zinhlangothi ezimbili iyancipha kancane kancane;
- ubude bokuphela buyanda;
- Ungayi kusuka ekushintsheni isikhundla somzimba noma emva kokugeza okufudumele.
Ngakho-ke, singasho ukuthi ungaya esibhedlela uma imvamisa yezinhlamvu zifana nokuthi isikhathi esiphakathi kwabo sizohliswa sibe yimaminithi angu-7-8. Uma sikhuluma ngokuzalwa kwesibili, ukulwa nabo kuqhubeka kancane, futhi ungaya esibhedlela uma igebe phakathi kwabo imizuzu engu-10. Futhi, kuyadingeka ukuya esikhungweni sezokwelapha ngisho noma owesifazane okhulelwe esevele eshiye amanzi.