Uyakhumbula i-heroine yomsebenzi owodwa odumile wokubhala owamisa umlingiswa womuntu ezindlebeni zakhe? Kodwa lapha, isimo sihlukile futhi ungase umangale, kodwa kukhona ngempela ukuxhumana phakathi kwesimo sezindebe nomlingiswa. Cha, yebo, uma intombazane iguqula isimo sezindebe zakhe ngezindlela zokuqhosha, ungalindeli ukuthi uhlamvu lwakhe luzoshintsha noma. Kodwa ngokusho kwezindebe, ezinikezwe ngokwemvelo, ukuchaza ukuthi izici ezithile zokuziphatha, kanye nezici ezithile zomlingiswa womuntu, kungenzeka.
Izindebe ze-Plump
Ukunqunywa kohlobo lomuntu ezindebe luqala ngezindebe zomnikazi ngomnsalo. Abathwali bezindebe ezinjalo bavame ukukhula ngokweqile. Mhlawumbe yingakho izindebe ezinamahlumela abesifazane ezithandeka kakhulu kubantu. Futhi abanikazi bezindebe ezigcwele bathanda izwe elibazungezile, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo bayakwazi ukuhlala beqotho, futhi balahlekelwa amandla okuzwelana nabanye. Futhi nentombazane enezindebe ezikhukhulayo ngeke kube yinkinga yokuveza imizwelo yakho. Abesifazane abanjalo bayakwazi ngentshiseko efanayo ukugijimela ezindabeni zothando, banikezele emsebenzini wabo ozithandayo noma umama.
Izindebe ezinde
Izindebe ezincane, ezincane zivame ukunikeza uhlamvu olunzima lomnikazi wazo. Abesifazane abanezindebe ezinjalo ngokuvamile abazithokozi ukuba banqotshwe imizwelo, ngoba lokhu banesifiso esinamandla kakhulu. Ngokuvamile abantu abanjalo banomqondo ovaliwe, banqatshelwe imizwelo, kodwa awukwazi ukwenqaba ukuzimela ozikhandlayo ukukufeza. Kulaba besifazane bavame ukuthola abaqeqeshi abahle kakhulu, ngoba bayakwazi ukufeza imigomo yabo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Iphutha eliphansi eliphansi
Abantu abanomlomo ophansi, ogcwele ngaphezu kwephezulu, bavame ukuzigoba nokuzicabangela. Lokhu kubangelwa isifiso sabo sokuthola emiphakathini injabulo enkulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akuhlobene yini nokuthanda ubudlelwane, ukudla noma izinto zokuzilibazisa. Kubalulekile ukuba abantu abanjalo babe ngabokuqala kukho konke, ngezinye izikhathi kunzima ukuxhumana nabo ngoba bacabanga ukuthi umbono wabo ube yedwa kuphela weqiniso. Ngakho-ke, ukuxoxisana nanoma yini abantu abanjalo kuyisijeziso, ngaphandle kokuthi, ngokuqinisekile, niyazinikela ngokushesha futhi ningathathi umbono wabo nge-axiom.
I-lip ephelele ephelele
Abantu abanomlomo ogcwele ophezulu bahlukaniswa ngenhloso yabo, bayakwazi ukuya ezimisweni ezibekiwe, ngisho nalapho kubonakala, futhi akunjalo. Sinombono wabo siqu futhi bacabangela ukuthi lilungile, kodwa bayakwazi ukulalela i-interlocutor. Kodwa-ke, uma ungabalimaza "kwabaphilayo," khona-ke usengozini yokuthola isitha impilo yakho yonke. Abesifazane abanezindebe ezinjalo babhekwa amandla okuzizwa ngothando lokudlala ngothando, ngakho-ke amadoda angalokothi abadlulele.
Amakhonkco aphakanyisiwe
Ukubheka intombazane enezikhukhula zomlomo wakhe, ngokuzibandakanya ufuna ukumomotheka emuva. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi abanikazi bezindebe ezinjalo akakaze banqatshelwe uthando nokuzwela abanye. Kulula ukuxhumana, futhi uhlamvu luvame ukusizakala futhi luvulekile.
Ubophe izingxenyana zezindebe
Amakhonkco ahlahliwe aphuma emlonyeni womcabango wokungahlanganisi, ukungabi nabuzwa kwentombazane, ngakho-ke kubalandeli akuzona zonke izinto ezibushelelezi. Yebo, futhi ekukhulumisaneni nabantu abanjalo kunzima, mhlawumbe, yingakho, emva kokuthola umngane, abantu abanomqondo ofanayo, bayokuvikela ngayo yonke iqiniso hhayi iqiniso.
Kuhle futhi kusadingeka ukuba unake umzila wama-labiums nalokho ukuthi kuncane kangakanani. Abanikazi bezindebe ezichazwe ngokucacile, ngaphezu kwalokho, uma bebuthakathaka futhi benzima, kungenzeka ukuthi bayabathwali bemvelo eqondile, ikhono lokugcina imizwelo yabo ngaphansi kokulawula kanye nentando engavinjelwe. Kodwa abantu bahamba emigqeni yomlomo futhi ngezindebe ezithambile futhi zinobubele, zithobekile, zithinteka futhi ziqondiswa ngokulinganayo.