Ukuthuthukiswa kwezingane zakuqala

Ubudala kusukela eminyakeni eyi-1 kuya kwemi-3, noma esemncane, yilokhu okushiwo lesi sigaba empilweni yomntwana, lokhu kungukuqala kokunqoba nokudabuka, imizwelo ekhanyayo, okuningi kokubonakala okusha nokuthola. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, le nkathi yinkimbinkimbi kakhulu kumntanakho kanye nabazali bakhe, njengoba i-crumb ikhula ngamandla futhi ikhula njalo njalo inyanga entsha ivula ama-horizons amasha kuye, kuyilapho abamama nabazali kudingeka bavumelane njalo nezidingo zabantwana babo .

Ukuthuthukiswa okuphelele kwengane kubangelwa izici zeminyaka yobudala kanye nomthelela wemvelo, kuyindlela yenqubo yemvelo kanye nethuba elihle lokubeka okuhle kakhulu esikhathini esizayo.

Izici zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezincane

Ukuqaphela kwengane eneminyaka eyodwa - kakade "akusikho ishidi elihlanzekile" kuyo ngeke ubhale ukuthi yini oyifunayo, nakuba ingane ingakazi ukuthi uyumuntu, kodwa unezifiso zayo, izidingo zayo, izakhi zofuzo futhi zakhiwe ngenqubo yokukhulisa izici zobuntu. Lokhu kufanele kucatshangelwe lapho kusetshenzwa ukukhuliswa kwemvuthuluka. Ngakho-ke, mhlawumbe izindlela zokufundisa eziphumelela kakhulu yilawo othandwayo nenhlonipho kumuntu omncane kuthathwa njengesimiso esiyinhloko. Futhi nalabo abacabangela izici zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezincane, ikakhulukazi ezifana nalezi:

• isifiso sokuzimela. Yiqiniso, lezi zinyenyana zisadinga usizo lwabazali bazo, kodwa zidinga ukuzisiza ngokuphumelelayo, ukuze ingane inomuzwa wokuthi yenza konke;
• isidingo esiphuthumayo sokudumisa nokukhuthazwa;
• ukuzimisela ukubambisana nabantu abadala;
• ukuqonda injongo yendaba ethize kanye nekhono lokuziqonda. Isibonelo, uma ingane iyazi ukuthi i-spoon iyini, nokuthi ingayisebenzisa kanjani, ngokuqinisekile iyophikisa, ukuthi abazali bayo bayondla, futhi uzofuna ukwenza ngokuzimela;
• isifiso sokukhulumisana noontanga, esimiswe ukoma kokubonakala okusha.

Izingxenye eziyinhloko zokuthuthukiswa kwezingane ezincane

Lapho uneminyaka emithathu ubudala, izinsana ziqhamuka kakhulu ekuthuthukeni kwengqondo nangokwenyama. Bafunda ukuhamba, ukukhuluma, ubuchopho babo, njenge-sponge ukuthatha noma yiluphi ulwazi abawutholayo, ngaphandle kwalokho, isigaba sengqondo se-carapaces siphelele futhi senziwe ngcono. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ukuthuthukiswa ngokomzimba, kwengqondo, ngokomzwelo kwezingane ezincane, njengokwengqondo, kwengqondo nenkulumo, yizo zonke izinqubo ezihambisanayo nezihambisanayo.

Okokuqala, umuntu akufanele anganaki indima yokuthuthukisa amakhono angokwenyama njalo avumela ingane ukuba ihlolisise futhi ibone izwe elikuzungezile. Ukufunda ukukhahlela, bese uhamba, izingane zibeka ubudlelwane obangela umphumela, zithuthukise ukuqonda inkulumo, ngakho-ke kuba lula ngabantu abadala ukuba babathinte.

Ukufunda ulimi lwabo lwabantu basekhaya, izingane zenza isidingo sokuxhumana, zanelisa ukoma kolwazi olusha nolwazi oluthile, okufanekisela ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo nangokomzwelo. Kanti, imizwelo ithinta ukuthuthukiswa kwengqondo - izimpumputhe ziqala ukucabanga, zijwayele imidlalo yokudlala indima, zithole abangane abacabanga. Ngendlela, okuthiwa abangani abangempela ababonakala sengathi basondela eminyakeni emithathu kubhekwa njengokwejwayelekile kulokhu kanye neqembu elidala. Bahlanganyela ukufutheka nenjabulo, bakha inkampani emdlalweni, lapho abazali bematasa ngezindaba zabo siqu.

Izici zomphakathi zobuntu bomntwana ziqala ukwakha ngonyaka wesibili wokuphila, futhi ekupheleni kwesithathu, isikhathi esibizwa ngokuthi inkinga siyeza . Naphezu kokuthi ingane ivele iphumelele kakhulu, isilulumagama sakhe seyanda, umsebenzi usuke ube yinkimbinkimbi futhi uhlukile, ukuziphatha okushiya kakhulu. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi ngalesi sigaba kukhona ukuthuthukiswa okusebenzayo komuntu wengane esemncane, inkani kangaka, ukunganaki, ukungaboni ngaso sonke isikhathi, kubonakala sengathi kunzima kuzo zonke izinyathelo.