I-Lilac ihlukaniswe yaba shades ezintathu eziyinhloko: okwesibhakabhaka, obomvu nomhlophe, ngokuqinisekile okungeyona eyinkimbinkimbi futhi ngokungafani neminye imibala ngeyodwa noma ezimbili izingxenye, kubonakala kungacabangi abantu ngabanye. Ngakho-ke, ukuchazwa kokubaluleka kwe-lilac ekuphenyweni kwengqondo kungahlukahluka ngokuya ekukhanyeni kanye nezinga lezinhlobo eziningi zezingxenye zalo.
Uphi, iwilo elihle?
Isibonelo, amathrekhi e-lilac aphikisayo abathanda ukudala izinto, kodwa ababuthakathaka, labo abangenalo ukuzimisela ukuhumusha imibono yabo empeleni. Futhi le mibono, ngendlela, ayifuni ngaso sonke isikhathi amafomu afakazela ngokucacile, ngokuvamile ngokuvamile avela futhi ahlakazeke emoyeni, njengama-mirages angaguquki futhi angabonakali. Abantu abanjalo, njengombuso, bancibilikisa ukuzethemba , bagcwele ukuzihawukela futhi bakholelwa ukuthi inhlanhla yabaphathisa ngokungalungile. Kodwa, naphezu kwazo zonke izinkinga, abalandeli be-lilac eliphaphathekile bayaqhubeka bekholelwa ukuthi ngolunye usuku i-wizard enhle izovela ekugcineni kwabo okuzoxazulula zonke izinkinga ngesikhathi esisodwa nge-wand, futhi ngeke babe nokunye okumele bakwenze futhi bahlale ekulindeni okubuhlungu kokushintsha okuyisimangaliso empilweni yabo, ngokuvamile abaqapheli ukuthi lokhu kuphila kakhulu kuhamba kanjani ngesivinini esikhulu. Umbala we-lilac ku-psychology wabantu abanjalo uwuphawu lwezinto ezingenakwenzeka ezingathandeki nezifiso ezingacacile, okwathi ngokuhamba kwesikhathi kugeleza umqondo wokuzizwa nokuzisola ngamathuba alahlekile.
Ingozi enobungozi obuhle?
Labo abathanda ukudweba izimpilo zabo ngemibala ekhanyayo ye-lilac, ngokuphambene nalokho, bayazi ukuthi yini abayifunayo futhi benza ngisho nezinhlobonhlobo zepulani ukuthi zingayifinyelela kanjani. Inkinga yukuthi ngokuvamile abaphumelelanga ekuhumusheni lezi zinhlelo zibe yiqiniso, njengoba benenkinga yokubeka phambili phambili nokwesaba ukwanda kwezinkinga, abaqapheli ukutshala imali enkulu noma, isibonelo, ukuthuthela kwelinye izwe. Ngokuvamile bayazonda ukuthatha imithwalo yemfanelo ebalulekile, bekhetha ukuyihambisa kwabanye amahlombe abantu. Kodwa-ke, abantu abanjalo abahambisani nesilinganiso esithile sokungabi namntwana nokuthandana futhi ngaphansi kwehora, bathathwa ngomqondo othile, bayakwazi ukuphonsa ingxenye enkulu yemithombo yabo emgqeni wangaphambili. Kodwa lezo zimo ezimpilweni zabo ziyinto engavamile kakhulu futhi uma kungenzeka, zizohlala "zishaye" esikhathini esizayo, njengezingane ezicasuliwe.
Thola ipharadesi lakho
I-predominance yombala we-lilac ngaphakathi kwezingqondo zokuziphatha kwengqondo njengoba isifiso somnikazi wezitezi ukugudluza ama-angles acace ezimweni eziphikisanayo, okuyinto empilweni yakhe, ngeshwa, iningi. Futhi kubangelwa, cishe, ngezinyathelo zakhe eziningi zokuqhaqhazela okuhlose ukuzuzisa, ngokuvamile
Ngokuvamile, i-psychology ichaza ukulawulwa kombala we-lilac ngokuntuleka kwemvelo empilweni yomuntu, engenakho. Abantu abathanda kuye ngokuvamile abazange bathole lokho abakufunayo empilweni futhi bahlale befuna "ipharadesi labo". Ngendlela, kuyathakazelisa ukuthi uma nje sekukhona izinguquko ezibonakalayo ezingcono ekupheleni kwesithandwa se-lilac, zipholile ngokuphelele kulo mthunzi futhi ziqala ukukhetha ezinye imibala, okungeyona eyinkimbinkimbi ekwakheni.