Isimo somphakathi somuntu sibonisa ukuthi isikhundla esiphakeme emphakathini sithathwe ngumuntu. Lokhu akuyona incazelo yomsebenzi: isimo somuntu singashintsha kuye ngobulili bakhe, ubudala, isimo somshado noma ubuchwepheshe. Lesi sikhundla esitelekeni sezenhlalakahle asigcini nje ngokukhomba endaweni yomuntu, kodwa futhi simnika amandla namalungelo athile. Emphakathini ngamunye, bangahle bahluke.
Indlela yokunquma isimo sezenhlalakahle?
Akudingekile ukucabanga ukuthi umuntu ngamunye unesimo esisodwa senhlalo. Ngamunye wethu unamalungiselelo amaningana ngesikhathi esisodwa, okuxhomeke ohlelweni abalutshela ngalo. Isibonelo, isimo somuntu wesimo sezenhlalakahle singabaningi; yena, isibonelo, unomfazi, umama, indodakazi, udade, isisebenzi senkampani, umKristu, nelungu lehlangano. Ukuphelele kwalezi zinhlinzeko kubizwa ngokuthi isethi esimisiwe. Kusukela kusibonelo esingenhla, sibona ukuthi yini ebeka isimo sezenhlalakahle: lokhu isimo somshado, nokubukwa kwezenkolo, nokusebenza komsebenzi, nezithakazelo zomuntu siqu, njll.
Njengomthetho, umuntu ngokwakhe uqobo lwakhe unquma isikhundla sakhe somphakathi nesimo senhlalo, kodwa lokhu kuthinteka yiqembu lapho abanye abantu bebakholakala khona, okokuqala. Ngaphezu kwalokho, kungenzeka ukuthi ushintshe isimo somphakathi somuntu: isibonelo, sishintsha isimo sethu lapho sithola imfundo ephakeme, sakha umndeni, sithole umsebenzi omusha, njll.
Izinhlobo zezimiso zomphakathi
Kunezinhlobo ezimbili eziyinhloko zezikhundla zomuntu esitelekeni sezenhlalakahle: isimo esitholakalayo nesimisiwe (sokuzalwa) sezenhlalakahle. Owokuqala kubo ubhekene nalokho umuntu azuza esikhathini sokuphila kwakhe: izinga lemfundo, imibono yezombangazwe, umsebenzi, njll. Isimo senhlalo esinqunyiwe yilokho okunikezwa umuntu ngokwemvelo: ubuzwe, ulimi, indawo yokuzalwa, njll.
Noma kunjalo, akuzona zonke izigaba zomphakathi zabesifazane namadoda abahlolwa ngokulinganayo nabanye. Abanye babo bahlonishwa, kanti abanye-ngokuphambene nalokho. Ubukhulu obuphezulu bokuhlonipha buxhomeke kumalungiselelo anjengokusebenza kwangempela komsebenzi othile wezenhlalakahle kanye nesistimu yentengo esebenza kulowo mphakathi.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kunezinhlobo eziningana zesimo senhlalakahle: umuntu siqu neqembu. Isimo somuntu isimo esisezingeni leqembu elincane labantu, lapho umuntu ekhuluma ngaso sonke isikhathi. Isibonelo, leli qembu lingaba ngumndeni, abasebenzi noma inkampani yabangani. Njengomthetho, unqunywa yizici zobuntu kanye nezimfanelo zakhe ezihlukahlukene.
Isimo seqembu sibonisa umuntu njengelungu leqembu elikhulu lezenhlalo. Lokhu kuhlanganisa isimo somuntu njenge
Kuye ngesimo senhlalakahle, umuntu ulungisa ukuziphatha kwakhe. Ngokwesibonelo, ekhaya indoda uyibaba nomyeni, futhi uziphatha ngendlela efanele. Futhi emsebenzini uprofesa nomfundisi, futhi, ngokufanayo, uzoziphatha ngendlela ehlukile. Kuncike ekutheni umuntu uhambelana kahle kangakanani nesimo sakhe, baxoxa ngekhono lakhe lokufeza indima yakhe yomphakathi. Yingakho kukhona izinkulumo ezinjengokuthi "uchwepheshe omuhle", "ubaba omubi", "umngane omuhle kakhulu" - konke lokhu kubonisa le nkhomba. Futhi omunye umuntu ofanayo angakwazi ukubhekana ngokuhlukile nezindima zabo zomphakathi, kungani kungaba "okubi" kusuka kwelinye iphuzu lokubuka futhi "okuhle" komunye.