Ukuphila kwethu kugcwele ukucindezeleka, izimo zokuphila eziyinkimbinkimbi, isixazululo esivame ukuba sidinga ukuguga, ukucabanga okucabangelayo nokuzithiba. Akulula kakhulu: kanjani ukuhlala uzolile futhi ungesabi, lapho isimo singaphumelela ekulawuleni, futhi imiphumela yaso - ukuba ingalindelekile ngokuphelele. Kodwa kulezi zimo ukuthi ukuhlushwa okudlulele kuyadingeka. Kodwa-ke, kaningi thina ngokwethu, ngokungaziwayo, siba umthombo wokucindezeleka noma imbangela yesimo sengqondo esibi kithi: ukungabi nobuqili nokungaziphathi kahle kuvame ukushaya ngesithunzi esihle kakhulu somsebenzi. Ukuthi izinkinga ezinjalo azizange ziphakame, kubalulekile ukwazi ukuthi ungahlala kanjani uzinzile ezimweni ezicindezelayo.
Izindlela zokuhlala ezolile
Ungafunda ukuzola. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukusebenzisa amathiphu alula, kepha abalulekile:
- Ungagxili . Zijwayeze ukuthi ungathinti inkinga ezingeni elingacabangi. Kungenzeka ukuthi ukuxazulula akulula, ngakho-ke "ungaqhubeki" nezinzwa zokuzivikela wena nabanye.
- Ungatsheli wonke umuntu ngenkinga yakho . Kulokhu ngeke kube lula, futhi izinkinga ezengeziwe zingabonakala okuningi. Kungcono ngaphandle kwemizwelo kanye nabacebisi bahlaziye isimo - uzothola indlela yokuphuma.
- Gwema imithombo yokucasula . Zama ukuqonda ukuthi ngubani noma yini ekukhipha ibhalansi futhi, uma kungenzeka, zama ukugwema lezi zithukuthelo.
- Yiba nokuphumula . Funda ukuthola isikhathi sokuphumula, khona-ke umbuzo wokuthi ungaphila kunoma yisiphi isimo uzoxazululwa kalula.
- Ungazibeki icala . Yeka ukwenza "samoyedstvo" futhi ungapheli ukuzihlambalaza ngezinkinga eziye zavela, kodwa ungahambi nakwezinye izinto: ungagwebi abanye ngenxa yento yonke, uzibheke njengesisulu sezimo kanye namaqhinga wezifiso ezimbi.
- Ungesabi . Ngisho noma isimo sibonakala sesongela: hlala phansi, ukuze kungabikho muntu okukuphazamisayo, uthathe ukuphefumula okuncane futhi uphefumule - lokhu kuyokwanela ukubona ukuthi ungaphila kanjani futhi uhlole ngokucophelela ubukhulu benkinga, futhi uthole izindlela zokuxazulula.
Ukuhlakanipha kwaseShayina kuthi: "Uma inkinga ixazululwa, akufanele kube nokwesaba; uma ingasombululwa - nakakhulu. " Lokhu kuzosiqondisa.