Sonke sithanda ukulinda okukhulu isikhathi sonyaka, senza izinhlelo zokuvakasha, sivakashele amabhishi, siphupha i-tan kanye ne-summer light outfits. Kodwa kubonakala ukuthi abaningi abazi ukuthi benzeni ehlobo, kwenzeka ngoba ngalesi sikhathi sonyaka noma kungakalungi noma yikuphi ukuhamba, noma badinga ukuya emzaneni okude, beshiya yonke impumelelo yentuthuko.
Yini ongayenza ehlobo ekhaya?
Yini engase ibe mnandi ngaphezu kwedolobha elinyene, elinothuli ebusweni behlobo? Kunezinto ezimbalwa ezinjalo, kodwa uma usondela ngengqondo, ungathola ukuzijabulisa ngisho nasezimo ezinjalo.
- Thatha ukudansa. Ukuhamba komculo kuye kusisindise njalo ekukhunjweni nasekucindezelekeni, futhi uma uqala ukuthola, ngeke kube nokuphela kwenjabulo. Akudingekile ukuba ubhalise izifundo, ungakwazi ukudansa ekhaya, inzuzo ye-intanethi igcwele izifundo ezahlukene zevidiyo. Awuthandi ukufunda uhlobo oluthile lomdanso? Bese nje uvule umculo owuthandayo futhi uhambise ngaphansi kwawo.
- Ingabe kudalwa isayithi. Futhi uzothola ibhizinisi elisha, futhi uzothola ulwazi oluningi ngesihloko esikuthandayo.
- Thola ibhulogi. Ungazizwa amandla ekudalweni kwesayithi, kodwa ufuna ukwabelana ngemicabango yakho nabanye, bese uqala ibhulogi.
- Awukaze wadlala imidlalo yamavidiyo? Khona-ke sekuyisikhathi sokungena ezweni leqiniso langempela.
- Funda ukudlala isiginci. Yini engase ibe mnandi ngaphezu kokuthatha izintambo zokudlala isiginci ngobusuku obufudumele ehlobo?
- Qala ukufunda ulimi lwangaphandle. Uma sekuyisikhathi eside uphupha ukuhamba uhambo lwangaphandle, bese uqala ukulungiselela manje. Ngenkathi ufunda ulimi, futhi uthembisa ukuya kwelinye izwe, uzethembisa ngonyaka ozayo.
- Funda amaqhinga ambalwa ukuze kube into okumangaze ngayo abangane bakho emhlanganweni.
- Hlela iqembu noma uhlele kanye nabangani ukuphuma ngaphandle kwemvelo.
- Funda ukugibela ibhayisikili noma i-roller. Futhi isikhathi siyothatha, futhi impilo iyasiza.
Yini okufanele uyenze ehlobo emzaneni nentombi?
Tshela umhlali wendawo edolobheni mayelana nesidingo sokuya emzaneni, ngakho izindaba zakhe zingangena ekudumeni okukhulu. Futhi ngempela, benzani abantu ehlobo emzaneni? Ukuphatha izivande zemifino, ukunakekela izinkukhu nemfuyo kuyiqiniso, kodwa ufuna nokuphumula. Nazi imibono embalwa yokuzilibazisa kwasehlobo zasemakhaya.
- Yini okufanele uyenze ehlobo emzaneni? Yiqiniso ukuthi ukugebha, idolobhana elingavamile alikho umfula, echibini noma echibini eliseduze. Ukubhukuda ekushiseni nokuthokoza futhi umzimba uwusizo, ujabulele futhi uphile kahle.
- Ukudoba. Ungakholelwa ekucabangeni, ungakwazi ngempela ukudoba ekudobeni, futhi ungakujabulela futhi. Kunoma yikuphi, zama, uma ungakutholi isidlo sakusihlwa, okungenani uzojabulela ikati.
- Ukuhamba kwehlathi. Umoya omusha, iphunga elidakayo lamakhambi ekuhlanjululeni ama-strawberries, ukufuna amakhowe efihle emthunzini wezihlahla - kunokuba hhayi ukuzijabulisa.
- Ukufunda. Phuma ungene ensimini, thola ngaphansi kwesihlahla se-apula esasakazeka ngencwadi ethakazelisayo, faka isitsha nge-strawberries futhi kungadingeki uchungechunge lwe-TV.
- Isithombe nokudubula kwevidiyo. Ingabe ufuna ukugcina inkumbulo kusuka ehlobo? Bese uthatha izithombe eziningi, qala ukuhola isithombe noma idayari yevidiyo.
- Ukupheka. Zama ukufunda izimfihlo zokupheka izitsha zasekhaya kusuka kunogogo. Mhlawumbe uyakwazi ukubhaka ama-pancake amangalisayo "ama-lacy", uyazi ukwenza kanjani ikhekhe elimnandi nephunga lama-apula ahlanzekile noma une-recipe endala ye-alebyaki.
- Usuku lokubhuku. I-sauna iyindlela enhle yokuphumula, zizenzela ubusuku bendawo ye-spa.
- Thatha umdwebo, izindawo zasemaphandleni azikwazi kodwa zikhuthaze.
Yimuphi uhlobo lwezemidlalo okufanele lwenze ehlobo?
Ngokuhlukile kuyadingeka ukuthi utshele ngemidlalo, kungenzeka ukuthi uhlanganyele ezindlini zombili, nasemzaneni. Uhlobo lokukhetha ukunambitheka kwakho, kodwa ikakhulukazi okufanele uzinake imisebenzi yangaphandle. Kungaba ukugijima, ukubhukuda, i-volleyball yase-beach, ibhayisikili, i-roller skating, i-badminton, ukugibela amahhashi kanye ne-tennis. Abanye bayazibuza ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukungena ezemidlalo ehlobo. Uma kungekho ukuphikisana kwezokwelapha, inkathi efudumele akufanele ibangele noma yikuphi ukuphazamiseka. Kodwa-ke, kungcono ukuyeka izifundo ngesikhathi semini eshisayo, kungcono ukunikeza kusihlwa kanye nokusabalala kwemidlalo yokuzivocavoca.