Owesifazane obuthakathaka oqinile

Ekuboneni kokuqala, isihloko salesi sihloko sizwakala singenangqondo, kodwa uma ubheka eduze, khona-ke kukhona incazelo ethile. Yini efika kuqala uma uzwa igama elithi "owesifazane"? Abaningi bethu bacabanga ngokuthi inkulumo ethi "ubulili obuthakathaka". Kulesi sixhumanisi, owesifazane uthathwa njengobuthakathaka kunomuntu futhi lokhu kuvela kuphi?

Kusukela isikhathi eside, isikhundla salowo muntu kwakuyizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu, futhi ubuholi bezinzalamizi babusa emhlabeni. Okokuqala, le ndoda yayiyinhloko yomndeni ngoba yayingumthengisi wezokudla, ngakho-ke amadoda anikezwa indima ebalulekile emphakathini, ngoba ayefundisiwe, aqeqeshiwe emisebenzini yobuciko, efunda nokubhala, kanti indima yabesifazane yayisesibili.

Manje abameleli bobulili obuhle bafunde zonke izigaba zomsebenzi wezobuchwepheshe, isiteji sezombangazwe, ezemidlalo ngisho nokuzikhandla ikhono lokushayela izimoto. Izwe liyashintsha, futhi abesifazane bayamsiza kulokhu.

Abesifazane abanamandla emhlabeni

Izincwadi ezidumile ezinegama lomhlaba zenza ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi abesifazane besifazane abanamandla nabanethonya abangekho besaba ukuphonsa inselelo yokuqala yaleso sikhathi futhi baba izithombe zamantombazane amaningi esikhathi sethu.

1. Princess Diana. UDi Diana Diana Spencer waziwa ngemuva kokushada ilungu lomndeni wasebukhosini we-Prince of Wales. Wayebizwa ngokuthi "umbuso onobuso bomuntu," ngoba impilo yakhe yonke yayingene ekusizeni futhi yasiza abampofu.
2. UMerlin Monroe. Igama lakhe, lokhu kuyinto yokuqala efika engqondweni uma kuziwa ekuguquleni kocansi emashumini eminyaka adlule. UMonroe waba uphawu olucacile lobulili futhi namuhla luhlala njengesibonelo sezinkulungwane zabesifazane.
3. UMarlene Dietrich. Le ntombazane yaba uphawu lwe-cinema yaseJalimane neyamaMelika ekuqaleni kwekhulu leminyaka lamashumi amabili, ngoba abaningi bayohlala beyisibonelo "sobudlova besifazane."
4. Coco Chanel. Wayenguye owokuqala ukumema abesifazane ukuba bagqoke izikhwama zamabhantshi, ngaleyo ndlela badale isithombe esisha sokwemvelo.

Owesifazane onamandla nomuntu onamandla

Ukuguquka okunjalo okubukhali esimweni sabesifazane emphakathini akunakwenzeka kodwa kuholela ezinkingeni ebuhlotsheni phakathi kobulili.

Amadoda kwabesifazane abanamandla aphathwa ngokuhlukile:

1. Kwabesilisa abathile, owesifazane oqine kakhulu, lokhu yisibonelo sokukhangwa ngokocansi, ngoba bazizwa isidingo sokuzithoba komunye umuntu ongathandekayo futhi ebuhlotsheni ukuba abe yisigqila kuphela.
2. Amanye amadoda amane awabekezeleli isikhundla sobuholi besifazane, ngezinye izikhathi aze afinyelele iphuzu lokuthi abheke abaholi besifazane, abesifazane abasemva kwesondo noma bamane bavele besifazane. Njengoba ngokusho kobuciko obuningi abafuni ukulalela "ubulili obuthakathaka", ngokuvamile ngesizo lokubonisa amandla abo emzimbeni.

Lokhu kusinika ilungelo lokuphikisa ukuthi owesifazane obuthakathaka angaba umuntu oqinile. Futhi njengoba enjalo uyaqhubeka ezwa isidingo sokuvikelwa kwamadoda. Kodwa indoda enamandla eceleni ingase ingabi khona, ngakho ukwamukelwa okubanzi kwombono wokuthi abesifazane ngokulingana okunamandla, ukuphumelela emkhakheni wezenzo zobuchwepheshe awunayo injabulo ekuphileni kwabo siqu.

Ukubukeka kwezinhlobo ezintsha zobudlelwane phakathi kwendoda nowesifazane kuye kwacwaningwa futhi kuxoxwa ngezincwadi ezehlukene zesayensi nezokudweba eminyakeni eminingi edlule, isibonelo salokhu kungaba incwadi kaMilanda Lee "Owesifazane Ongenamandla."

Isikhathi sichaza imithetho yaso, futhi siyaphoqeleka ukuba siyilalele. Naphezu kwalokhu, ungakhohlwa ngokulingana kobulili nokuthi iqiniso lokuthi abesifazane, kanye namadoda abanelungelo eligcwele lokwenza okuthandayo, ukwakha imisebenzi yabo futhi bazibonakalise ngokwabo emphakathini.