Izinkolo zomhlaba, izimfundiso zefilosofi ziphendula lo mbuzo, yiziphi amandla ezingokomoya. Umphefumulo womuntu ongapheli ubonisa ukuthi uNkulunkulu uqobo, kodwa uma abaphikisayo, abangakholelwa kuNkulunkulu bebaza ukungabi khona komphefumulo ngokwawo, khona-ke ukutholakala kwamandla engqondo akukhona kokungabaza komuntu. Abantu bavame ukuzwa ukukhululeka kwemicabango engqondweni, ukunganakwa.
Amandla engqondo - iyini?
Amandla omphefumulo angumthombo wamandla wangaphakathi womuntu, amvumela ukuba abhekane nobunzima nezithiyo, lokhu kuyintando yokuphila, abantu abaseduze, ikhono lokuhlakulela izimfanelo zokuziphatha nezomoya. A. I-Camus, umlobi waseFrance wathi izimfanelo ezingokomoya azinikezwa ngendlela elungiselelwe kusukela ekuzalweni, kodwa ziyalinywa ngumuntu konke ukuphila kwakhe.
Iyini ukubonakaliswa kwamandla engqondo?
Amandla othando olujulile, umthwalo omkhulu, umqondo wokuzibophezela , izihlobo nomphakathi ukuthuthukisa izimfanelo eziqinile zomphefumulo. Ukubonakaliswa kwamandla engqondo emiphakathini yabantu kuboniswa ngezindlela ezahlukene:
- ukuphakama okuphakemeyo - ukuguquka, isintu, uthando;
- ukwethembeka emisebenzini yabo ezimweni ezinzima, ukulahlekelwa;
- ukunqoba ukudikibala ezikhathini ezinzima zokuphila;
- ukuzethemba okukhulu;
- ikhono lokuzihlela futhi uwenze ngokushesha isinqumo ngesikhashana esinzima;
- ikhono lokuhlanganyela ukushisa kwakho nabathandekayo nalabo abaswele.
Kungani sidinga amandla angokomoya?
Ngento engenamhlanje yansuku zonke, ingqondo yomuntu ibhekene nobunzima obukhulu. Amandla omphefumulo empilweni, njengokubekezela, ukukhuthazela, amandla - kusiza ukuthuthukisa ukumelana nokucindezeleka , ukufeza imiphumela efunayo, futhi kubalulekile:
- emndenini, ekukhuliseni izingane, umsebenzi omkhulu kakhulu futhi unamandla kakhulu;
- emisebenzini lapho kudingeka khona ukuzidela okukhulu (imithi, imfundo, ukuzithandela);
- ngesikhathi sokuhlangenwe nakho kwemicimbi engajabulisayo neyingozi.
Kuphi ukuthola amandla engqondo?
Amandla omphefumulo angoma. Umthelela owedlule wezici ezingathandeki, ukungabi nesekelo lokuziphatha kuholela ekubhujisweni "komkhumbi". Umuntu onjalo ubukeka ephukile, engakwazi ukubonisa imizwa eqinile: akajabuli, akathukutheli, akakwazi ukukhala. Lapho ukudweba khona amandla angokomoya, uma kungenjalo ekusebenzeni kwezindaba zansuku zonke:
- ukuxhumana - kusiza ukungavali;
- ukufunda izincwadi ezizimele zabantu abadumile abadlulile, banqoba indlela enzima yokuzidela;
- vumela imizwa ibe njalo, ubanikeze ukuzwakala okugcwele: ukukhala, ukukhamuluka njengengane;
- Ukuhlala emvelo kungenye yezindlela ezingcono kakhulu zokuzwa ukugcwala komphefumulo.
Indlela yokubuyisela amandla engqondo?
Ukwehluleka kwamandla engqondo kungaholela ezinkingeni zempilo ezimbi, kuze kuthuthukiswe ukucindezeleka okuqhubekayo - lokhu sekuyisizathu esikhulu sokubonisana nodokotela. Ukuphumula okusheshayo kuncike eziningana zezizathu: uhlamvu, ubumnene, ukujula kwezinkinga. Kuqaphela ukuthi abantu abancibilikisayo, ngokungafani ne-choleric, i-sanguine ne-phlegmatic, kunzima kakhulu ukubuyisela amandla angokomoya. Izazi zengqondo zincoma izindlela eziningana:
- Thatha isimo sakho esingenalutho ngalesi sikhathi. Zitshele ukuthi "Yebo, manje kunjalo." Ukugxeka, umuzwa wokuhlazeka, ukuzithoba ngenxa yokungabi namandla kwabo lapha ngeke kusize, ukwamukelwa okuphelele;
- ukulala ngokugcwele - ukulala njengoba umzimba uzodinga, ukubuyisela okunamandla kwenzeka ngokulala;
- ukuqonda imicabango elula, amasu okuphefumula;
- ukunciphisa ukugeleza kolwazi: i-intanethi, ithelevishini, amaphephandaba - kuyaziwa ukuthi ngokusebenzisa abezindaba kukhona ulwazi oluningi olungalungile;
- sebenzisa inqubo "yesifungo sokuthula" - amahora angu-24 angakhulumi, ukuxwayisa kusengaphambili mayelana nalokhu okuvaliwe;
- uhambo olungaphandle kwedolobha, kumvelo, mhlawumbe uma kukhona umthombo wamanzi oseduze. Ukucwaninga kwamanzi amanzi kwenza umzimba ube nokuthula;
- isikhalazo kumuntu wezokwelapha uma kwenzeka isimo senzekile. Amaqembu we-psychotherapeutic okuvakashelayo asiza ukuveza imizwa, ukukhuluma endaweni ephephile.
Amabutho amathathu omphefumulo - Orthodoxy
Kuyini amandla angokomoya kusukela ekubukeni kwenkolo yobuKristu. Amandla amathathu omphefumulo ndawonye enza ubuqotho bawo. Obaba Ongcwele bababiza ngokuthi:
- I-Beam of Will (amandla angcwele, ingokomoya, ukuzama ubuhle).
- Ray of feelings (soulfulness, imizwelo).
- I-ray yengqondo (ubuhlobo, isizathu, isizathu).
Izimfundiso zenkolo zisho ukuthi ukwehla kwamandla engqondo kubangelwa ukwephulwa kokulinganisa nokulandela okungalungile kwentando kaNkulunkulu. Amandla okubuya asiza:
- ukuthuthukiswa ngokwakho ngokuziphatha okuphakeme, ukubuyela ekuthandweni komuntu siqu (ubugovu) ekuthandweni koMdali;
- ukugcina ubujamo, ukubekezela, ukugqugquzela amandla , amandla wokuphatha izinto ezincane;
- ukufundwa kwemithandazo, ukugcinwa kwemikhuba - kwandisa ukubamba iqhaza e-Divine futhi kuqede ukukhathazeka kwengqondo engenalutho.
Abantu abadumile abanamandla angokomoya
Abantu abanamandla engqondo njalo bazibheka, bangabangela imizwa ephikisanayo, kepha kaningi lokhu kuhlonipha nokuhlonishwa. Indlela yokuphila eyinkimbinkimbi ibenzima, ngenkathi bengalahlekelwa uthando lwabo lokuphila, umusa kanye nokuhlekisa:
- Umama Teresa - konke ukuphila kwakhe kunikezwe abampofu. Ukuvuka ekuseni ngo-3.30 ekuseni - ukunakekelwa abagulayo nabampofu. Amandla aphezulu kunawo wonke angokomoya.
- U-Yuri Gagarin uyi-cosmonaut yaseSoviet, wakwazi ukuphelela futhi ezolile kuzo zonke izimo ezinzima futhi wabeka abanye ngalesi simo. Wathwala imfundo yazo zonke izakhamuzi zenkantolo yakhe, wenza uthando lwakhe lwezemidlalo kusibonelo sakhe.
- U-Victor Frankl ungumhlengikazi wase-Austria owadabula ikamu lamaNazi ngo-1942. Wavusa intando yabantu ukuba baphile nge-logotherapy. Usize ukuthola incazelo yokuba ngaphansi kwezimo ezingabantu futhi uthi impilo "Yebo!".
- UNico Vuychich ungumkhulumeli wase-Australia owazalwa enesici (ukungabi namalungu). Ngaphelelwa yisikhathi nokucindezeleka kaningi, ngazama ukuzibulala, kodwa uthando lwabazali bami lusiza uNick ukuthola ukusekelwa kuye. Inhloso yakhe ukusiza abanye abantu abaphelelwe yithemba.
Umama Theresa
Yuri Gagarin
UViktor Frankl
U-Niko Vujicic