Amawele amabili awuphawu lwe-Air, okusho ukuthi abantu abazalwa ngalesi sibonakaliso banomlingiswa ongenakulinganiswa, bathambekele ekuhambeni, bashintshe izindawo nokuzijabulisa ezihlukahlukene.
Amadoda azalwa ngaphansi kwesibonakaliso seGemini, abe nemvelo enhle kakhulu, njengokuhamba okuhlukahlukene, ukuhamba nokuhamba nje. Basheshe baphakamise izinga lezemisebenzi futhi bazuze ngokushesha abangane abadingekile.
Ungabuyela kanjani lo muntu-Gemini ngemuva kokuhlukanisa?
Uma owesifazane ekhathazekile ngokuthi angabuyisela kanjani indawo uGemini wesilisa, kuyadingeka ukuba kuqala, ukuba aqonde yena futhi enze isinqumo, empeleni ufuna ukuba nomuntu onjalo. Ngemuva kwalokho, kumele aqonde ukuthi uma ebuyisela emuva, emva kwalokho, emva kwesikhathi sokuthula, emva kokuvuselelwa kobudlelwane, indoda yaseGemini ingaphinda yenza ubuwula, ngenxa yokuthi ikhefu elisha ebuhlotsheni lingenzeka.
Kumele siqonde ngokucacile ukuthi indoda kaGemini ngeke ishintshe, ukuthi iyoba njalo njalo, kodwa sidinga ukwazi enye yemfihlo yakhe encane: ihlonipha umshado osemthethweni nomndeni kuye akuyona umsindo olula. Ngakho-ke, phakathi nobuhlobo ngaphambi komshado nomuntu-uGemini, udinga ukusikisela ngokucacile ukuthi umshado uzoba ohlukile futhi kuphela ongamenza abe mnandi kakhulu.
Uma ukuhlukaniswa phakathi kowesifazane nowendoda kaGemini kungenxa yephutha lomuntu, bese kubuyisela kulula, kodwa kuzothatha isikhathi eside. Omunye kufanele alungiselele ingxoxo ende kanye nesimo esifanele sokuhambisa umqondo, okungukuthi uthinte indoda ukuthi uthethelelwe, futhi owesifazane ulungele ukuqala
Ungabuyisa kanjani isithakazelo seGemini wesilisa?
Futhi, uma owesifazane efuna ukubuyisa umuntu we-Gemini, okokuqala kubalulekile ukuthi uhambise kahle. Udinga ukubukeka uhle kakhulu: kokubili izinwele, ukwakheka , nesembatho - konke kufanele kukhethwe ngokuphelele futhi kubonakale kunhle kakhulu. Kunconywa ukuqoka imihlangano ezindaweni ezahlukene zokuthandana nokuletha i-interlocutor engxoxweni oyifunayo. Njalo ulalele ngokucophelela, ngoba amawele athanda ukukhuluma futhi abone ukuthi alalelwe ngokucophelela.