Manje ukuba khona komthandi wesifazane oshadile, nakuba belahlwa ngamamitha amancane, kodwa babhekwa njengento evamile. Futhi ngakho-ke umbuzo walokho okumele unike umthandi oshadile usuku lokuzalwa, kakade abaningi kakubonakali bengavamile.
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Ngaphambi kokuba ucabange ngalokho ongakunika umthandi oshadile ngosuku lokuzalwa, cabanga ngomthetho oyinhloko wezipho ezinjalo - akumele kubangele ukusola kumfazi. Ngakho-ke, nikeza noma into engewona izinto, noma izinto endlini lapho unemihlangano (uma ikhona) noma izipho ezinjalo, ukubukeka umthandi angakwazi ukuchazela umkakhe - okwethulwa ozakwabo emsebenzini, wathenga. Futhi ungazami ukusiza isipho somthandi wakho ngosuku lokuzalwa kwakho ngokubingelela ekuseni. Ungafaki esikhundleni somuntu, uhlushwa ukuze achaze umkakhe owambiza ekuseni kakhulu.
Yebo, uma wenza konke okulungile, futhi uhalalisela ngesikhathi, futhi ngesipho esingamngcolisi, uzoqagela, khona-ke isihloko somfazi wakho othandekayo sizohlinzekwa kuwe.
Yini ongayinika umthandi wezinsuku zokuzalwa - imibono
- Mhlawumbe, lapho ukhetha isipho, noma yimuphi umuntu usekelwe ezintweni zakhe zokuzilibazisa nokuzilibazisa. Kanjalo nomthandi. Nika okuthile okuhlobene nezenzo zakhe zokuzilibazisa, kodwa kungaba kuhle ukuthola ngaphambili ukuthi yini oyifunayo kuye. Amadoda amaningi anomdlandla omkhulu wemoto yawo. Ngakho-ke, ungesabi ukwethula izipho ngezihloko zezimoto. Uzosho ukuthi izipho ezinjalo ziyingozi kakhulu, ingabe umfazi uzobheka into entsha yomyeni wakhe futhi abuze umbuzo ongakhululekile? Akungabazeki ukuthi lokhu kuzokwenzeka, owesifazane ongahlanganyeli nokuzilibazisa komyeni wakhe, cishe, ngeke abone ukubonakala kwento entsha entweni yakhe. Futhi noma ngabe uqaphela, umthandi wakho angasho njalo ukuthi uzithengile le nto ngokwakhe. Futhi ngeke kubheke sengathi uyasolisa, kodwa bayazi ukuthi amadoda abhekana kanjani nokuphatha amathoyizi abo nokuthi bachitha isikhathi esiningi nemali engakanani kubo.
- Uma umthandi wakho ethanda ukuzitholela utshwala obuhle noma angakwazi ukuyeka ukubhema, mnike izipho ezifanele. Isibonelo, icala lokubhema, i-mini-bar, i-ashtray enhle, isethi yama-cigare, i-flask ezithakazelisayo, ibhodlela le-whiskey elibizayo noma i-cognac. Izipho ezinjalo umthandi wakho angachaza kalula. Uzosho ukuthi ozakwabo noma ozakwethu emsebenzini bamnika. Icala kuphela uma lolu khetho luzokwehliswa, uma yena nomkakhe besebenza enkampanini efanayo.
- Awufuni ukunikeza izinto, besaba ukuthi umkakho omkhulu osolisayo ngeke akholelwe yimuphi incazelo yothando lwakho? Bese wenze isipho-ukushicilelwa. Nikeza indiza ebhalini elishisayo lomoya, i-bowling alley, unike ubusuku bokudlala amabhilididi. Uchitha isikhathi ndawonye ndawonye - hhayi isipho kumthandi wakho ngosuku lwakho lokuzalwa? Ukuhlala kuye ezindongeni ezingu-4 futhi ekhaya lihlupha.
- Izinto zomuntu siqu zesipho zifanele kuphela uma kunensimu ehlukile ohlangana kuyo. Kulolu cala, unganika ama-sneakers, amathawula, izembatho nezinye izinto azokuzisebenzisa uma eza kuwe.
Ngesibindi unganika ama-computer "lotions" ahlukahlukene - amantombazane, izincwadi ze-electronic, ama-flash drive kanye nezinto. Amadoda amaningi kukhona ochwepheshe futhi ayajabula ukulandela izinqubo zekhompyutha, ngakho-ke isipho esivela kulolu chungechunge singachazwa kalula ngokuthenga kwakho. - Kungani abesifazane benothando? Ukuzijabulisa ngokobulili iningi. Ngakho-ke, unike umthandi wakho konke okungakusiza ezindabeni zakho zothando. Futhi-ke, isipho esihle kunazo zonke kuyoba isimanga ngocansi kumuntu othandekayo - usepakethe elihle. Bambalwa amadoda abazoyeka ubuhle bobulili ema-stilettos, ahlanganiswe nebhebheni elibomvu.