Lokhu okushaqisayo emlandweni wokuqala kuqala kuzokunika ukholo ezimangalisweni nasekuthetheleleni inhliziyo yomuntu!
Futhi konke kwaqala eminyakeni engu-40 eyedlule, ngo-Agasti 1977, lapho omunye wabahlengikazi esibhedlela e-Iowa ezwa ukukhala okucindezelwe kwengane ebhakedeni "imfucuza" yezokwelapha ...
Melissa Auden
Kwakukhona intombazane ekhwaza - uMelissa Oden, owasinda ngemuva kokuba umama wakhe oneminyaka engu-19 abe nezinsuku ezingu-5 zokukhipha isisu kwe-hydrochloric ngenyanga yesishiyagalombili ukuze amsindise ekukhulelwe okungadingeki!
Kodwa iqiniso elishaqisayo le ndaba ukuthi unina kaMelissa wayengazi ngalokho "ngenqubo engaphumeleli." Futhi umuntu ocele ukuthula ngo-fetus esaphila kubo bonke abasebenzi kwakungumhlengikazi wesibhedlela nomama wakhe ingxenye, okungukuthi ugogo kaMelissa!
Ngeke ukholwe, kepha umntwana wabe esesibindile ngokuqinile ngesibindi sokuphila kwakhe, ngoba wayezalwa enesisindo esingaphansi kuka-1 kg, futhi ngemva kokuhlolwa kwezinsuku eziyisihlanu ezinobuthi obunobuthi, waqala i-jaundice, ukuphefumula kwakunzima futhi ukucindezeleka kwakulokhu kuhlushwa!
Kodwa, ngenhlanhla, ukucabangela kochwepheshe bezokwelapha ukuthi le ntombazane ayinakukwazi ukubona, ukuzwa nokulahla ngemuva kokuthuthukiswa akuqinisekisiwe. Ngemva kwamasonto amathathu, uMelissa wathunyelwa esigodini esivamile, futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu wamukelwa uLinda noRon Odena, ababazali bakhe abanothando ngempela.
Kuyaziwa ukuthi umndeni wakwa-Oden usuvele ukhulile nendodakazi eyamukelwa uTammy, kanti uMelissa eneminyaka eyisithupha ubudala, lo mbhangqwana unendodana, uDustin, naphezu kokuthola ukuthi "ukungabi nalutho"!
Ngodadewethu omncane uTammy
Ngendlela, uLinda noRon abazange bafihle kuMelissa ukuthi wamukelwa, kepha iqiniso lokuthi wasinda emva kokukhipha isisu, le ntombazane yafunda ngo-14.
Khona-ke leli "qiniso" lathinteka kakhudlwana ukucabanga kwentombazane - uMelissa wakhula i-bulimia, izinkinga zokuphuza utshwala zaqala, futhi ngaphezu kwakho konke, ubuhlungu bakhe obungokomzwelo, wazama ukugoma, ukwenza ... ngokobulili.
Futhi uma le ntombazane isinda esisodwa, khona-ke ingabe isonakalisa okwesibili engavumelekile. Ekupheleni kwesikole, uMelissa wazihlanganisa ndawonye waba umfundi eNyuvesi yaseNingizimu Dakota. Ngeke ukholwe ukuthi, ngokungaqondakali okungaqondakali, wayefundisa lapho ... ugogo owayefuna ukumbulala! Mayelana nalokhu uMelissa wafunda kancane kancane, kodwa ekilasini imigwaqo yawo ayizange ihlangene.
Esikhathini esithombeni: UMelissa nomyeni wakhe - u-Ryan oneminyaka engu-42 ubudala onguchwepheshe we-IT
Ngo-19, uMelissa wanquma ukuthola abazali bakhe. Kusukela ngaleso sikhathi, umbiko wokuphila kwakhe okusha edolobheni lapho umama wakhe ayeke wakhipha isisu waqala ...
Intombazane iyavuma ukuthi ukusebenza ezinqolobaneni zendawo kanye nezikhangiso emaphephandabeni kwakuyizindleko eziphelele zesikhathi. Umphumela wokuqala wabonakala eminyakeni engu-11 kuphela kamuva, lapho ekwazi ukuthola ikheli logogo nomkhulu wakhe. Wabhala incwadi waze wathola impendulo evela kumkhulu wakhe. Kwakukhona ukuthi wayengazi ngomntwana osaphila, kepha umkakhe nendodakazi isikhathi eside akhulumi futhi azi ukuthi bakuphi manje ...
Esithombeni: U-Olivia Melissa wazala indodakazi yakhe endala esibhedlela, lapho umama wakhe ayeke wakhipha isisu!
Ngemva kwesikhashana, uMelissa wathola ikheli lobaba wakhe ophilayo, wazama ukuxhumana naye, kodwa akusizi ngalutho! Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa incwadi eya kuyise yawela ezandleni zomndeni wakhe ngemuva kokufa kwakhe. Baphinde bathi uyise kaMelissa wayevame ukukhumbula ukuthi wayenamahloni ngento ethile ekuphileni kwakhe. Maye, kwavela ukuthi wayazi ngokukhishwa kwesisu okwakusondela futhi akazange avikele intombi yakhe - unina kaMelissa. Nokho, akazange alinge ukulungisa iphutha ngenxa yehlazo, bese sekuphuzile kakhulu ...
Ushintsho lwezehlakalo luqale ngokuthi umzala womama waseMelissa wabona kanjani le ndaba. Wasiza intombazane ukuthola "ukulahlekelwa" futhi watshela indaba yokuzalwa kwakhe. Kuthiwa abazali bakaMelissa bahlangana ekolishi, futhi baqala ukuthandana. Unina wayengumdlali, ngoba ukuya esikhathini okungavamile kwakuvamile. Ngamafuphi, ngaphambi kwe-trimester yesithathu, akazange asolise lutho, futhi ngaphansi kokulawula kwakhe konke kwakuthathwa ngumama wakhe (ugogo kaMelissa). Uyazi kakade umlando wokukhipha isisu.
Ngeke ukholwe, kodwa ngisho nangemva kokuba uMelissa ethole unina, abazange balinge ukuhlangana isikhathi eside futhi bahlangane kuphela! Wonke umuntu wayesaba ukulahlwa futhi wayekhathazeka kakhulu!
UMelissa uyavuma ukuthi akahambisani nomama wakhe futhi wamxolela ngokuphelele:
"Kwakunguhambo olude nobuhlungu oluvela ekuhlazweni nasekuthukuthelweni kuya ekukholweni nasekuthetheleleni. Kodwa ngenqaba ukuhlala nokuthukuthela - lokhu akuyona indlela yami. Futhi enhliziyweni yami kukhona indawo yokuthethelelwa kukagogo nobaba ... "
Ngendlela, namhlanje uMelissa uyajabula emshadweni futhi ukhulisa izingane ezimbili. Wahlangana nodadewabo ababili. Kodwa okubaluleke kakhulu - uMelissa wadala isisekelo lapho esiza khona "izisulu zokukhipha isisu", njengaye. Futhi wahlangana nabantu abangu-223 abasindisiwe!