Isipho kumfana iminyaka engu-14

Nika kunzima kakhulu ukunikeza izipho ezinganeni, ngoba ithoyizi ayisakwazi, kepha into engathí sina nomdala ingaba yinto engafaneleki. Isipho somfana osemusha iminyaka engu-14 kumele sikhethwe ngokukhethekile, ngoba kule minyaka yobudala ukuthi uqonda kakade isimo sakhe somuntu futhi sithinta ngokujulile kunoma yikuphi ukubonakaliswa kwesimo sengqondo kuye, "njengokungathi kuncane."

Isipho somntwana wokuzalwa kuka-14: yini ongayikhetha?

Isipho somfana oneminyaka engu-14 singaboniswa:

1. Kusho ukunakekelwa kwesikhumba ebusweni, umzimba kanye nezinwele, izingubo ezinhle, okuzokwenza ukuba ubukeke kahle, zibukele yena, futhi ngenxa yalokho, njengamantombazane. Lokhu eminyakeni yobucatshangelwe kubalulekile. Izembatho kufanele zifanane nesithombe sayo, izintandokazi, kodwa zingatholakali ukuze uzame ukushintsha isitayela sayo (ngoba abanye abazali basebenzisa le ndlela).
2. Amahora, ifoni, ikhompiyutha nezinye izinto ezidingekayo zobuchwepheshe, okuyinto intombazane engakabi nayo. Ungacela kusengaphambili lokho umfana akudingayo, noma ukhethe isipho naye.
3. Konke okudingekayo ekutadisheni, uma umfana ethanda futhi efuna ukufunda. Kungaba isichazamazwi esihle, incwadi efanele.
4. Ifenisha ( umbhede , ideskiti elisha, isepha ekamelweni).
5. Imishini yezemidlalo, uma ibalulekile (ibhola, amaglavu, iziketi, imifomu, njll).
6. Konke umfana adinga ukuzilibazisa kwakhe.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, izipho "ezihlakaniphile," ezihlukile kokuqala nokungajwayelekile, zilungile. Isibonelo, ibhola lokwenza izinqumo, i-cubi Rubik, iwashi lezemvelo elisebenza emanzini.

Kule minyaka yobudala, labafana bayakwazi futhi ukuqonda izipho ezingabizi kakhulu, ikakhulu uma zivela ngabangane babo, kuyilapho abazali ngokuvamile bekulindele okuthile okuwusizo, okuwusizo futhi okubizayo.