Izibophezelo zobuntu zabazali nezingane

Wonke umntwana ozelwe kuleli zwe, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unempilo noma cha, ufanelwe uthando lomzali nokukhathalela. Yiqiniso, kufanele - lapho izingane zikhula emindenini ejabulayo, lapho umama onothando nobaba bemukela, okungukuthi, ukuhlanganyela ngokuqondile empilweni yengane yabo.

Kodwa, yebo, akubona wonke umuntu olala naye esimweni sengqondo. Imindeni ihlukana , hhayi njalo umthandi wangaphambili ogcina ukuxhumana okubekezelayo noma okunobungane, ukuvumelana ngokusizana ngokubambisana kanye nezibophezelo ezihambisana nomunye wabazali, ngokuphathelene nabantwana abazalwa emshadweni. Ngenxa yalokho, izingane ezimele zilile, ngoba azigcini nje kuphela ukuthi zishiywe umndeni ogcwele, kodwa futhi zithintekile ngokwezezimali.

Kungenxa yezimo ezinjalo, umphenyi empi yempi uba ngumthetho olawula izizathu zokuvela, ukuqedwa kanye nenani lezibophezelo ezihambisana nabazali nezingane. Ake sihlale ngalesi sihloko ngokuningiliziwe.

Ziyini izizathu zokwenzeka kwezinsizakalo zokusekela izingane nezingane?

Ukuvikeleka kwezinto ezibonakalayo kuyisici esibalulekile lapho ikusasa lomntwana lixhomeke khona. Ngakho-ke, umama nobaba, abashadile noma ngemva kokuqedwa kwakhe, banesibopho sokusekela izingane zabo ezincane. Njengomthetho, emva kokuhlukanisa, abazali ngokwabo bavumelana ngokulingana nokujwayelekile kwezikhokha. Kodwa-ke, uma lokhu kungenzeki, khona-ke uma kwenzeka omunye wabazali ingane eyashiywe kuyo, izimali ziqoqwa komunye umzali enkambisweni yokwahlulela.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, ilungelo lokufaka isimangalo lithi:

• umgcini, umphathiswa;
• abazali abakhulu;
• izindikimba zokugcina nokuphatha;
• Ukuphathwa kwezikhungo lapho ingane iphathwa khona noma ikhuliswe.

Ngaphansi komthetho, isikhathi sokunciphisa ukusekelwa kwengane siqala ngokuzalwa kwengane, kepha izinkokhelo zitholakala kuphela ngemuva kokufaka isicelo. Futhi, enkantolo, ungabuyiselwa imali leminyaka emithathu eyedlule, uma izimali zokugcinwa kwengane kule nkathi azitholakali. Ukuqedwa kwezibopho zokugcinwa kwezingane kungenzeka ngemuva kokuba ingane ifike eminyakeni yobudala, uma nje ikwazi futhi inempilo.

Futhi, umthetho ulawula izimo lapho abazali befuna usizo lwezingane zabo ezinamandla. Ngemuva kokuthatha umhlalaphansi, ukuqashelwa ukukhubazeka komsebenzi noma ukugula, futhi kuze kube sekufeni, abazali nabazali abamukelayo banelungelo lokuthola u-alimony.