Noma yimuphi ubuhlobo ngumsebenzi oqhubekayo, odinga ukuxhumana phakathi kozakwethu. Ngakho-ke, imibhangqwana eminingi ihlukana, abangane bayavumelani futhi izihlobo ziphikisana uma omunye wabahlanganyeli enqaba "ukusebenza" ngokwabo kanye nobuhlobo.
Manje ake ucabange umbhangqwana - uthathe indoda nowesifazane - okwathi isikhathi eside basebenza kanzima ebuhlotsheni babo, ukwakha inyunyana eqinile! Ucabanga ukuthi abazange bacabange ukuyeka konke bese baqala ekuqaleni? Ucabanga ngezigidi zezikhathi, kodwa ubuya emuva, ukuvumelanisa nokungaqondani, ukwehluleka nezinye izimfanelo ezicasulayo zomuntu okhethiweyo wakhe noma okhethiweyo wakhe. Kulokuthunyelwe, siqoqe izivumelwane eziyiqiniso ezingu-17 zabantu abanobudlelwane obude nabunzima, ngenhloso yokuvimbela, ukuvimbela nokunciphisa isimo esingavela kuwe. Lungele, amahlaya nezinyembezi zihambisana nomunye!
Into ebi kunazo zonke ebuhlotsheni obude yilezi zokuhlanza ezimbili. Ngaphambili, ugeze wodwa, futhi manje izingubo zaba cishe izikhathi ezingu-2.
2. Njalo isikhathi kukhona ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo mayelana nokuthi ngubani ozothatha iphaceji yokugcina ye-pizza okumnandi. Ngokuvamile, amantombazane anqoba!
3. Ukulala ebusuku kuphenduka umzabalazo wangempela wokuphila. Ngoba omunye wenu uzodinga ukulala, asakaze wonke umthamo.
4. Kumele futhi kukhunjulwe ukuthi imithetho emisha yokusetshenziswa kweshado neyendlu yangasese izofakwa ekhaya lakho.
Kulesi simo, umbhangqwana ngamunye unezamochki yawo ngalokhu. Omunye uthanda ukumisa imingcele yokuhlonipha, enqabela ukungavali umnyango endlini yangasese. Omunye ushintshe ngokuphelele indawo yazo zonke izinto ezibalulekile endlini yokugezela. Futhi othile odizayo uthanda ukuchitha isikhathi ebhajini noma endlini yangasese, efunda izindaba zakamuva, edlala umdlalo weselula noma nje elalela umculo. Kufanele wamukele!
5. Endleleni, umngane ophoqelekile wobudlelwane obunzima luhlobo "lokukhumbuza" ukugeza. Ngiyajabula ukuthi okungenani angikhulumi ngendlu yangasese!
6. Uma ucabanga ukuthi ubudlelwane obude bugcwele izingxoxo zothando ngobusuku obude, bese uphenduka. Ngokuvamile, ikakhulukazi esikhathini sethu, ingxoxo iyenzeka ezingeni lomcabango, ngaphandle kwamazwi, ukufihla esibukweni segajethi.
7. Ihlolwe imibhangqwana eminingi: eminyakeni edlule, ezinye izikhathi ezibalulekile zikhishwa kancane kancane ememori. Ngakho-ke, ungesabi uma, ngemva kweminyaka emihlanu, okhethiweyo wakho noma okhethiweyo wakho akakhumbuli usuku lomngane wakho.
8. Kukhona umkhuba ozovela kamuva noma kamuva kubhangqwana ngamunye. Endlini lapho uhlala khona, izinto eziningi zithola amagama amabizo amahle noma amagama owaziwa nguwe kuphela. Eqinisweni, kuhle!
Ngibiza amaqanda angadli kahle noma izinyoni ezizayo!
9. Imibhangqwana eminingi inamahlaya ambalwa, ecacile wona kuphela. Into ebaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ngisho abakwazi neze ukukhumbuza umlando wokubukeka kwalokhu noma ukuhleka usulu.
10. Ngezinye izikhathi uzobe uthanda kakhulu ukuba wedwa, ukuthi uzojabula ukuchitha ihora noma ezimbili isikhathi samahhala, wenza wena kuphela. Kuyinto evamile - ukuphumula komunye nomunye, ngakho ungesabi.
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11. Uma ubuhlobo bakho bungathí sina, futhi uhlala ndawonye, ngakho-ke awugqoki amabhulukwe noma ibhulukwe.
Ngokuyisisekelo, yonke inhlamba yezocansi, eyayibili iphupho ngaphambili, iphendukela ekubukeni kwekhaya, okuyinto ojwayele ukuyisebenzisa. Yilungele ukuthi ama-panties-pantaloons uzobona kaningi kunokungaphansi kwezindwangu zokukhohlisa.
12. Imibhangqwana eminingi ivuma ukuthi emcimbini osondelene kakhulu, ukulala ngecala embhedeni, ngifuna ukuxoxa ngandlela-thile engcolile.
13. Ukuba nobuhlobo obude futhi obunzima, yonke imibhangqwana iduduza imibuzo ehlala njalo yezihlobo nabangane mayelana nosuku lomshado. Zama ukusabela ngokuthula, ngaphandle kokucindezela umlingani wakho.
14. Ngezinye izikhathi, naphezu kwezinga eliphakeme lokuthembelana komunye nomunye, kunzima kuwe ukuvula umlingani wakho futhi utshele imicabango yakho nemizwa yakho. Kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuthi ubuhlobo besikhathi eside akusona isiqinisekiso sokuqonda kanye nokuvulwa.
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Ubuhlobo obunzima buyasho ukungabi khona kwezimfihlo ezivela komunye nomunye. Ngakho-ke, ngamunye wabalingani phakathi kwesikhathi, kukhona umhawu ekuthandweni komuntu wakhe okhethiweyo.
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16. Imizwelo yothando kanye nemiyalezo enhle yomunye nomunye "cishe", lapho isikhathi se-candy-bouquet siphelile.
17. Okubaluleke nakakhulu, emva kokuhamba kuzo zonke izigaba, uthola inyunyana ephelele yezinhliziyo ezimbili zothando, okuyinto engaphezu kweminyaka kuphela ikhula ngamandla.
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