Emaphupheni akhe, umuntu angabona izinto zangempela, futhi ngezinye izikhathi izinto ezingavamile. Ukuze uthole ulwazi oluthe xaxa, oluphethe izithombe ozibonayo, kuyafaneleka ukucela usizo encwadini yephupho.
Kungani udoti uphupha?
I-Hay uphawu lwezinto ezingalindelekile, kodwa izenzakalo ezinhle ezizokwenzeka esikhathini esizayo esiseduze. I-hay eyomileyo ithembisa umsebenzi omude futhi obabazayo, kodwa lokhu kungase kube uphawu lokuthi maduzane uzofunda imfihlakalo eyothuthukisa. Iphunga elimnandi le-hay liyisibonakaliso sokuthi umcimbi omnandi ulindele esikhathini esizayo esiseduze, futhi uma utshani obomile buhlaba umonakalo, khona-ke umuntu othile pozaritsya into ebiza kakhulu kuwe. Iphupho elinjalo lingachazwa njengesixwayiso sokuthi kufanele uqaphele impahla yakho. Uma ephusheni ulala endlebeni - isibonakaliso ukuthi maduzane impilo izoba ezolile futhi ijabule.
Kungani uphupha ngesikhwama se-hay?
Iphupho elinjalo libikezela ukubonakaliswa kwezimfihlakalo ezifihliwe futhi ezifisayo zibe yiqiniso. Ngenxa yalokhu akudingeki ukuthi usebenzise noma yikuphi amandla, njengoba inhlanhla nenhlanhla kuyokwenza umsebenzi wabo. Inani elikhulu utshani obomile lithembisa isenzakalo esijabulisayo esikhathini esizayo esiseduze.
Kungani uphupha ukuqoqa utshani ne-hay?
Iphupho lapho umuntu esusa ifoni - uphawu olubi olubikezela isimo esingathandeki, esinye sezihlobo zakho singagula. Uma uqoqa utshani obomile emasakeni - uphawu oluvusa ukulahlekelwa okuthile. Iphupho lapho uhlwanyela khona futhi uqoqe hay, uzokutshela ukuthi ungumuntu wesimo sezimali esingcono.
Kungani kungukuthi utshwala buvutha?
Kulesi simo, leli phupho libikezela ukulahlekelwa okuphawulekayo kuwe, futhi kungaba, kokubili kokuqukethwe nokuziphatha. Uma ubeka utshani ngokwakho, khona-ke ungabhekana nezinkinga ngaphandle kosizo lomuntu.