"Indandatho yomshado ayiyona imidwebo elula," ihlabelelwa ingoma eyodwa edumile. Lesi simbozo sothando nokuphila komndeni kusho incazelo engcwele. Umbuzo wokuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwesandla olugqoke ngendandatho yokubandakanya ayinayo impendulo engafanele, ngoba kuzo zonke izizwe kukhona amasiko. Kukholelwa ukuthi umkhuba wokushintshanisa izindandatho ungokwemvelo, naphezu kokuthi uhlobene eduze nesikhungo somphakathi somshado.
Ayaziwa uma isiko lokugqoka izindandatho zomshado savela, kodwa kunombono wokuthi abaseGibhithe bebokuqala ukuwashintshanisa. Babethwala ngakwesokunxele sakhe ngomunwe ongashiwo ngamagama. Ngokomlando, kungumunwe wendandatho othi "isixhumanisi sokuxhuma" senhliziyo nemithanjeni, futhi sibonisa uthando.
E-Rus Rus, labo abasanda kushada nabo baphenduka izindandatho, futhi babengenziwa ngensimbi noma emahlathini ezihlahla. Indandatho ayinasiphetho futhi ayinaso isiqalo, ngakho-ke amadoda omndeni asanda kutholakala akholelwa ukuthi uma ngosuku lomshado luthandana, uthando luyoba phakade.
Ngasiphi isandla abagqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya yendoda?
Njengoba sishilo ngenhla, umbuzo wokuthi yiluphi uhlobo lwesandla olugqoke indandatho yomshado yomuntu kuxhomeke ezweni futhi amasiko avunyelwe kuwo. Ngokwesibonelo, amaSlav agqoka lesi simboli sothando eminwe yesandla sokunene. Imithetho efanayo iyasebenza kubantu baseGreece, ePoland naseJalimane.
Futhi ngakwesobunxele (futhi nangomunwe wendandatho) indandatho yomshado igqoke eSweden, eMexico, eMelika naseFrance.
Ukukhetha kwesandla kufakwe isimo, kuqala, ngenkolo. Ezindaweni zaseRussia nase-Ukraine, ubuKristu bugcwele. Futhi emazweni amaningi aseNtshonalanga, amaKatolika namaProthestani anqoba.
Ngendlela, okuthakazelisayo yiqiniso lokuthi ama-Armenia - futhi ikakhulukazi abambelela enkolweni yobuKristu, agqoke indandatho yokuzibandakanya ngakwesokunxele sabo. Leli qiniso likhuthazwa yiqiniso lokuthi kungakwesokunxele ukuthi indlela eya enhliziyweni isondelene. Ngakho-ke, amandla othando azozibonakalisa kakhulu phakathi nezikhathi ezinzima ebuhlotsheni.
Enkolweni yobu-Orthodox, isandla sokunene sisebaluleke kakhulu - sibhapathiziwe, izifungo zokuthembeka nokunye okuningi. Lamazwe lapho indandatho yomshado igqoke khona ngakwesobunxele, cabanga ngesandla sobunxele kubaluleke nakakhulu, ngoba sisondelene nenhliziyo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi emva komshado, labo abasanda kushada "banikeza izinhliziyo" komunye nomunye.
Kukhona nombono wokuthi njengoba abantu abaningi banesandla sokunene "esisebenza" futhi bafika njalo emehlweni abo, abanye bazobona ngokushesha ukuthi umuntu akhululekile, futhi lokhu kuzokulondoloza emizweni engadingekile yokuzijwayeza.
Ngasiphi isandla amantombazane agqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya?
Abathandi banesinye isiko. Lapho insizwa yenza isipho somthandi, uyayinika indandatho yokuzibandakanya. E-Russia nase-Ukraine, abesifazane bagqoka indandatho yokuzibandakanya esandleni esifanayo sokunene, ngomunwe ongashiwo ngamagama. Ngemuva komshado, kanye nomshado, ungakwazi ukugqoka kuphela.
Ngemuva kwesahlukaniso, ngokuvamile abantu abashade nabo basusa izindandatho. Uma omunye wabashade efa, umfelokazi noma umfelokazi uthatha indandatho yokuzibandakanya ngakwesokunene - kukholakala ukuthi ngale ndlela bahlonipha inkumbulo futhi bagcine uthando.
Yiqiniso, umuntu ngamunye unquma ukuthi yisiphi isandla sokugqoka indandatho yokubandakanya, ngoba abathandi bafaka incazelo yabo ngabanye emasongweni. Futhi kubaluleke kakhulu ukukhumbula ukuthi ayikho indandatho eminwebeni noma isitembu esepasipoti nesitifiketi somshado sikwazi ukulondoloza ubuhlobo nokugcina impilo yomndeni. Ngakho-ke, kudingeka sisebenze ebuhlotsheni bethu njalo, futhi okubaluleke kakhulu - ndawonye, ndawonye, ngoba umshado akuwona nje amasiko, amasiko nomshado omuhle.