Abaningi bakholelwa ukuthi ukufa komuntu othandekayo ephusheni kuyisimo esibi, esithembisa okuthile okubi. Eqinisweni, okuphambene nakho kuyiqiniso, ngoba ngokusho kwezincwadi eziningi zokuphupha, ezikhathini eziningi iphupho elinjalo linesichazamazwi esihle. Ukuchaza iphupho, kubalulekile ukucabangela inombolo enkulu yokuhumusha.
Kungani uphupha othandekayo?
Ezimweni eziningi, iphupho elinjalo, ngokuphambene nalokho, lisho ukuthi othandekayo uzohlala isikhathi eside. Iphupho lapho othandekayo edlula kude nawe, kufanekisela ukukhula okusheshayo komsebenzi , kodwa ukunyuswa kwemiholo kubonisa iphupho lapho ukuhoxiswa ekuphileni okungahambi kahle. Kungcono ukuhlehlisa zonke izinto ezingabalulekile futhi unikeze wonke amandla ukuthuthukisa umsebenzi. Sizobona ukuthi leli phupho labantu abaseduze abazama ukulondoloza liyilo, kodwa lophupho wayengeke abasize. Isakhiwo esinjalo sisho ukuthi, cishe, akazange azalise isithembiso esibalulekile empilweni yangempela. UDreambook unikeza isincomo ukuthi udinga ukuqedela wonke amacala futhi ukhokhe izikweletu zakho.
Ukuze ubone ukufa komuntu othandekayo futhi uzizwe ubuhlungu ngesikhathi esifanayo, khona-ke, maduzane, kuzoba nezinguquko ezibalulekile ezithinta impilo yomuntu siqu. Umbono ebusuku, lapho abantu abaseduze abafa khona, ukulahlekelwa igazi eliningi, ubikezela ukuvela kwezinkinga ezincane zomndeni. Enye iphupho elinjalo lingasho ukuthi umuntu udinga usizo lomphuphi. Ake sithole ukuthi kusho ukuthini, uma ukufa komuntu othandekayo kuphupha, okwakuyinto engeyona engokwemvelo, lokhu kuyinkomba yokuthi leli phupho alivuli ngokwanele kwabanye abantu. Uma ukufa komuntu othandekayo kungenxa yephutha lephupho, kusho ukuthi unethiphu eziningi futhi ufuna ukuphila impilo yakhe. Iphupho lapho othandekayo esedlula khona ekuphileni ekuhlushwa, ubeka umuntu ukuba azisole. Ukuze ubone ukuthi othandekayo ufa ngokushesha kuyisibonakaliso esihle, esibonisa ukuthi zonke izinkinga zizoxazululwa maduzane.
Kuyini ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze?
Ukufa kwabazali endabeni yokulindela ukuthola imali eningi empilweni yangempela, isibonelo, kungaba isipho, ifa noma ukunqoba. Isihumushi sikhombisa ukuthi isikhathi esiphelele size ukuhlola isiphetho sakho ngokuthenga ithikithi le-lottery. Sifunda ukuthi ukufa kwesihlobo esiseduze, udade noma umzalwane, kufana nalokhu, iphupho likhombisa inkinga ebuhlotsheni. Hlaziya izenzo zakho zamuva, mhlawumbe ucasule umuntu kakhulu, ungafuni.
Enye yezincwadi zokuphupha kusho ukuthi ukufa kwesihlobo ephusheni kufanekisela ukuthi empilweni yangempela ithonya lakhe liyokwehla kakhulu, mhlawumbe ngeke uxhumana nabo. Uma ugogo efa, kufanele silindele ukuguquka okukhulu, futhi izinguquko ngeke zithinte kuphela umphuphi, kodwa wonke umndeni. Umbono ebusuku, lapho umyeni washona khona, ungabonakala njengesincoma ukuthi kungcono ukubheka eduze komlingani wakho, ngoba
Kungani uphupha ukufa komngane wakho oseduze?
Iphupho elinjalo ezimweni eziningi liyisimo sokuxwayisa, njengoba kubonisa ukuthi kunezinkinga zezempilo. UDreambook uncoma ukungaphuthelwa ngisho nokungaziphathi kahle okungajwayelekile. Ngisho nokufa komngane kungaba nethemba lokuthola izindaba ezingathandeki, futhi kubo kufanele kubhekwe njengokupholile ngangokunokwenzeka. Ukusuka empilweni yomngane ephusheni kubonisa ukuba khona kokukhathala nokucindezeleka ngenxa yamacala atholakalayo nokuntuleka kwesikhathi.