Ebandleni lobuKristu kukhona amasamente ayisikhombisa ayisisekelo, lapho umuntu axhuma khona esontweni noNkulunkulu. Futhi abazali abaningi banombuzo: indlela yokulungiselela ukubhapathizwa kwengane? Okokuqala, khetha isonto ongathanda ukuqhuba ngalo umkhosi. Okwesibili, khetha abanikazi bomama nomama, isimo esiyimpoqo - laba bantu akufanele bashade. Okwesithathu, khetha igama elingokomoya lomntanakho, futhi ekugcineni uthole zonke izinto ozidingayo ukuze ubhapathizwe - isethi yobhapathizo :
- ukuwela;
- ithawula elihlanzekile noma i-diaper;
- ihembe le-christening;
- Icon ebusweni balolo ngcwele, ogama lakhe lingumntwana elizokwamukela ngemuva kwesakramente.
Izimpawu eziyisisekelo ezihlobene nokubhapathizwa
Ngaphezu kwalokho, kubalulekile ukwazi nokucabangela izimpawu zabantu zokubhapathizwa kwengane:
- Ngosuku lwe-christening akufanele kube khona izingxabano endlini.
- Unkulunkulukazi akufanele akhulelwe.
- Kumelwe kube nenani elingavamile lezivakashi esontweni, kodwa kungcono ukuthi wena kanye nabazali bodadewethu kuphela okhona ngesikhathi se-sakramente.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, ukugcina zonke izimpawu zokubhapathizwa kwengane, qiniseka ukuthi ugcina amakhandlela, ithawula, isithonjana neshembe lokubhapathiza ngemuva kwesigramente.
Ukukhetha igama elingokomoya
Igama lombhapathizo wengane kufanele libe yi-Orthodox. Uma ubiza ingane yakho igama elihle kepha lingelona igama lama-Orthodox, kufanele wenze ubhapathizo lomntwana ngolunye igama. Ngokusho kwamasonto esonto, igama lokubhapathizwa kufanele lihambelane negama le-Orthodox, onosuku lwakhe ubhapathizo ngokwalo ludlula. Kumele kukhunjulwe ukuthi emva kwalokhu ongcwele, ogama lakhe libizwa ngokuthi umntwana, uba ngumphathi wakhe futhi umvikeli kuzo zonke izinkinga zokuphila. Ngaphezu kwalokho, igama ngalinye elingokomoya lithwala isithombe esithile, ngemuva kwalokho isiphetho somuntu, ingqondo yakhe engokomoya, izofihlwa. Ngakho-ke, ukhetho lomuntu ongcwele, ngemuva kwalokhu ingane enikezwa igama lesibili, kufanele lithintwe nayo yonke imithwalo yemfanelo.
Ingxoxo ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa kwengane
Enye iphuzu elibalulekile abazali okufanele bazi ngaphambi kokuba benze isakramente lokubhapathizwa kuyisicoco sokuphoqeleka ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa kwengane nompristi, ngaphandle kwalokhu angeke uvunyelwe ukukhulekela. Kulezi zingxoxo, abazali babuzwa ukuthi bahamba kangaki ezinsizeni, bathola inhlanganyelo, bakhulume ngenqubo yokubhapathizwa kanye nangokholo jikelele. Ngamanye amazwi, ingxoxo ngaphambi kokubhapathizwa kwengane yinkambiso yokulungiselela okuyimpoqo ngaphambi kokusebenza kwesakramente ngokwayo.
Umkhosi wobhapathizo uyenzeka kanjani?
Futhi-ke, kuyathakazelisa kakhulu ukuthi bonke abazali, ikakhulukazi omama, bazi ukuthi ubhapathizo lwengane lwenzeka kanjani, nokuthi ngabe umama uzovunyelwa ukuya esontweni, ngesikhathi senkambiso? Uma ubhapathizo lwenzeka ngemva kwezinsuku ezingama-40 emva kokuzalwa, umama kungenzeka abe esontweni ngesikhathi sesakramente. Ekuqaleni komkhosi, ngaphambi kokuba ingane ingenele efonini, gcina unkulunkulukazi wakhe - abafana bagcinwa yizinkulunkulu, futhi amantombazane angama-godfathers. Ngemuva kokugeza okufanayo, amantombazane anikezwa kunkulunkulukazi, futhi abafana bazinikela kubomkhulu. Ukuze uqedele ukubhapathizwa, abafana balethelwe i-altare,
Amasiko ayisisekelo wobhapathizo
Ekubhapathizweni kwengane, amasiko weSonto Lama-Orthodox enza ukuba onkulunkulukazi banikeze izipho ezithile kuNkulunkulu wabo: ngakho-ke, unkulunkulukazi uthenga umshini - ithawula lokubhapathizwa kwengane, ihembe lokubhapathiza nesigqoko esinomlenze. U-godfather naye uthenga uketshezi nesiphambano, kodwa isonto alinayo izidingo ezithile zezinto ezizokwenziwa kuzo. Isiphambano ngeketani singaba igolide noma isiliva, futhi othile ukhetha ukuthi usana lubopha isiphambano ebhebheni ekhethekile. Ngaphandle kwesipho, u-godfather uhlawulela le nhlangano ngokwayo bese ehlanganisa ithebula lokugubha.