Ukugwema ukukhokhwa kwe-alimony kuyisenzo esithile kumuntu onecala noma ukungenzi lutho, okubangela ukungabi nokuphoqelela kwesinqumo senkantolo mayelana nokubuyiselwa kwe-alimony ngokuqondene nengane encane. Umuntu onjalo onecala angenqaba ukukhokha konke noma ingxenye yenkxaso yakhe yengane, noma angabeka ulwazi olungamanga mayelana nemali engenayo. Umuntu angashintsha indawo yakhe yokuhlala noma umsebenzi futhi angazise ummeli wombuso ngakho, futhi ngezinye izikhathi ngisho nokufihla esiqondisweni esingaziwa. Njengoba ungabona, kunezinketho eziningi zokugwema ukukhokha okunye.
Futhi kuphela inkantolo ingakwazi ukucacisa ukuthi ngabe ukuvele nje ukuhlasela okungahambi kahle, noma ngabe kwakukhona ukuhlukunyezwa ekugwemeni ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony. Kulezi zici lapho inkantolo ingafinyelela khona isiphetho, kwakuwukuphela kokugwema noma ukuhlukumeza okubi ngokukhokha okunye okuvela kumuntu onecala:
- isikhathi sokubalekela;
- ukukhokha ukukhokha kwenzeka ngisho nangemva kokuxwayiswa okuvela emagunyeni okuphoqelela umthetho ngokuphathelene nobugebengu;
- ukuphindwa okuphindaphindiwe kokukhokha;
- indlela yokwenza ubugebengu;
- umboleki ubeka ohlwini olufunwayo.
Uma i-alimony, ngisho nangemva kokuxwayiswa okufanelekile, ayikhokhwanga ngokuzithandela izinyanga ezingaphezu kwezintathu, ukugwema okunjalo ekukhokheni i-alimony sekuvele kufaneleke njengeyingozi. Kodwa ngenkathi umboleki efunwa, unina wengane angathola inzuzo yesikhashana ngesikhathi sokusesha ubaba, ovimbela ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony.
Ngingazigwema ukungafani?
Ngezinye izikhathi, ngokuvamile emadodeni, umbuzo uvela: kungenzeka yini ukugwema ukusekelwa kwengane nokuthi ungayenza kanjani? Ngakho-ke, umthetho uqaphele izintshisekelo zezingane ezincane futhi noma yikuphi ukugwema ukukhokha ukulingana nokuhlukunyezwa komthetho futhi umlandu usongelwa yi-athikili ye-Code Criminal ngenxa yalokhu.
Uma isikweletu sezinkokhelo zokusekela sikwedlula inani lazo ezinyangeni eziyisithupha, umsizi wesikhonzi senkantolo unelungelo lokufaka isicelo ezinkantolo ezigcinwe ngokomthetho ngesigijimi esitshela ukuthi lowo obolekayo unecala lokuhlukumeza ngokungafanele ukukhokhwa kwe-alimony. Kodwa uma kulezi zinyanga eziyisithupha umbolekisi okungenani wayekhokha imali, khona-ke umthwalo wemfanelo wobulelesi awufi. Ngakho-ke, ayikho indlela esemthethweni yokunciphisa ingane yakho izindlela zokudla ezidingekayo kuye. Yiqiniso, kunezinye zezindlela onganciphisa ngazo kancane inani lemali yokukhokha yesondlo:
- ukuvumelana nomqashi ukuthi inkokhelo ikhokhwe ingxenye esemthethweni, futhi ingxenye - "emvilopheni". Khona-ke u-alimony uzobe uvaliwe kuphela eseceleni. Kuphela akuwona wonke umholi ozoya esinyathelweni esinjalo esijeziswa manje;
- ungaxoxisana nobuholi bese ungena esikhwameni esingasetshenziswanga esingenamthetho, futhi uthole isamba, futhi, "emvilophini", kodwa isikhathi eside nawe ngeke ugcinwe;
- Uma unendawo yokuhlala, ungakwazi ukuyibuyisela ingane ngokushintshanisa ukumiswa kwemali yokugcinwa, kodwa ungakwenza lokhu kuphela ngemvume yabaphathi bokugcina;
- uma ukholelwa ukuthi i-alimony eyamukelwa ngumama wengane ichithekele ezinye izinjongo, khona-ke ungakwazi ukufaka isicelo enkantolo ukuze unciphise inani le-alimony;
- kanye nemvume yabaphathi bokugcina, ungavula i-akhawunti egameni lomntanakho futhi, ngaphambi kokuba ufinyelele eminyakeni yobudala, ufake iqhaza kule akhawunti.
Kodwa-ke, ungakhohlwa ukuthi isikhathi sihamba ngokushesha, futhi akusekude lapho umsebenzi uzodingeka ushiywe khona, kuyoba nzima ukuhlala empesheni esesimweni esivela kuhulumeni, kodwa ngeke ukwazi ukucela usizo lwengane yakho uma manje uchitha ukukhokhelwa kwe-alimony .