Ukuze wenze umsebenzi othile ekhaya noma nje ukuphumula okuncane, omama abaningi bafaka amathoni kumntwana noma indodakazi yabo, okwesikhathi eside bengahoxisa ingane. Phakathi naleso sikhathi, iningi labahlengikazi liyavuma ukuthi uneminyaka emithathu ubudala angabuka i-TV isikhathi eside, futhi kufanele, umuntu kufanele akwenze ngaphandle kwakhe.
Yiqiniso, nengane ungakwazi njalo ukuya emgwaqweni - lapho uzothola ukuzijabulisa yena futhi uzokwazi ukuxhumana nabangane bakhe. Okwamanje, le nketho ayifanele wonke umuntu. Okokuqala, uma uphuma nomntanakho, awukwazi ukwenza lutho mayelana nendlu, futhi okwesibili, kungadlulisela imvula ngaphandle.
Kulesi sihloko, sizokutshela ukuthi ungenzani ingane eminyakeni emi-3 ekhaya, kufaka phakathi ehlobo, okwesikhashana, ukwenza izinto ezithile noma ukuzinikela isikhathi.
Kunokuba uhlale endlini yomntwana eneminyaka engu-3-4?
Njengomthetho, noma yimiphi imidlalo yentuthuko idlulisela izingane ezineminyaka emithathu ezingekho ngaphezu kwemizuzu engu-10-15. Yebo, futhi ngalesi sikhathi bahlale bedinga ukuba khona koomama abaningi noma omunye umuntu omdala. Uma ingane eneminyaka engaba ngu-3 ibuhlungu, ayikwazi ukushiya abazali bayo yedwa ngomzuzu, ibuza imibuzo engapheli, futhi icela uMama noma ubaba ukuba badlale naye.
Kodwa ukuthatha umntwana ongenasici eminyakeni engu-3 isikhathi eside kulula kakhulu kunalokho ucabanga. Zama amathiphu alandelayo:
- Phakamisa ingane ukuthi ikusize eduze kwendlu. Chaza ingane ukuthi uyamnika umsebenzi obhekene naso, futhi uzokwenza, njengoba enentshiseko enkulu, azama ukuyifeza kangcono ngangokunokwenzeka. Isibonelo, i-crumb ingakwazi ukuhlunga amasokisi ngamabili, uphume inhlama yokubhaka ngepini yokugcoba noma ugeze imifino yesaladi.
- Uma upheka amadombolo noma ubhaka ikhekhe, unike uhla lwesinkwa kumntanami, bese umvumela ukuba asebenzise njengento yokubunjwa. Ngaphezu kwalokho, ungakwazi ukuthululela ezitsheni ezimbalwa ze-peas, ubhontshisi noma i-pasta.
Izingane kule nkathi zithanda ukuthululela imikhiqizo efanayo kusuka kwesitsha esisodwa kuya kwesinye, hlela ngombala noma usayizi, futhi wenze amaphetheni ahlukene kubo. Uma ufaka ama-manga esitokisini esikhulu , noma enye i-croup encane, umntwana uzojabula "ukudweba" ngosizo lweminwe. Ukuphishekela okunjalo akugcini nje ukuheha amafagots aneminyaka emithathu nje kuphela, kodwa futhi ukuthuthukisa amakhono amancane emoto, okubaluleke kakhulu kule minyaka. - Okokugcina, indlela enhle yokuthatha ingane yindawo yaseshashalazini. Izingane ezineminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala zikulungele ukudlala amahora ngezimo ezihlukahlukene, zizicabange ngomsebenzi owodwa noma enye.